Timeline of Events Around the Disappearance of Tylee Ryan and JJ Vallow

Using Data to Tell the Story

When the Cox family engaged in a pretty aggressive media campaign in May 2020 with what appeared to be a goal of presenting Lori Vallow as a caring mother who would never hurt her children and my brother as a real villain, there were so many conflicting statements, what was already a confusing case, with lots of twists and turns, that much more difficult to follow. I worried that their sudden blitzkrieg of information, after months of baffling silence, could have been a strategic attempt at going for a hung jury, especially since Tylee and JJ’s remains hadn’t been found yet. So I organized a GoFundMe to finance an ambitious campaign to start transcribing all these videos so that I could do my analyst thing and transform it into something called structured data. Once I had the first seven videos transcribed and massaged into a database format, I built a dashboard using a tool called Tableau and made it publicly available. And then I started adding various legal and personal documents into a Documents dashboard to cross-check information from the videos against. The video dashboard currently has 19 videos and the documents dashboard has 10 documents, with more in the works, as funds become available. I also have a publicly available spreadsheet where I keep track of the money that’s raised and how every dollar is spent.

Links

• Dashboard
• GoFundMe
• Tracking Doc
• How to Use It

How I’m Using the Dashboard

Originally I built the dashboard for the benefit of reporters, documentary producers, and law enforcement. But then I decided to use it to tell the story from nuts to bolts using the data.

Because the dashboard includes specific minute marks in videos and page numbers and line items in documents, I can quickly research any topic, such as any time someone from the Cox family talked about my brother or cheating. Or any time a member of the group talked about zombies.

I tried to use Twitter to tell the stories, but a lot of people following the case didn’t have Twitter; those who did got tangled up in the threaded tweets; and Twitter is pathetic at protecting users against trolls. People who were opposed to what I was doing (usually because they had something to hide) were throwing all kinds of flying monkeys at me, and it turned into a ? storm.

Moved to Youtube

I have repurposed my Annielytics YouTube channel for this purpose, until I feel like I’ve told the story I need to tell, that hasn’t been told in the media.

When I’m finished, I’ll go back to blogging and blogging about marketing data. You can follow along and even join in YouTube Lives. I’m running my first one tonight:

The Search is Over

The remains of my niece, Tylee Ryan, and her little brother, JJ Vallow, were recovered from the property of Chad Daybell Wed, June 10th. They were positively identified by the Ada County Medical Examiner June 13th. You can read my statement here.

Background

I don’t normally post personal stuff on my site, but I’ve had a difficult time finding a place I can post a curated timeline around the disappearance of Tylee Ryan and Joshua “JJ” Vallow, so I decided to keep it on my site. You may be wondering why I am following this case so closely. It’s because Tylee Ryan is my niece. Her father, Joe Ryan, was my brother. He was found dead in his home April 3, 2018.

Updates

The page had gotten so cumbersome, WordPress was crashing constantly any time I tried to update the page. So I had to scale back to the bare minimum. I will now show only the past month of updates in the Updates section, and I removed all the extras, like the gallery, Out in the Wild section, etc.

Why?

Good question. I am a former reporter, and I’m really tired of watching Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell walk free while the rest of us agonize over where Tylee and JJ are. One of the toughest aspects to this case is the many moving pieces and twisted storylines. So I thought maybe if I could detangle it a bit, some brilliant reporter, real crime blogger, private investigator, or detective will find a clue that helps to crack this case.

I’ve also seen a number of inaccuracies, and I hope that this timeline will help people grasp the order of events. That said, when I cite a source, it’s not necessarily the original source. It’s just where I found that particular puzzle piece. And when I started curating this timeline, I wasn’t keeping track of any citations, so some elements are missing citations. Use at your own risk. I’ve done my best to track everything down. If you see an error or can pass on a missing citation, feel free to email me at annie@annielytics.com.

Cast of Characters

Tylee Ryan

• Who is she: Biological daughter of Lori Vallow and Joseph Ryan
• Current location: Unknown
• Age: 17
• Last seen: 9/8/19

JJ Vallow

• Who is he: Adopted son of Charles and Lori Vallow
• Current location: Unknown
• Age: 7
• Last seen: 9/22/19
• Last seen: Lori Vallow’s home (pic on iCloud)

Lori Vallow (AKA Lori Daybell)

• Who is she: Biological mother of Colby Ryan and Tylee Ryan, adopted mother of JJ Vallow, and person of interest in the disappearance of Tylee and JJ
• Current location: Madison County Jail in Rexburg, ID
• Married to: Chad Daybell (husband #5)
• Notable: Married Chad Daybell less than two weeks after his wife, Tammy, died of suspicious causes

Chad Daybell

• Who is he: Influencer with the doomsday prepper group Preparing a People
• Current location: Springville, UT
• Married to: Lori Vallow
• Notable: Chad was a cemetery sexton (grave digger) and wrote a book, One Foot in the Grave, about his experiences and interactions with departed spirits.

Charles Vallow

• Who is he: Lori Vallow’s fourth husband and father to a biological son and two adopted sons, one of which is JJ
• Date of marriage: 2/24/06
• Date of death. 7/11/19
• COD: Shot and killed by Lori Vallow’s brother, Alex Cox
• Notable: Lori Vallow, Tylee Ryan, and JJ Vallow were home at the time of the shooting.

Tammy Daybell

• Who is she: Wife of Chad Daybell who died in her sleep of suspicious causes
• Date of death: 10/19/19
• COD: Unknown, awaiting autopsy
• Date of marriage: 3/9/90
• Notable: Tammy was approached by a masked man carrying what she thought was a paintball gun 10 days before her death.

Alex Cox (AKA Alex Pastenes)

• Who is he: Lori Vallow’s brother
• Date of death: 12/12/19
• COD: Unknown (but suspicious)
• Married to: Zulema Pastenes
• Date of marriage: 11/29/19
• Notable: Alex took Zulema’s last name.

Melani Pawlowski (AKA Melani Boudreaux)

• Who is she: Lori Vallow’s niece who followed her into the cult Lori joined
• Married to: Ian Pawlowski
• Date of marriage: 11/30/19
• Former spouses: Brandon Boudreaux
• Notable: Melani married Ian Pawlowski 4.5 months after Ian Pawlowski was divorced and less than two weeks after she and Brandon Boudreaux were divorced.

Brandon Boudreaux

• Who is he: Former husband of Melani Boudreaux and father of four children who was shot at
• Married to: N/A
• Former spouse: Melani Boudreaux
• Notable: Brandon is shot at 10/2/19

Zulema Pastenes

• Who is she: An LDS member and self-professed emotion code practitioner (she listed cuddling services in one of her profiles)
• Married to: Alex Cox
• Date of marriage: 11/29/19
• According to her daughter Zulema had also planned to move to Rexburg with Lori Vallow, Alex Cox, and Melani Pawlowski (source).
• Notables: Zulema married Alex Cox less than two weeks before his death; Cox took Zulema’s last name; and her 25-year-old son, Joseph Lopez, found Cox unresponsive in the bathroom, didn’t know his last name, and referred to Cox as his mom’s boyfriend, not husband.

Colby Ryan

• Who is he: Lori Vallow’s adult biological son, Tylee and JJ’s half brother
• Married to: Kelsee Ryan
• Notable: Colby never knew where his mom and siblings moved to after they left Chandler, AZ.

Larry and Kay Woodcock

• Who are they: JJ’s biological grandparents, Kay is Charles Vallow’s sister**
• Notable: Larry and Kay have offered a $20,000 reward for information leading to the discovery of JJ and Tylee (source).

Note: Because Charles Vallow is JJ Vallow’s adopted father, Kay Woodcock is technically both JJ’s aunt and grandmother, but she identifies as JJ’s grandmother.

Joseph Ryan

• Who is he: Lori Vallow’s third husband and biological father of Tylee Ryan and adopted father of Colby Ryan
• Date of death: 4/3/18
• Notable: Alex Cox went to jail for assaulting Ryan with a stun gun and allegedly threatened to kill Ryan (source). Also, Lori Vallow was the only next of kin the ME’s office had at the time of Ryan’s death. She never returned any of their calls or notified me of my brother’s passing, even though we had been friends since 2002 and she had my contact info. There was also no funeral for him. Another family member was contacted by a funeral home more than a month after he had died.

Melanie Gibb

• Who is she: friend of Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell and the one Lori said Tylee Ryan and JJ Vallow were with
• Notable:
  • Early on someone said Chad was a guest in this kickoff episode, but I can’t confirm since the recordings have been taken down.
  • In Feb 2019 Chad wrote the forward of her book, Feel the Fire.
  • She is unresponsive to Rexburg Police Department’s attempt(s) to get ahold of her Nov 26th (the day they question Lori and Chad about the whereabouts of JJ Vallow), forcing RPD to reach out to the Gilbert Police Department. She doesn’t speak to them until the next day, giving Chad and Lori significant lead time to flee the state.
  • She waits 10 days to inform LE in Rexburg that both Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell had contacted her separately on Nov 26th and asked her to lie to detectives and tell them JJ was with her.
  • She initially lied to police and said that JJ Vallow had been with her. Her autistic son also told police he had seen JJ. Gibb didn’t come clean about lying for 10 days.
  • A source close to Gibb originally said she has retained an attorney is cooperating with authorities. She later told Nate Eaton from East Idaho News that she didn’t need a lawyer because God was on her side.
  • I have a number of issues with Melanie Gibb’s claims and what I believe to be her role in this tragedy. I addressed them in a YouTube Live. (It’s long, but there are links to each section in the descrip.)

Timeline

Note: I sometimes cite confidential sources. Interpret these claims as allegations just as you would most items in the timeline. I also sometimes fill in redactions from the FOIA docs (documents released in response to a Freedom of Information Act request) with names that fit. These are approximations and shouldn’t be treated as fact unless they are confirmed through another source. This does sometimes happen. To wit, one agency will redact a detail and another will leave it unredacted, or one document will redact something and another will leave it unredacted.

8/5/07: Alex Cox is arrested in Austin, TX for aggravated assault – second degree against Lori Vallow’s third husband, Joseph Ryan. Cox assaulted Ryan with a stun gun and threatened to kill him. Ryan had just finished a supervised visit with his four-year-old daughter, Tylee Ryan. Ryan injured his back and sprained his wrist in the fall. Cox spent 90 days in jail (source 1 // source 2).

Aug – Oct 2008: Alex Cox sends a friend a letter asking her to send him Joseph Ryan’s picture, address, and license plate number in jail, stating once that “it would be popular in here” and “some of the guys would like to hangout [sic] with him” (source 1 // source 2).

3/17/18: Charles Vallow’s mother, Tilda Doolan, dies (source).

3/21/18: Charles Vallow’s mother, Tilda Doolan, is buried. It’s reported that Lori Vallow didn’t travel to Louisiana for the funeral with her then-husband (source).

Note: Lori’s third husband, Joseph Ryan, was estimated to have died one to two weeks before he was found, providing a possible overlap with the time Charles was out of town for his mother’s funeral. Just noting the overlap, not accusing Lori of playing a role in Joe’s death.

4/3/18: Joseph Ryan is found dead in his apartment in Phoenix, AZ. Autopsy lists arteriosclerotic cardiovascular disease as cause of death (source).

May 2018: Lori Vallow expressed fear about the end times during my visit to their home, saying that sometimes she thinks it would be better to put her kids in the car and go over the side of a cliff.

9/21/18: Lori meets Jason Mow in the Celestial Room of the temple. He says he’ll pass her information along to Melanie Gibb (source).

9/23/18: Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell supposedly meet, according to an anonymous email that was allegedly from a close friend of Chad (source). This has never been verified.

Note: In light of the fact that Lori Vallow, Chad Daybell, Alex Cox, and other co-conspirators conspiring to murder Tammy Daybell, Tylee Ryan, and JJ Vallow in October 2018, this claim is suspect (see notes under 10/1/18 and 10/26/18).

Oct 2018: Chad Daybell starts emailing Lori Vallow (source, 00:34 minute mark)

Note: In light of the fact that Lori Vallow, Chad Daybell, Alex Cox, and other co-conspirators conspiring to murder Tammy Daybell, Tylee Ryan, and JJ Vallow in October 2018, this claim is suspect (see notes under 10/1/18 and 10/26/18).

10/1/18: Lori Vallow reaches out to Jason Mow via email after meeting him at the temple, an event that Jason Mow recalled in a podcast with her with great fondness (source 1 // source 2).

10/1/18: LE’s first record of Lori Vallow, Chad Daybell, Alex Cox, and other co-conspirators conspiring to murder Tammy Daybell (source // p 7).

10/4/18: Melanie Gibb claims in an interview with Chandler PD that this was the date she met Vallow (source).

10/12/18: Approximate date Charles Vallow reaches out to a friend in the insurance business to ask for help getting the payout from Joseph Ryan’s life insurance policy (source: confidential). This is not verified in any paperwork or court testimonies to date.

10/19/18: Lori Vallow shares in a testimony at a group gathering in Melanie Gibb’s home that she wanted to murder her third husband, Joseph Ryan. She stated that she told her bishop at the time he needed to either give her a temple recommend or she would murder Ryan. She also provided justification for her murderous desire from the Book of Mormon (source, 2:12:26 minute mark).

10/26/18: Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell meet at a Preparing a People event in St. George, UT (source, 4:39 minute mark). Melani Boudreaux was there to (source).

10/26/18: LE’s first record of Lori Vallow, Chad Daybell, Alex Cox, and other co-conspirators conspiring to murder Tylee Ryan and JJ Vallow (source // pp 2-4).

10/27/18: Chad Daybell starts performing Google searches for members of Lori Vallow’s family and “many obituaries” (source). 

Note: Color me jaded, but I’m suspicious of LE’s clumping of obituary searches with searches for family member names. Lori Vallow had just shared her “testimony” about how she wanted to murder Joseph Ryan at Melanie Gibb’s house the week before. They could be doing Phoenix Police a solid by clumping this heterogeneous information together. 

11/1/18: Approximate date Lori Vallow receives life insurance payout, according to a confidential source. The delay and trouble with receiving the payout may be suggestive that Tylee Ryan, who was a minor at the time, was the beneficiary. This is not verified in any paperwork or court testimonies to date.

CORRECTION: Tylee wasn’t listed as a beneficiary in her father’s life insurance policy. Lori was the primary beneficiary.

11/16/18 – 11/17/18: Chad Daybell speaks at Preparing a People event in Mesa, AZ, and stays with Charles and Lori Vallow (source 1 // full transcript // source 2, 00:59 minute mark).

11/17/18: Lori Vallow’s audio files in her iCloud account show a recorded speech given by Chad Daybell in Arizona (source).

12/5/18: Melanie Gibb and Lori Vallow introduce their new podcast, Time to Warrior Up.  (source 1 // source 2 // recovered recording of podcast). Description of the podcast:

Jason Mow of the very popular www.TheWarChapters.com has been speaking to Youth and their Parents from all over the U.S. about what it means to be a True Modern-Day Warrior for good. “Time to Warrior Up” is a nationwide movement to become all that we were destined to become in a shifting world that needs great leaders. Of course, what would Warriors be without great WOMEN of FAITH and COURAGE? That is why Melanie Gibb and Lori Vallow had the idea to do this podcast, featuring powerful women, mothers, youth and mentors to encourage others along the pathway toward a hopeful future! They will include many unique guests who will inspire all of us to Aspire to the HIGHER within! EACH OF US were born for greatness. NOW, we have the “HOW’s” of implementing the Creeds, Tools, Steps, and Processes of The Warrior Ethos! We are marching toward victory…together! To buy Jason’s Books “A Hero Rises,” and “Teancum: The Ghost Soldier 1 & 2” go to his website: www.TheWarChapters.com These Books are also available at Deseret Book & Amazon. For more free Educational & Inspiring Videos, visit us at: www.PreparingAPeople.com

Jan 2019: JJ Vallow’s autism medication, Risperidone, is filled for the last time (source). The affidavit of probable cause also states that the bottle still had 17 pills in it and that his prescription had not been filled in Idaho:

During the search of Lori’s apartment, police found an autism medication prescribed to JJ. It was filled in January 2019 and still had 17 pills in the bottle, according to documents. Police verified that the prescription has not been filled in Idaho (source).

Other notables during this same time:

• Vallow’s former neighbors in Rexburg reported that JJ was easily angered, out of control, and playing outside unsupervised. You can hear him in a neighbor’s Ring camera video telling another boy to “get the hell out of here” (source, 1:14 minute mark).
• Vallow’s former neighbors said Lori never told them JJ was autistic. And when confronted about JJ’s behavior and lack of supervision, she told two different neighbors that JJ was her niece’s “drug baby” (source).
• According to divorce documents Charles Vallow filed, Lori also took JJ’s medication when she disappeared for 58 days. It’s possible that she kept that bottle that she took, and Charles had JJ’s script refilled when he got him back. RPD may have found this partially used bottle she had been holding onto since January.
• If these claims are accurate, Lori Vallow may have stopped giving her autistic son his required medication up to eight months before he was murdered.

1/1/19: Lori and Charles move to Gilbert (source).

 

1/22/19: Chad Daybell emails Lori Vallow the documents with the light and dark ratings of her family members (source).

Note: This has been widely reported as having been sent 10/30/18, with a screenshot, but the subject line is incorrect as well as the date. The subject line in the incorrect screenshot is “Family history documents” where the actual email subject’s line was “Family history records” (screenshot of incorrect email // screenshot of correct email).

1/28/19: Lori Vallow allegedly transfers $10,000 from Charles Vallow’s business account into their personal account before moving the money into an unknown account (source // ledger). Lori also transfers 2,000 of Charles Vallow’s Enterprise points to a personal account (source), although Charles wouldn’t discover the transfer until approximately Feb 6, 2019 (source).

1/29/19: Lori Vallow allegedly transfers an additional $25,000 from the business account to the joint account, and then from the joint account to the same unknown account at Compass Bank, leaving the account at less than $1,000 (source // ledger).

1/29/19: According to a petition for an Order of Protection filed by Charles Vallow against Lori Vallow, Lori made several disturbing statements and threats against him (source). These include:

• She was a god.
• She was assigned to “carry out the work of the 144,000 at Christ’s second coming in July 2020.”
• She would have to murder him if he got in her way and tried to stop her.

1/30/19: According to a petition for an Order of Protection filed by Charles Vallow against Lori Vallow, Lori made several more disturbing statements and threats in a phone call (source 1 //source 2):

• She didn’t trust him.
• She would need to kill him when he got home.
• She would have an “angel” there to help dispose of his body.
• She knew his real name was Nick Schneider. Allegedly, when Charles asked Lori who Nick Schneider was, she replied, “Nick is your real name,” Lori said, according to the documents, “Nick killed Charles and has taken his identity.”
• He’d “have to go and painfully.”
• She also threatened to destroy him financially, according to court documents filed by Charles.

Note: Lori Vallow’s friend, April Raymond—who Vallow stayed with during part of the 58 days she went missing—also claimed in an interview on Dateline‘s “Where Are the Children?” that Lori said Charles was dead and had a demon living inside of him. According to Raymond, she later changed her story and said he was alive but that any day she (Vallow) was going to get a call that he was dead (source, 15:57 & 21:38 minute marks).

1/30/19: Lori Vallow allegedly cancels Charles Vallow’s flight home, which he finds out when he arrives at the airport in Houston, TX. Charles buys a $600 last-minute ticket to Phoenix. After his plane lands, Charles finds out his truck was stolen from the airport parking lot. Lori had allegedly gone with a friend to the airport and taken his truck. He then comes home to a house that had been emptied. Charles also claimed that it took Lori three days to disclose where she’d left the truck. Charles was forced to rent a vehicle during that time (source // order for temporary custody, p 3, para ).

Let’s first take a look at some of the OTHER acts of cruelty Charles reportedly came home to:

• She wiped out his business account, withdrawing $35,000. That’s been reported on quite a bit. But one thing I haven’t seen reported on at all is the smaller withdrawals made after the $25,000 the day before. According to the ledger, after the $35,000 in withdrawals, the account had $911.53 remaining. But then there are two more withdrawals made on the 30th: one for $500 and then another for $250, leaving the account with $161.53. And THEN $100 was put toward a credit card payment, leaving the account with $61.53. I don’t know if these were made by Lori. If they were, it demonstrates a chilling level of cruelty.
• She hid his clothes and computer in what appears to be an attempt to cripple him in his business. Even his underwear.
• She did this right before payroll was due, leaving him vulnerable to lawsuits. She victimized every employee in Charles’ company with this theft.
• She took their disabled son’s meds, iPad, clothes, and service dog’s collar.
• She changed the locks to the house.
• Then she went MIA for 58 days and didn’t tell Charles where she was.

1/30/19: Lori Vallow disappears to an unknown location, according to then-husband, Charles Vallow (source 1 // source 2, 1:02 minute mark // source 3, para 3). She was allegedly gone for 72 days.

Notable: At least part of that time was spent in Hawaii with daughter Tylee Ryan, as well as with her brother, Alex Cox who lived nearby in Gilbert, AZ (source).

1/30/19: Lori sent a text to Kay Woodcock that caused Charles Vallow to be “shocked beyond belief” when he read it. He said Kay sent it to him 2/1/19. By his response, it sounds like it was her allegation that he had cheated on her (source):

Lori if it somehow makes you feel better to make these kind of accusations then I certainly can’t stop you. BUT for the record you and I BOTH know it’s ridiculous. You are my one and only for 14 years. Period.

1/31/19: Charles Vallow tells Lori Vallow not to go to the temple because her temple recommend had been suspended (source).

1/31/19: Lori Vallow is compelled to report to the Gilbert Police Department in regard to a harassment call for service submitted by Charles Vallow (source). Police are also informed about a petition for an involuntary hold at Community Bridges. Police say Lori would be allowed to go to the facility willingly to talk to staff. If she did not, she would be taken involuntarily.

Note: One of the Gilbert PD officers gave Lori tips on how to evade a pickup for the psych eval on nine different occasions during the interview, going so far as to say he didn’t know how they were going to “get that to go away” and even diagnosed her on the fly: “But just talking to you, I mean, I don’t see you being a danger to yourself or anybody else. You get your kids to school.” This section of the interview starts at the 13:47 minute mark of the bodycam video (source).

Feb 2019: Chad Daybell writes foreword for colleague and friend Melanie Gibb’s book Feel the Fire (source // screenshot).

Feb 2019: Lori Vallow, upon landing in Kaua’i with Tylee Ryan, calls her friend, April Raymond, to tell her she was leaving Charles and asked if they could stay with her (source**, 16:52 minute mark).

Keith Morrison: Then, about eight months later, early February, 2019—about a year ago now—April got a strange phone call from Lori.

April: She said that she had just landed in Kaua’i. She was leaving Charles. And she asked if she could stay with me.

**This episode has since been removed from NBC’s website.

2/4/19: Charles Vallow files a petition for an Order of Protection against Lori Vallow, citing incidences listed in the entries for 1/29 and 1/30 (source).

Note: Lori was never served the document because process servers were unsuccessful in locating her.

2/4/19: Lori Vallow secures two new phone numbers (source).

2/5/19: Lori Vallow flies into Salt Lake City and flies back out the next day (source: confidential).

2/5/19 – 2/20/19: JJ Vallow is absent from school at L.I.F.E. Academy in Gilbert, AZ. Charles Vallow withdrew him and took him to Houston 2/11/19 until he felt safe (source 1 //source 2).

Note: JJ was in and out of L.I.F.E. and back and forth between Phoenix and Houston over the next few months. I’m collecting these dates in one place because I think they tell a story of just chaotic this time period was:

• 2/4/29: Charles files a petition for an Order of Protection against Lori.
• 2/5/19 – 2/20/19: JJ is absent from school at L.I.F.E. Academy in Gilbert.
• 2/11/19: Charles officially withdraws JJ and tells L.I.F.E. officials he’s taking him to Houston until he felt safe.
• 2/21/19: JJ returns to L.I.F.E. Lori Kleinman from L.I.F.E. files a report with CPS because Charles tells officials Lori’s still missing.
• 3/1/19: Charles files to dismiss divorce proceedings but takes JJ out of school and moves back to Texas again.
• 3/7/19: Charles formally withdraws JJ and moves to Houston again.
• 3/29/19: Lori Vallow and Tylee join Charles and JJ in Houston.
• Late Jun: Lori calls L.I.F.E. and says that JJ and Charles were back in Phoenix, and they wanted to enroll JJ in their summer program. (Charles hadn’t moved back yet.)
• 7/11/19: Charles Vallow is shot and killed by Lori’s brother, Alex Cox. He had an appointment to look at apartments that morning to move back to Phoenix.
• Sometime between 7/22/19 and 7/26/19: Lori meets with L.I.F.E. officials and claims Charles committed suicide the week before and tells them JJ didn’t know. They search Charles’ name on Google and find out he was actually shot and then file another report with CPS.
• 8/5/19: Fall semester begins.
• Late Aug: JJ tells his teacher, “My dad is not in heaven; he is traveling.”
• 8/30/19: Lori has JJ Vallow’s service dog, Bailey, picked up by Dog Training Elite in Arizona.
• 8/31/19: Lori moves with JJ and Tylee to Rexburg, ID.

2/5/19: Charles Vallow is threatened with legal action because of not being able to meet payroll due to the $35,000 Lori Vallow withdrew from the business account (source). According to the divorce petition, Charles owes $22,500 in commission to a few contracted representatives (source).

2/6/19: Approximate date Charles Vallow realizes Lori Vallow transferred 2,000 Rent-A-Car points out of their joint account. Charles also finds out Lori had called J.J.’s school to ask if he was in class. He was worried she may have been planning to use the rental car points to potentially leave the state and take J.J. with her (source).

2/8/19: Charles Vallow files for divorce from Lori Vallow (source // documents).

2/8/19: Approximate date Charles Vallow removes Lori Vallow as sole beneficiary from his life insurance policy upon the advice of Charles’ attorney, Taylor Lawson (source, 00:54 minute mark).

Note: I approximate this date because Charles’ attorney allegedly advised him to remove Lori when he filed for divorce. From an Fox 10 article published Feb 13, 2020 (source):

Charles’ former attorney, Taylor Larson, told Lum that it is rare to make changes to life insurance beneficiaries way ahead of a divorce being finalized, but Charles did tell the lawyer that he feared for his life, and did not want Lori to know he planned remove her from the policy.

“Because of the circumstances surrounding it, with him fearing for his life and really stressing to us there’s some credibility here, and so we went ahead and advised him to change it right away,” said Larson.

2/10/19: Lori Vallow flies with Tylee Ryan to Kaua’i, HI, according to then-husband, Charles Vallow (source, 1:02 minute mark). She was allegedly gone for 58 days.

UPDATE: Lori was gone a total of 72 days, not 58 (source). Charles had written “58 day” at one point in an email, and it stuck.

Notable: At least part of that time was spent in Hawaii with daughter Tylee Ryan, with her brother, Alex Cox, who lived in AZ, and Chad Daybell in Rexburg, ID (source).

2/11/19: Charles Vallow visits L.I.F.E. Academy and met with school officials, making a handful of disturbing claims (source):

• Lori had “gone crazy.”
• Lori was “hearing religious voices.”
• Lori had “disappeared to an unknown location.”
• He had secured a protection order against Lori.
• He was pulling JJ out of school and taking him out of state until he’s safe.

2/14/19: Preparing a People speaker Mike Stroud announces he was excommunicated from the LDS church for apostasy (source).

2/15/19: Charles Vallow files a document asking for temporary custody of J.J., exclusive use of the house and vehicle, return of the stolen money and return of his and J.J.’s personal items. Several attempts were made to serve Lori, but process servers were unsuccessful, even though Lori’s car was seen in Alex Cox’s driveway when a server tried to serve her there. She was reportedly living with her brother, Alex Cox, at that time (source).

2/15/19: Earliest reference to Charles Vallow as ’Ned’ came from Alex Cox to Lori Vallow:

         Ned was at the temple yesterday looking for you. He thinks you are staying with me.

         There was no response.

2/15/19: Earliest reference LE could find to Charles Vallow as ‘Ned’ was a text from Alex Cox to Lori Vallow (source):

Ned was at the temple yesterday looking for you. He thinks you are staying with me. 

There’s no response from Lori.

2/15/19: Lori Vallow and Melanie Gibb travel to Boise, ID, and return the 17th (source: confidential).

2/16/19: Preparing a People holds a one-day conference in Boise, Idaho. Chad Daybell is one of the speakers (conference flyer // PAP statement that includes location of Chad’s last speaking engagement).

Note: It appears Charles believed Lori Vallow was planning to attend this event, which led to an attempt by process servers to serve Lori with papers at the airport.

When Charles learned Lori was going to Boise with a friend, he “made attempts to serve (her) at the airport, a hotel, and a public event.” All attempts were unsuccessful, and Charles came to believe that Lori had changed her travel plans at the last minute (source).

2/16/19: Zulema Pastenes, Sarena Sharp, Melanie Gibb, and Audrey Barattiero also attended and shared a hotel room (source)

Mid Feb 2019: The Daily Mail reported in January 2020 that Lori Vallow and Alex Cox had a “knock-down, drag-out fight” in the middle of the street fight while she was living with him “around a year ago.” The fight between Vallow and Cox was reportedly so bad that neighbors were close to calling the police on the “warring siblings.” Neighbor Donny Self told the Daily Mail, “She was screaming at him accusing him of bringing disgrace on their family.” After it was over, Vallow left the house she had been sharing with her brother and never came back, Self said.

Note: Until I get further clarification on the timing of this fight, I’m going to drop it here in the timeline because over the overlap in neighbors reporting that the fight had happened about a year prior to January 2020, and the process servers note that both Lori and Alex’s cars were in the driveway. Process servers also tried to meet her at the airport because Charles believed she was traveling to Boise, ID, with a friend, and we know from a flyer that Chad Daybell (the man Lori would marry before the year was over) was speaking at a Preparing a People conference in Boise Feb 16. (See entry for 2/16/19.)

2/21/19: JJ Vallow returns to L.I.F.E. Academy in Gilbert, AZ. Lori is reported to still be MIA (source).

2/21/19: Approximate date staff at L.I.F.E. Academy in Gilbert, AZ, make a report to CPS regarding JJ because Lori Vallow had still not been located (source).

Late Feb: Charles Vallow makes his sister Kay Woodcock the beneficiary of his $1 million life insurance policy (source 1 // source 2).

3/1/19: Charles Vallow files to dismiss divorce proceedings (source).

3/1/19: Charles removes JJ Vallow from L.I.F.E. Academy again and takes him back to Houston.

3/2/19: According to an email from Charles Vallow to Lori Vallow, Alex Cox accuses him of taking JJ (i.e., kidnapping him) and trying to put Lori in jail (source).

3/2/19: Alex Cox forwards a text to Lori Vallow that appears to be from their mother, Janis Cox, who adamantly defends Charles, expresses gratitude that he turned their phones back on, and says she and Barry can’t judge him even if he’s been cheating with “hookers” (source):

Love you to al. I do realize all of that. Realize this .. lori canceled his trip home, his his truck, took all of his clothes and drained the bank account. If I was Charles I would be upset and do hurtful things, so would you. Also, even if Charles cheated with hookers, you dad and I can not ever judge… Charles has never done anything but support me, and love me. I love lori with all my heart. I will help her in anyway a I can. But, because I have been talking to Charles with the spirit guiding me, even is he doesnt have the spirit, it has lead him not to go through with a divorce, and decided to turn on all the cell phones and put them back in Lori’s name and move out of the house and is going to pay for lori to move back in, no strings attached. So if that happens, just know the lord works in mysterious ways, sometimes things that look black and white are actually grey. I love you, I would love to talk to lori, but I haven’t heard from her. I know I’m lead by the spirit in my actions.

3/2/19: Charles Vallow goes to Summer Shiflet and Alex Cox’s houses looking for Lori Vallow (source).

3/3/19 – 3/5/19: Lori Vallow’s earliest known flight to Idaho via Allegiant Airline (source 1 // source 2).

Note: According to a text from Charles Vallow, Lori traveled back to Arizona on 3/5/19. This return flight isn’t confirmed in the FOIA docs.

3/6/19: Court approves Charles Vallow’s dismissal of divorce proceedings (source).

3/7/19: Charles Vallow formally withdraws son, JJ Vallow, from school in AZ and moves to Houston, TX (source).

3/9/19: Charles Vallow emails Lori an appeal to come home, reestablish contact with them, and see their son, JJ (source).

3/9/19: Charles Vallow forwards Chad Daybell’s rating email that he sent Lori Vallow to his sister, Kay Woodcock (source).

Author’s Note: This document would have shed light on why Lori accused him of being a dark spirit. Tylee Ryan received the darkest rating of any living person on the list—eclipsed only by her father (and my brother), Joseph Ryan who had been designed as “sealed away” so I’ve always been mystified why family members didn’t advocate for Tylee. They saw how Charles was being tormented and was eventually shot and killed for being a “dark spirit.”

3/9/19: Lori Vallow sends a text to Alex Cox about Charles Vallow, who they referred to as ‘Ned’ after the demon that had supposedly possessed him: “Apparently it is tied to Ned being gone ?? hopefully today or tomorrow? (source)”

3/9/19: Alex Cox tells Lori Vallow that Charles Vallow (“Ned”) is still alive and says hopefully he’s gone “today or tomorrow” (source).

3/10/19: Alex Cox tells Lori Vallow to “get rid of Ned already.” He also asked if their mom or “shish” (who appears to be Summer) know about Ned (source).

3/11/19: Deadline Charles Vallow gives Lori Vallow to let him know if the terms he laid out in his 3/9/19 email were acceptable to her (source).

3/15/19: Date Charles Vallow told Lori he would move his stuff from the house they shared in Gilbert and move to Houston (source).

Note: Charles had already moved to Houston 3/7, but then he came back to Gilbert with his sister, Kay Woodcock, at the end of March. Lori came into the home they had rented in Gilbert on 3/26 while Charles and Kay were packing up his and JJ’s things to move out.

3/?/19 – 3/19/19: Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell meet up in Idaho (source 1 // source 2 // source 3).

3/19/19: Charles Vallow writes a letter to Lori begging her to see her son and gives her heart-rending updates about JJ (source).

3/19/19 – 3/21/19: Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell fly together to Arizona; Chad leaves 3/21 (source 1 // source 2 // source 3).

Note: It’s not clear when Lori flew out to Idaho. I thought Lori might have been out there since March 3rd because the FOIA docs didn’t include a return flight, but Charles confronted Lori about traveling to and from Idaho on 3/3 to 3/5.

3/22/19 – 3/25/19: Lori Vallow, Zulema Pastenes, both Melanies, and friends Sarena, Christina, and Nicole meet up for a girls’ weekend (source).

3/25/19: Lori Vallow begrudgingly sees Tylee Ryan for what appears to be the only time that month (source).

Note: Tylee was staying with Alex Cox at this time. Lori placed a much higher premium on spending time with Chad than Tylee or JJ. She wouldn’t see JJ until 4/11/19.

3/26/19: Lori Vallow and Alex Cox have a text exchange about Charles Vallow, aka “Ned” (source): 

Alex: Ned is still alive. Just confirmed. 

Lori: It’s not Ned.

Lori: It’s a new one. 

3/26/19: Charles exchanges text messages with a friend. The friend passed them on to a producer with Dateline (source, 39:01).

Charles: I truly feel there is no good ending for her. Emotionally JJ is about 4. He will remember bits and pieces. But thankfully not the pain she’s put a lot of people thru for her “mission from God”.
Friend: Charles I appreciate you and trusting me with your hearts issue you are safe here. I will continue to pray, for you and your family. You have a friend here that you can truly trust. I have to go now and will keep you updated sleep well my friend. Go with God
C: ❤?❤

—

F: I still can’t believe it!
C: 58 days. Believe it. The beautiful sweet Lori you and I knew is gone. She actually believes I’m not Charles. She says an evil spirit named Nick Schneider murdered me and is using me to “violate” her and her family. Not kidding. Gotta get out of here.
F: Holy camel I can’t even relate.
F: Who the fake is Nick Shhneider [sic]
F: The last time I saw Lori she couldn’t say enough wonderful things about…

—

C: Things have changed so dramatically in the past 6 months. Something snapped. It is so unbelievable and scary. I’m thankful she doesn’t see JJ…She wants him and for me to disappear. Seriously…..It’s the freakiest thing I’ve ever experienced…she’s with a group of people called “woke” and “preparing a people”. She actually believes I’m not Charles. She says an evil spirit named Nick Schneider murdered me and is using me to “violate” her….

3/28/19: Lori Vallow returns to their home in Gilbert, and Charles Vallow and his sister, Kay Woodcock were packing him up. She did not return home at this time. Charles offers to fly her to Houston to see their son, JJ Vallow, but she said she had a commitment with a friend and would come to see JJ in about two weeks (source 1 // source 2).

Spring 2019: Melani Pawlowski’s father, Steve Cope, observes a significant change in Melani’s behavior, including flat mood, filthy house, holes in the walls in the home, constantly on her phone, frequent trips to the temple, and references to light and dark spirits, warriors, and the end times (source). 

4/5/19: Lori’s in Phoenix and meets up with Zulema at the temple (source).

4/9/19: Chad Daybell’s friend and doomsday podcaster, Julie Rowe, is told she would be excommunicated from the Church of Latter Day Saints “based on the charges of (1) apostasy, (2) teaching false doctrine, (3) priestcraft, and (4) defaming the good name of the Church.” She and her husband have appealed the decision but expect it to be denied (source).

4/9/19: There is a Venmo transfer from Lori Vallow or Tylee Ryan to Colby Ryan’s account (source).

Note: The FOIA doc redacted the donor and amount. It only states that the 49 transactions listed are from Lori or Tylee.

4/11/19: Approximate date Lori Vallow flies to Houston to visit JJ (source). This also aligns with Charles’ statement that Lori was gone 72 days (source).

4/14/19: There is a Venmo transfer from Lori Vallow or Tylee Ryan to Colby Ryan’s account (source).

Note: The FOIA doc redacted the donor and amount. It only states that the 49 transactions listed are from Lori or Tylee.

4/16/19: There is a Venmo transfer from Lori Vallow or Tylee Ryan to Colby Ryan’s account (source).

Note: The FOIA doc redacted the donor and amount. It only states that the 49 transactions listed are from Lori or Tylee.

4/19/19: There is a Venmo transfer from Lori Vallow or Tylee Ryan to Colby Ryan’s account (source).

Note: The FOIA doc redacted the donor and amount. It only states that the 49 transactions listed are from Lori or Tylee.

4/20/19: There is a Venmo transfer from Lori Vallow or Tylee Ryan to Colby Ryan’s account (source).

Note: The FOIA doc redacted the donor and amount. It only states that the 49 transactions listed are from Lori or Tylee.

4/21/19: Lori Vallow creates an alternate email address, kkwalker@yahoo.com, and sends Chad an invitation to speak to a fictitious event in Houston on 4/27/19. Then she sends him an email thanking him for coming on 4/30/19 (source 1 // source 2). 

4/23/19: There is a Venmo transfer from Lori Vallow or Tylee Ryan to Colby Ryan’s account (source).

Note: The FOIA doc redacted the donor and amount. It only states that the 49 transactions listed are from Lori or Tylee.

4/26/19 – 4/29/19: Approximate dates Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell spend together in Houston, TX (source).

Note: We know it was the weekend for a supposed youth event.

5/2/19: After being ghosted by Lori Vallow repeatedly, Zulema predicts in a text to Lori that “something may happen to one of [her] family members.” That got Lori’s attention and she replied enthusiastically, “Call me !!” (source)

Note: I think this speaks to how disposable people were to these group members. They had no issue with using human lives as pawns to secure the validation and camaraderie they needed.

5/3/19: There is a Venmo transfer from Lori Vallow or Tylee Ryan to Colby Ryan’s account (source).

Note: The FOIA doc redacted the donor and amount. It only states that the 49 transactions listed are from Lori or Tylee.

5/5/19: Lori Vallow saves a screenshot of a malachite stone similar to the stones in her and Chad Daybell’s wedding rings, indicating plans to marry Chad five months before his wife, Tammy Daybell, died and two months before her husband, Charles, was shot and killed (source). It also demonstrates her obsessions with malachite. Kay Woodcock says in a Facebook post on 6/23/21 that she found evidence that Lori searched specifically for ‘malachite wedding rings’ (source). She didn’t pass this piece of information on to Chandler Police Det Moffat when she emailed him about finding Lori’s search history though (source). 

5/5/19: There is a Venmo transfer from Lori Vallow or Tylee Ryan to Colby Ryan’s account (source).

Note: The FOIA doc redacted the donor and amount. It only states that the 49 transactions listed are from Lori or Tylee.

5/5/19: Lori Vallow’s girl group has a Zoom call (source).

5/7/19: There is a Venmo transfer from Lori Vallow or Tylee Ryan to Colby Ryan’s account (source).

Note: The FOIA doc redacted the donor and amount. It only states that the 49 transactions listed are from Lori or Tylee.

5/11/19: Charles Vallow searches for how to file for divorce without a lawyer (source).

5/11/19: There is a Venmo transfer from Lori Vallow or Tylee Ryan to Colby Ryan’s account (source).

Note: The FOIA doc redacted the donor and amount. It only states that the 49 transactions listed are from Lori or Tylee.

5/13/19: There is a Venmo transfer from Lori Vallow or Tylee Ryan to Colby Ryan’s account (source).

Note: The FOIA doc redacted the donor and amount. It only states that the 49 transactions listed are from Lori or Tylee.

5/15/19: There is a Venmo transfer from Lori Vallow or Tylee Ryan to Colby Ryan’s account (source).

Note: The FOIA doc redacted the donor and amount. It only states that the 49 transactions listed are from Lori or Tylee.

5/19/19: There is a Venmo transfer from Lori Vallow or Tylee Ryan to Colby Ryan’s account (source).

Note: The FOIA doc redacted the donor and amount. It only states that the 49 transactions listed are from Lori or Tylee.

5/27/19: Lori Vallow is in Phoenix visiting friends. She does a podcast with Melanie Gibb and then meets up with Zulema (source).

5/28/19: Lori Vallow travels from Phoenix to Salt Lake City on Delta (source).

5/29/19: Lori Vallow tells Zulema Pastenes Charles Vallow’s new name, Hiplos, and explains the ‘h’ is silent (source).

5/31/19: Chad Daybell cancels speaking gig at a Preparing a People conference due to a family emergency (source). The announcement reads:

David Warwick and Shawn Littlebear will be filling in for Chad Daybell, who had a Family Emergency. We regret he won’t be able to attend this PAP Event.

Note: Judging by Lori Vallow’s trip to Salt Lake City just three days prior, I imagine this was the “family emergency” that prevented Chad from fulfilling his speaking commitment.

June 2019: Melani Pawlowski asks then-husband Brandon Boudreaux for a divorce. Brandon said, “I thought I had a happy marriage, so it was pretty overwhelming” (source).

6/2/19: The day Lori Vallow thinks Charles Vallow is going to die in a car accident and asks Zulema to use her powers to ensure his destruction (source).

6/3/19: Lori Vallow moves in with Charles Vallow in Houston (source). According to the indictment against Lori Vallow in Chandler, AZ, she had just taken a trip out of state (source):

6/3/19: Lori Vallow texts someone a call to war at 9:32pm (source):

Note: I figured out the font that was used in the indictment and made educated guesses as to the names that were redacted. Zulema’s name was the only one from the group that fit perfectly in the redaction.

6/19/19: Zulema Pastenes texts Lori Vallow at 9:20pm about meeting up in the temple to work on Hiplos, one of the names they called Charles Vallow (source):

Oh and can you meet me at the temple in the morning? I have time tomorrow and we can work on Hiplos.

Note: I think this would have most likely been Zulema Pastenes as she was zealous about trying to murder Charles through their temple activity. Also, Chandler PD published

6/21/19: Lori Vallow performs a web search to research Social Security disability. This led an investigator to a Social Security application for disability. The form allows you to enter the applicant’s information to get a free benefits evaluation. The indictment notes that this search is of importance as it would indicate an inquiry as to the benefits that Lori would be entitled to as a widow (source).

6/22/19: Alex Cox enters the conversation about Charles Vallow, aka “Hiplos” (source).

6/22/19: Alex Cox started to text someone re: Charles Vallow. He sent a text at 7:02pm that said, “Hey [redacted name]. Its Alex.”

Note: I figured out the font that was used in the indictment and made educated guesses as to the names that were redacted. Zulema’s name was the only one from the group that fit perfectly in the redaction. It would also make sense that he would text Zulema since she was invested heavily in this war on Hiplos/Ned/Charles.

6/12/19: There is a Venmo transfer from Lori Vallow or Tylee Ryan to Colby Ryan’s account (source).

Note: The FOIA doc redacted the donor and amount. It only states that the 49 transactions listed are from Lori or Tylee.

6/13/19: There is a Venmo transfer from Lori Vallow or Tylee Ryan to Colby Ryan’s account (source).

Note: The FOIA doc redacted the donor and amount. It only states that the 49 transactions listed are from Lori or Tylee.

6/16/19: There is a Venmo transfer from Lori Vallow or Tylee Ryan to Colby Ryan’s account (source).

Note: The FOIA doc redacted the donor and amount. It only states that the 49 transactions listed are from Lori or Tylee.

6/16/19: Zulema Pastenes crosses back into the U.S. at Lukeville, AZ POE (source).

6/19/19: Someone texts Lori Vallow at 9:20pm about meeting up in the temple to work on Hiplos, one of the names they called Charles Vallow (source):

Oh and can you meet me at the temple in the morning? I have time tomorrow and we can work on Hiplos.

Note: I figured out the font that was used in the indictment and made educated guesses as to the names that were redacted. Zulema’s name was the only one from the group that fit perfectly in the redaction.

6/20/19: Lori Vallow leaves Charles again and moves into her rental home in Chandler, AZ (source: Facebook post by landlord that was subsequently deleted).

6/29/19: Charles Vallow sends email to Lori Vallow’s brother, Adam Cox, to say he’s suspicious of Lori and Chad’s relationship and plans to reach out to Tammy about his concerns (source). Vallow also shares his discovery of Lori’s radical beliefs. The two then plan an intervention for on or around 7/10/2019. Charles arranges to come to Arizona and also arranges travel for Adam using his frequent flier miles (source).

Note: The detail about using his frequent flier miles came from a confidential source last year.

6/29/19: At 8:39 am Charles Vallow emails Lori Vallow’s brother, Adam Cox, upon discovering that Lori and Chad were having an affair. The email read:

“Adam
Open this letter and see what she did. I’m not sure if the relationship with her and Chad Daybell but they are up to something. She created an email alias for me as I’ve never set this one up. She sent this yesterday and I guess she forgot all her emails are on the computer at my house. I asked her to explain it and she started blaming you, Brandon and me for perpetuating a scheme against her. Just more of her paranoia. She will not explain it. I am going to send it to Chad Daybells wife. Her name is Tammy and I found her email address on their website. I’ve got her cell number too. Sounds very suspicious to me. What do you think ? Whenever she gets caught doing this kind of stuff she starts blaming everybody else. Mostly me, you and Brandon. Brandon and I are the victims of her craziness. I wish you luck trying to help her. I was the only one brave enough to try to get her help in January and look what happened to me. The whole family put a scarlet letter on me. Maybe now they can see what they’re up against.
Thanks” 

6/29/19: Charles Vallow gives Lori Vallow an ultimatum: Come clean about her relationship with Chad Daybell by the end of the day or he would contact Tammy Daybell and inform her of their relationship (source).

6/29/19: At 9:16 am, Charles Vallow emails Tammy Daybell to inform her of Lori and Chad’s affair and Chad Daybell to confront him about the affair and the videos Lori allegedly sent him of her dancing (source). There’s no confirmation that Tammy saw the email from Charles. The email read:

“Tammy My name is Charles Vallow. I have some vital and disturbing information regarding your husband and my wife, Lori This is your work email so I’ll wait to send you the “evidence” that is very disturbing. You may call or email me from the address where you can receive the information. I apologize to be the one sending this but something has to be done. I feel it’s best if I shed some light on the “issue”. 

Regards,

Charles Vallow 

6/29/19: At 9:32 Charles Vallow emails Chad Daybell to confront him about his affair with his wife (source). The email read:

“Chad I’m Lori’s husband but I gathered you already knew this. She sent an email yesterday supposedly written by me to KK inviting you to AZ next week and to ghost write a book I’m supposedly working on. It’s preposterous I happened to run across it as she left her computer at our Houston home. I am NOT paying anybody for anything and I’m not writing a book. Either you or Lori need to tell me what’s going on or this will be exposed for all to see. 

Regards,

Charles Vallow 

At 9:36 am, Charles sends a followup email. It read:

And does your wife know you have several of Lori’s dance videos ? Explain how that is in any way appropriate. She sent them to you at your request in January”. 

6/30/19: Charles Vallow sends a followup email to Tammy Daybell about the affair between Lori and Chad (source).

Late Jun 2019: Lori contacts L.I.F.E. Academy to let them know the family was back in Gilbert [sic], and she enrolled JJ in the school summer program (source).

7/1/19: Charles Vallow plans to speak to Tammy Daybell about the affair between Lori and Chad (source). 

7/2/19: Charles Vallow tells Adam Cox he believes Chad and Tammy Daybell are ring leaders of the cult (source).

Note: According to a search warrant drafted by Chandler Police Det Nathan Duncan, they believed that Lori found out about the intervention from Chad (source). They surmised he found out from Tammy. Tammy deleted the emails from her account so they weren’t able to confirm she received the emails. I disagree with that conclusion and addressed who I thought was the mole in this YouTube live. (Spoiler alert: I believe it’s far more feasible that Chad monitored Tammy’s emails because Charles told Lori ahead of time that he had Tammy’s email and was going to reach out to her. It was summer break, so Tammy may not have been monitoring email as closely. Also, this might explain why the day after Charles was supposed to speak to Tammy, he told Adam she was a ring leader of the cult. I believe Chad may have replied harshly from Tammy’s email and then deleted everything.)

7/6/19: April Raymond’s last communication with Lori Vallow (source).

7/9/19: Charles Vallow travels to Valencia, CA (source).

7/9/19: Lori Vallow finds out about the intervention Charles Vallow and her brother Adam Cox had planned for her. The indictment states she found this out from her mother, Janis Cox, and another person whose name is redacted. She then reached out to Alex Cox and two other names that are redacted (source).

Note: I figured out the font that was used in the indictment and made educated guesses as to the names that were redacted. Summer Shiflet’s name was the only one from the group that fit perfectly in the first redaction. (Summer is Lori’s sister.) And Melani Boudreaux and (again) Summer Shiflet are the only two names that fit perfectly in the next two redactions.

7/9/19: Lori Vallow sends Alex Cox a series of texts:

1:49pm: Lori invites Alex over to her house and sends him the address of 5531 South Four Peaks Place, Chandler. 

9:03pm: Lori: “So the plot thickens. Call me when you can.” LE notes this is likely in response to Lori finding out that Charles and Adam were planning a family meeting. According to the indictment, Lori found this out from her mother and sister, Summer. 

9:50pm: “Getting sleepy. So I’m gong to need you to stay close to me the next couple days. Mel too. She can’t go to Utah. They are planking some kind of intervention but want Mel out of the way so I’m left alone. I need to come get the stuff at your house tomorrow and secure it. Lots to do. Thank you for standing by me. It’s all coming to a head this week. I will be like nephi I am told ! And so will you ❤️” 

Note: “Mel” is her niece, Melani Boudreaux.

7/9/19: Lori Vallow and her niece, Melani Boudreaux, have a text exchange about her wedding plans for that weekend (source):

7/9/19: Melanie Gibb texts Lori Vallow and says she wants to come over. Lori tells her all of her family and the kids are over. Then she goes over to Lori’s house and texts her from outside the house to tell her she was there. Lori let her come in and then Melanie spent the night. In the morning Lori told Melanie to leave and said Charles was going to kill her (source). 

7/10/19: According to Kay Woodcock, Alex Cox’s last day of work as a long-haul trucker (source).

7/10/19: Charles arranges to come to Arizona and also arranges travel for Adam using his frequent flier miles (source).

Note: The detail about using his frequent flier miles came from a confidential source last year.

7/10/19: Charles flies from Houston into Phoenix to pick up JJ the next day and look at apartments in Chandler (source: Charles Vallow’s landlord and Lori’s statement from 7/11/19).

7/10/19: Lori Vallow texts her sister, Summer Shiflet, at 3:58pm that she was on her way to Alex Cox’s house. She also reached out to someone and convinced her to cancel a trip to Utah for a wedding. (Melani Boudreaux fits perfectly in the redaction.)  Lori texts Melani:

7/10/19: Lori Vallow and Melani Boudreaux exchange text messages where Lori implores her to not go out of town for the wedding she was planning to attend (source):

10:25am: 

Lori: “I think so. But I think they are moving their plans to tomorrow since they will still try to get rid of you. 

Melani: “I wish there was a way to somehow be at the wedding but I know this is more important V. 

Lori: “I know baby. I’m so sorry. This is important to your mission even though I know it’s hard to just sit there 

WW”. 

7:18pm: Lori sends Melani an SMS message informing her that Alex was there and that Charles said he would be coming over in the morning.

7/10/19: Charles Vallow goes on a date with Nancy Jo shortly after arriving in AZ (source).

7/11/19: Charles Vallow is shot by Alex Cox (source 1 // source 2). According to Fox reporter Justin Lum, the shooting occurred around 8:30am (source). Cox claims self-defense (source) and calls 911 (recording). Alex Cox was questioned by LE outside the home, which was recorded on bodycam and can be viewed here and here. An officer goes into the home to look around and sees the body of deceased Charles Vallow. Bodycam video can be viewed here. (Warning: graphic footage.) Lori Vallow and 17-year-old Tylee Ryan were interviewed outside the home, which was recorded on bodycam and can be viewed here (starting at the 1:15-minute mark). Lori Vallow (source), Alex Cox and Tylee Ryan (source) are all questioned at the police station, and transcripts of their Lori’s interview can be viewed here and Tylee’s here. Cox’s has not been released as of Feb 9, 2020. There are reportedly contradictions in their stories (source), but no arrests are made.

Notable:

• Alex was staying at the house where Charles Vallow was shot, despite living 23 miles away (source, 25:16 minute mark).
• Colby Ryan, Lori Vallow’s adult son, later claims that his mother called him the day Charles died and said he died of a heart attack. When he got to the house he discovers his stepdad had actually been shot by his uncle (source, 9:32 minute mark).
• Charles was scheduled to look at apartments with the landlord after dropping JJ off at school (source: landlord in a Facebook post that was subsequently deleted).
• Alex says Charles attacked him with a baseball but only had trace amounts of blood on a napkin he dabs the back of his head with (source, 25:10 & 28:05 minute marks).
• Alex says Lori, Tylee, and JJ left before the shooting (source, 25:23 minute mark); Lori told police she had been at home when Charles was shot but needed to leave to take JJ to school (source, 25:45 minute mark).
• Lori was glib and playful when talking to the officer at the scene (source, 26:00 minute marker).
• Dateline’s Keith Morrison described Tylee’s demeanor as “somehow apologetic but overly composed.” Chandler detective Nathan Moffat described Tylee as “very well spoken.” He said Tylee told Detective Cassandra Ynclan, “In retrospect, I probably shouldn’t have gotten the bat.” Moffat noted that as weird but then walked it back (source, 28:32 minute mark). Author’s note: Moffat’s tone seemed to suggest Tylee had possibly been coached in what to say.
• Moffat described the ride in the police with Lori, Alex, and Tylee as “straight-up bizarre.” He added, “It was the weirdest ride I’ve ever had with three strangers.” He described Lori as “happy go lucky” and said she was smiling and nonchalant. “You would have thought we just recovered their stolen vehicle” (source, 28:48 minute mark).
• No one has come forward saying that Charles was given to rages or abusive behavior. Not his ex-wife (source, 31:31 minute mark), not Lori’s adult son Colby (source, 11:26 minute mark), and not Lori and Charles’ mutual friend April Raymond (source, 33:23 minute mark). I also never saw Charles exhibit abusive behavior or rage, but I had far less exposure to Charles than the others referenced here. UPDATE: A group by the name of WTAF FOIA’d thousands of pages of court records from Lori Vallow and Joe Ryan’s divorce, and Charles did have a number of allegations against him, both of domestic violence toward Cheryl, as well as his attorney’s wife. There were also allegations of pretty menacing behavior toward Joe Ryan (my brother). He was still a victim, obviously. I just try to keep this outline as free from sentiment and hyperbole as possible, even when it involves people I cared about.

7/11/19: Timeline:

These times were all listed in the indictment against Lori (source).

• 7:35am: Charles arrives at Lori’s home and texts Lori’s brother, Adam Cox, to tell him Alex was there. Adam tells Charles Lori and Alex were planning something and Charles replies, “Absolutely.” Adam also tells Charles he was supposed to spend the night with Alex but Lori probably blocked that plan.
• 7:49am: Charles’ cell phone left the home. Chandler PD uses this timestamp as a proxy for the approximate time Charles was shot (source). From the indictment:

Based on this timeline, Charles would have laid [sic] dead or dying for approximately 43 minutes before Alex called 911.

• 7:52am: Alex Cox and Lori Vallow speak on the phone (source).
• 8:06am: Alex Cox and Lori Vallow speak on the phone again (source).
• 8:32am: Alex calls 911.
• Time undisclosed: Alex called Lori (source).
• 8:48am: Lori and Tylee arrive back to the home after stopping at Burger King, dropping JJ off at school, and stopping at Walgreens for new flip-flops.

Note: Lori must’ve been pretty desperate for new flip-flops since she prioritized this over returning to the scene, and the ones she purchased are noticeably too small (screenshot I created from bodycam footage).

7/11/19: Zulema Pastenes texts Lori Vallow a bizarre message at 11:31pm about Charles Vallow (source):

7/11/19: Neighbors report that the family hosts a pool party at the house where Charles Vallow was shot the day of the shooting. They report there are lots of people and loud music (source).

7/11/19: According to a woman Charles Vallow had gone on a date with the night before, Nancy Jo, Charles planned to meet up with Adam Cox after dropping JJ Vallow off at school to come up with their intervention plan for Lori (source).

7/12/19: Chad Daybell performs multiple searches around Charles Vallow’s death, including ‘Charles vallow death chandler’ (source).

7/12/19: Someone from the group texts someone else from the group to update them about Charles (source 1 // unredacted source):

Oh ok
Hiplos is gone
It was a Nephi and Laban ending.
I will tell you more when I see you in person or when you see Lori in person. I’m leaving for Chile on Monday for 2 weeks

7/12/19: Lori Vallow texts her stepsons a little after 4:30pm—approximately 20 hours after Charles Vallow was shot—to tell them their father had died. She doesn’t tell them how he had died, and when one of the sons asked, she answered, “We are still waiting for the ME report.” The son asks a series of questions, trying to find out what happens. No response. 6:54pm he asks again, with building frustration/anger. 8:20pm he texts again. Lori replies again that she is still waiting for the ME. She does not tell them he was shot (source).

7/12/19: Cheryl Wheeler, Charles Vallow’s ex-wife and mother of his two grown sons, finds out from the ME’s website that Charles’ death had been classified a homicide. She then searches Google for more information and discovers from news reports out of Chandler, AZ, that Alex Cox had shot him (source).

7/12/19: Approximate date Lori Vallow attempts to file a claim on Charles Vallow’s life insurance policy and discovers she had been removed as sole beneficiary. Charles had made his sister Kay Woodcock beneficiary. (See 2/8/19 entry.)

7/12/19: Chad Daybell is most likely the person who calls to Valley of the Sun Mortuary where Charles’ body was being held (source).

Note: I added the white text over the redactions because I was able to match the font, but the detail about having been a cemetery sexton is a strong indicator that the person who called was Chad.

7/12/19: A welfare check is performed on Charles Vallow in Houston (source).

7/13/19: Lori sends another text to Charles’ son after a couple promptings in the late afternoon. It just says, “I’m still waiting working on arrangements and sorting things out the best I can.” Charles’ son asks why she won’t just tell them what happened (source).

7/13/19: An autopsy is performed on Charles Vallow (source).

7/13/19: Kay and Larry Woodcock fly into Phoenix to meet with Chandler PD (source). 

7/13/19: Lori Vallow and Melani Boudreaux exchange a series of messages in the morning and afternoon:

10:25am:

Melani: “Adam just called Brandon and told him Al murdered chalrels he put it on speaker for me to here”. 

Melani: Can u talk please 

Melani: “I think Brandon found out earlier. He seemed in shock a few hrs ago. And then Adam and Brandon tried to use this situation to their advantage. He cornered me and Adam put it on speaker to tell me. Then Brandon said, do you still believe everything you believe?” 

Melani: “Brandon is with the moving truck at my new address moving things I’m at the house with the kids”

Lori: “Call me” 

5:19pm:

Melani: “Does Tylee have a phone or a way to contact Brandon or Adam” 

Lori: “Nope, I still have it”

 

7/14/19: Lori Vallow leaves a voice message for one of Charles’ grown sons inviting him to talk (source).

7/14/19: Adam Cox leaves Phoenix and returns home to Kansas (source: confidential).

7/14/19 – 7/19/19: Alex Cox flies from Arizona to Colombia, South America (source). Cole Vallow tells Chandler Det Nathan Moffat there’s a picture of Alex in Colombia on social media from 2016, most likely to establish he has a history of visiting Colombia (source).

7/15/19: One of Charles’ adult sons texts Lori Vallow again, saying that it had been three days with still no answers about how their dad died (source). He wrote, “The only information we have is that one text from you saying he passed away. You disappeared after that. We need any information you have. What happened, when did it happen, how did it happen. Where is he now. Are there any funeral plans and can [redacted] and I be a part of it.” He later asks why Colby and Tylee haven’t contacted them at all and why Colby didn’t answer his call. He ends the text with, “This isn’t a nonchalant topic you can just throw a text at and be done with it.”

7/15/19: Charles Vallow’s son Cole Vallow and his former wife Cheryl Wheeler fly to Phoenix to meet with Chandler Police (source).

7/15/19: Zulema Pastenes travels to Santiago, Chile and stays for two weeks (source).

7/15/19: Melanie Gibb claims this is the date she found out Charles Vallow had been shot (source).

Note: Lori told Melanie Gibb the day before Charles was shot that she needed to leave her house (Melanie had spent the night) because Charles was going to shoot her (source). So it’s just not believable that Melanie wouldn’t have checked in on her friend for four days.

7/15/19 – 7/16/19: Lori Vallow and Colby Ryan fly from Phoenix to Houston and return the next day (source 1 / source 2). A friend of Charles Vallow takes care of JJ Vallow in Houston (source).

Note: A confidential source who’s batted 1000 so far told me last year that Lori’s son, Colby Ryan, joined her on this trip. Both the Chandler and Gilbert police reports from the day of Charles Vallow’s shooting confirm that Colby joined his mom on this trip and that they gathered many of Charles’ possessions, including his F-150 truck, clothes, computers, and sundry electronics, and left them at the airport for Alex Cox to retrieve. And then Alex flew out to Houston and drove Charles’ truck back (source).

7/16/19: Ian Pawlowski (future husband to Melani Boudreaux) divorces his wife, according to the date of divorce listed on his Facebook profile page (source).

7/17/19: Charles Vallow’s iPhone XR Max is downloaded by the Chandler Police Department’s Computer Forensics unit and its contents examined by CPD Det Duncan (source). 

7/18/19: Cole Vallow tells Chandler Det Nathan Moffat that Kay warned him and his family that Lori’s brother, Adam Cox, had contacted her to tell her that the family had disowned him a year ago, but she found pics of him with his family on social media since then (source).

7/18/19: Kay Woodcock records a 25-minute phone call with Lori Vallow (source).

7/18/19: Lori Vallow texts Chad Daybell to tell him Charles had removed her from his life insurance policy:

Note: “Ned” is the demon they believed took over Charles’ body.

7/18/19: Melanie Gibb sends an email out to her followers with an invitation to meet in Lori Vallow’s home where Charles had just been shot and killed a week earlier to hear her then-boyfriend (now husband) David Warwick speak (source). It was disclosed at Chad Daybell’s hearing in August 2020 that Chad was also there for this event in Chandler, AZ (source, 1:52 minute mark).

7/19/19: Chad sends Lori a message providing trust levels of those she needed to be aware of (source): 

• Mel G 97
• Zulema 96
• Al 94
• Thor 94
• Nicole 86
• Mel B 85
• Summer 40
• Jason 31
• Sarena 18
• Janie 15
• Christina 8
• Barry 8
• April 7
• Adam 0
• Stacie, Talia, Audrey, Raphael 100

7/20/19: Lori Vallow buys Chad Daybell a flight from Provo, UT, to AZ for $259.50 (source // p49).

7/22/19: Approximate date Lori Vallow tells an official at L.I.F.E. Academy that Charles Vallow committed suicide (source).

7/22/19: Lori Vallow emails the dog trainer for JJ’s service dog, Bailey, and tells him to pick Bailey up (source).

7/23/19: Lori Vallow tells Kay Woodcock JJ won’t be coming to Louisiana for his father’s funeral (source 1 // source 2).

7/29/19: Tammy Daybell’s phone data starts (source). 

Note: This may indicate Tammy bought a new phone or her data was wiped.

7/29/19 – 7/31/19: Lori Vallow travels to Oceanside, CA, with her brother Alex Cox and niece Melani Boudreaux (source).

7/30/19: Chad Daybell texts Lori Vallow about Tammy Daybell’s “death percentages” (source):

Late Jul 2019: Lori Vallow allegedly texts Charles Vallow’s sister, Kay Woodcock, having just discovered she had been removed as sole beneficiary from Charles Vallow’s $1 million life insurance policy. Kay alleges she wrote”something to the effect of”: “Five kids and no money and his sister gets everything” (source, 00:55 minute mark).

Notable: At this time Lori Vallow had two children living in the home, one adult son, and two adult stepsons.

Jul – Aug 2019: After learning Charles was shot—and not the victim of suicide as Lori had told them—L.I.F.E. Academy files a report with Arizona’s Department of Child Safety (source).

8/1/19: Chandler PD receives a copy of the police report from Alex Cox’s assault on Lori Vallow’s third husband, Joseph Ryan (source).

8/1/19: There is a Venmo transfer from Lori Vallow or Tylee Ryan to Colby Ryan’s account (source).

Note: The FOIA doc redacted the donor and amount. It only states that the 49 transactions listed are from Lori or Tylee.

8/1/19: Zulema Pastenes arrives in Dallas, TX, from Santiago, Chile via American Airlines 940 (source).

Note: The screenshot of the travel record is redacted so there’s no name. But the indictment for Lori Vallow in the death of her third husband Charles Vallow included a conversation between Zulema and Julie Clement on 7/12 where she said she would be leaving for Chile that Monday (July 15th), which lines up with the departure date in the screenshot (source // p11).

8/5/19: JJ Vallow starts the new school year at L.I.F.E. Academy (source).

8/2/19: Melanie Gibb hosts a meeting at her house and invites David Warwick to speak and share his testimony (source). Chad Daybell comes into town for it, and Zulema reports this was the first time she saw Lori Vallow and Chad be romantic with each other (source).

8/2/19: Lori Vallow’s friend, Sarena, moves to Phoenix (source).

8/3/19: Melanie Gibb speaks at conference in Northern AZ (source).

8/3/19 – 8/4/19: Jason Mow is in Rexburg, ID (source).

8/4/19: Tylee Ryan’s last post on Snapchat (source).

8/5/19: There is a Venmo transfer from Lori Vallow or Tylee Ryan to Colby Ryan’s account (source).

Note: The FOIA doc redacted the donor and amount. It only states that the 49 transactions listed are from Lori or Tylee.

8/7/19: Kelsee Ryan starts a GoFundMe for medical bills (source).

Note: This is notable because there were two Venmo payments to Colby this week (8/1 and 8/5). The FOIA docs obscure who made which payments; all we know is it was Tylee or Lori. We also don’t know if this was the original amount of the GFM. To wit, the GFM for Colby in Jan 2020 went from $15k to $10k to $7.5k (the last two on the same day) and then ended at $20k after the kids’ remains were found.

8/8/19: Lori Vallow trades in her Infiniti for her Nissan Rogue (source).

8/9/19: Lori Vallow puts JJ Vallow’s service dog Bailey up for sale (source). City: Chandler, AZ. Ad number: 20875. Description:

Bailey has such a sweet spirit- he has brought so much love to his home, but his owner recently died and he needs a new home. He is fully trained with certification as a service dog. Up to date on vaccinations. Has been trained with children in the home, non-smoking home. Bailey is sweet and friendly around other dogs. Looking for new owners who will appreciate and love him the way he has been loved! Spent 7,000 on service training, he is a full bred golden doodle, has experience on airplanes, has experience with people with autism.

Notable: Vallow was later told by the organization they got the dog from that she couldn’t sell the dog; she would need to return him. Bailey has since been placed with a new family of a boy with autism. (This was shared in a private Facebook post.)

8/10/19: The last time Kay Vallow Woodcock hears from JJ Vallow via FaceTime. Call was reportedly 35 seconds long (source). They will be edged out of JJ Vallow’s life for a little more three months, with multiple attempts to get ahold of them (source, 46:38 minute mark).

8/10/19: Kay Vallow Woodcock texts Lori Vallow to ask to see JJ. She says, “We’re not up to anything except to see our little boy.” Kay says she never received a response from Lori (source).

8/11/19: Lori Vallow sends Chad Daybell a text telling him to go back to his family (source):

“U should give all of you love and your attention to your wife and family. I’m just a distraction. Go have fun with your family. I really do want you to. I just can’t be in the way anymore. If things change we can talk. But we have nothing until things change anyway”. 

8/12/19: Lori Vallow has an appointment with someone at Social Security. She’s told the benefit amount she’s entitled to, which the indictment notes was close to the $4,000 she had reported to Chad Daybell in July (source). 

Note: See entry for 7/18/19 to learn more about Lori’s text message to Chad Daybell about Charles’ life insurance policy.

8/13/19: Kay Vallow Woodcock tells Chandler Det Nathan Moffat that Lori Vallow told her Tylee was emancipated (source).

Note: This has since been proved false. Lori wouldn’t have been charged with desertion if Tylee had been an adult in the eyes of the state since she would have had all the rights and responsibilities of an adult. Kay thought Moffat would be able to be tougher with her because of her adult status.

8/14/19: Lori Vallow takes a screenshot of SereniTi rings on Etsy that was similar to the rings in her wedding photos (source). She even sends a screenshot of them to her niece Melani Boudreaux (source).

Note: This strongly suggests Melani was aware that Tammy was predicted to die so Lori and Chad could marry.

8/15/19: Lori Vallow purchases a wedding rings for herself (size 4) and Chad (size 11.5) on Etsy for $129.99 (source 1 // source 2).

Note: The artist later canceled the order and refunded her money because he didn’t have time to make the ring (source).

8/16/19: Lori Vallow moves Tylee Ryan’s Social Security benefit deposit from Tylee’s Chase account to her own (source).

Note: This occurred three weeks before Tylee was murdered and two weeks before they moved to Rexburg.

8/17/19: Lori Vallow reserves a moving van with Budget in preparation for her move (source).

8/18/19: Melanie Gibb (aka “Phebe” who was Lori’s daughter in a previous life) and other undisclosed women meet at Lori Vallow’s home (source).

8/22/19: Lori Vallow and Melanie Gibb begin a new podcast called Feel the Fire. They kick it off with an episode titled ‘Feel the Fire ~ Seeking & Finding Sweet Jesus’ (source 1 // source 2). Description:

Melanie Gibb & Lori Vallow team up sharing how some of the most extreme types of challenges helped them find miracles in the reality of our Best Friend and lover of our souls: Jesus Christ. How did they experience from one extreme to another? How did they surrender their old beliefs, stuck hearts and hurt? Matthew 18:20 ‘For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them.’ Come experience hope from hurt, and healing from help of spiritual rebirth.

8/20/19 – 8/25/19: Lori Vallow Travels from Phoenix to Idaho and back under the name Lori Ryan. She takes pics of Kennedy Elementary School, JJ’s future elementary school,  and BYU (source).

8/24/19: There is a Venmo transfer from Lori Vallow or Tylee Ryan to Colby Ryan’s account (source).

Note: The FOIA doc redacted the donor and amount. It only states that the 49 transactions listed are from Lori or Tylee.

8/25/19: Kay Vallow Woodcock sends Lori Vallow another email begging to FaceTime and visit JJ (source).

8/27/19: Lori sets up residency at 565 Pioneer Road, including internet and utilities (source).

8/27/19: Date Lori Vallow’s apartment was taken off the market (source).

8/28/19: Date Alex Cox’s apartment was taken off the market (source).

Notable: Alex’s apartment was listed for rent 12/2/19; the rent was reduced 1/3/20 (shortly after this case went public); and it was sold 2/10/20.

8/30/19: Lori Vallow stops by the workplace of her oldest son, Colby Ryan, to tell him in the parking lot that she, Tylee, and JJ were moving the next day (source, 22:35 minute mark). Colby says he didn’t ask where they were moving and didn’t find out they had moved to Rexburg, ID, until detectives came to his door Nov 27, 2019, to inquire about the whereabouts of Tylee Ryan and JJ Vallow (24:57 minute mark).

8/30/19: Colby Ryan told Gilbert Police he last spoke with Tylee Ryan over FaceTime. According to court records, Ryan said after that his mother gave him excuses as to why Tylee couldn’t talk to him (source).

Notable: So does this mean Colby had a FaceTime call with Tylee after saying goodbye to her in the parking lot of his workplace? And why FaceTime when they still lived near each other?

8/30/19: Lori Vallow has JJ Vallow’s service dog, Bailey, picked up by Dog Training Elite in Arizona. Vallow had asked the organization to find the Goldendoodle another family because she could no longer care for the pet due to a “change in life circumstances” (source).

Author note: Bailey was an adorable and sweet-natured dog that stayed close by JJ’s side and ran more like a bear cub than a dog when I was there in 2018.

8/31/19: Lori Vallow moves with Tylee Ryan and JJ Vallow to Rexburg, ID (source).

Late August: JJ Vallow’s grandparents, Kay and Larry Woodcock, call L.I.F.E. Academy to “asking if JJ was okay” (source).

Late August: JJ Vallow says to his teacher, “My dad is not in heaven; he is traveling” (source).

Sep 2019: Kay and Larry Woodcock find out that Lori and the kids moved to Idaho. Kay says in their 20/20 interview that they just didn’t have an apartment number (video snippet // episode).

9/3/19: Lori Vallow enrolls JJ Vallow at Kennedy Elementary School in Rexburg, ID (source).

9/3/19: Lori Vallow and Alex Cox exchange a series of texts where she identifies Adam and Zac Cox as zombies and calls for their destruction (source).

9/4/19: JJ Vallow’s first day at Kennedy Elementary School in Rexburg, ID (source).

9/5/19: Lori Vallow emails L.I.F.E Academy, JJ’s school in Chandler, AZ, to say she needed to withdraw him. She allegedly told staff over the phone that she accepted a position in California—which was not true—and that his father committed suicide—which was also not true (source).

9/6/19: Neighbors take a pic of Tylee Ryan and JJ Vallow with an unidentified child through their blinds. When asked why they said it was because they thought it was strange that the children were using stuffed animals to play in a large puddle of water (source 1 // source 2, 00:55 minute mark).

Note: This is the second-to-last time Tylee is seen alive. The last time is two days later in Sep 8, two days later.

9/6/19: Alex Cox’s phone pings at Chad Daybell’s house. He’s there from 12:41 to 12:53 and stays in and around the house. His phone does not ping in the backyard where Tylee and JJ were later buried (source).

9/7/19: Lori Vallow accesses JJ Vallow’s app from his old school. (Lori withdrew JJ 9/5/19.)

9/7/19: Less than 48 hours before Tylee Ryan was murdered and her remains incinerated, Lori Vallow and Melanie Gibb publish a podcast titled “What Is a Baptism of Fire?” (source).

Description reads: Following up on their first Feel the Fire Podcast, Melanie and Lori share what their “Baptism of Fire” was like with insightful references that an ancient wiseman Nephi spoke about. How did it help Melanie in her own life with a Special Needs son, with feeling like she didn’t know how to naviagate her challenges, and what it took for her to experience that clean feeling in her heart. Lori is so descriptive with ways that “fire” can feel to all of us, and how that has manifest in her life. She speaks from great conviction and experience that we all can learn from.

9/7/19: Tylee Ryan’s last post on Instagram (source).

9/8/19: There is a Venmo transfer from Lori Vallow or Tylee Ryan to Colby Ryan’s account (source).

Note: The FOIA doc redacted the donor and amount. It only states that the 49 transactions listed are from Lori or Tylee.

9/8/19: Tylee Ryan’s phone pings in Yellowstone National Park at 1:09pm. Also the FBI says there is footage of JJ at the park walking/running along the walkway in front of Old Faithful geyser (source // p56).

9/8/19: Last day Tylee Ryan is seen alive. In a picture obtained from Lori Vallow’s iCloud account, Ryan is seen at the entrance of Yellowstone National Park. Ryan was at the park with Lori Vallow, Alex Cox, and JJ Vallow. “This is the last time we can find any record of [Ryan] being with Lori Vallow,” the affidavit of probable cause says. “We have found no witnesses who can verify they have seen [Ryan] since Sept. 8, 2019” (source).

9/8/19: There is a Venmo transfer from Lori Vallow or Tylee Ryan to Colby Ryan’s account (source).

Note: The FOIA doc redacted the donor and amount. It only states that the 49 transactions listed are from Lori or Tylee.

9/9/19: Approximate date Tylee Ryan is allegedly buried on Chad Daybell’s property (source).

9/9/19: Alex Cox’s phone pings for the day (source):

02:42am: His phone pings at Lori’s apartment.**
03:37am: He leaves Lori’s apartment.
04:37am: He arrives home. It hasn’t been disclosed where he was during this hour.
08:59am: He leaves his apartment.
09:21am: He arrives at Chad’s. (Note: There’s no mention of him stopping by Lori’s so it’s possible he already had Tylee’s corpse. It’s also possible that in the hour that’s unaccounted for, he was delivering Tylee’s corpse to Chad.)
10:47am: His phone pings in St. Anthony, a neighboring town. It’s unknown if it just pinged off a different tower or if he left Chad’s property and later returned.
10:57am: His phone pings at the Daybell property again.
11:39am: Final time his phone pings at the Daybell property.
11:52am: His phone pings at the Del Taco in Rexburg.
12:02pm: He leaves the Del Taco and spends most of the rest of the day in his apartment.

Note: The affidavit of probable cause for Chad Daybell noted that this was the only time in September Alex appears to go to Lori’s apartment between the hours of 12am and 6am.

9/9/19: Chad Daybell sends his then-wife Tammy Daybell a text about shooting a “large raccoon” and “burning limbs” on the property Tylee Ryan’s charred remains would later be found on (source).

CD (11:53): Well, I’ve had an interesting morning! I felt I should burn all of the limb debris by the fire pit before it got too soaked by the coming storms. While I did so, I spotted a big racoon (sic) along the fence. I hurried and got my gun, and he was still walking along. I got close enough that one shot did the trick. He is now in our pet cemetery. Fun times!

CD (11:56): Gonna shower now and then go write for a while at BYU. Love you!

TD (2:47): Good for you!

CD (2:48): I’m back home now

Note: Chad sent this text only 14 minutes after Alex Cox had left his property.

9/9/19: Reegen Price hears a gunshot coming from Chad Daybell’s property (source).

Note: It’s unknown at this time if Price is a neighbor or just happened to be in the area that day.

9/10/19: Tylee Ryan’s Venmo account shows a payment to her older half brother, Colby Ryan, with “❤️” in the description field (source).

9/11/19: No more conversations between Chad Daybell’s “Bubby” burner phone and Lori Vallow (source).

9/12/19: Lori Vallow searches for Charles Vallow’s tax return (source).

9/12/19: Lori Vallow emails Alex Cox’s landlord in Arizona to tell him/her that Alex had been in a car accident and wouldn’t be able to return (source).

9/14/19: A photo of JJ Vallow sitting on a ride at Yellowstone Bear World, just south of Rexburg, is stored in Lori Vallow’s iCloud account (source).

9/15/19: Chandler PD interview Alex Cox’s first wife, Debbie, who tells them about Alex’s and Lori Vallow’s inappropriate behavior, such as Alex touching her breasts, and Alex and Lori simulating sex (source).

9/15/19 – 9/17/19: Zulema Pastenes visits Lori Vallow in Rexburg (source).

9/16/19: Chad Daybell is a guest on Lori Vallow and Melanie Gibb’s third podcast, titled ‘Feel the Fire ~ Chad Daybell Sharing Jesus’ Love’ (source 1 // source 2). Description:

Emerging from a Spring and Summer break, Chad Daybell joins Lori and Melanie to share things he has been shown about the Savior of the World with insights from 2 Near-Death Experiences and a visionary gift that was opened up to him because of his visits “Beyond the Veil.” You can see a 10 Episode Series with Chad called ‘Beyond the Veil’ here: https://vimeo.com/ondemand/glimpses Chad is the publisher and Owner of Springcreek Books and has written 25 books of his own. https://www.springcreekbooks.com.

9/17/19: Lori Vallow’s neighbor in Rexburg, ID, captures  footage of JJ Vallow playing outside (source, 00:57 minute mark).

9/17/19: Brandon Boudreaux sees JJ Vallow and lets Kay Vallow Woodcock know he’s okay (source).

Note: This is a new piece of information that came out in the Chandler FOIA document dump. This was only five days before JJ was last seen. It’s not known if Brandon saw him via FaceTime or in person.

9/17/19: Melani Pawlowski (then Boudreaux) asks Brandon Boudreaux for his new address (source).

9/17/19: Melanie Gibb publishes a book titled Feel the Fire (source).

Product details:
Publisher: Gibb Publishing (September 17, 2019)
Language: English
Paperback: 100 pages
ISBN-13: 978-0578492629

9/18/19: A nanny Lori Vallow hires through care.com for what she thinks is long-term care comes to the house for the first time to babysit JJ. She tells the nanny her husband died of a heart attack in Arizona and that her daughter was going to school in Rexburg. (She wasn’t.) The nanny describes Tylee’s presence in the home as intermittent visits:

Occasionally her daughter would come visit for dinner or to do laundry, but she never said that she lived there with them. It appeared that only Lori and JJ lived there, from the look of things and from what she told me (source).

Read the entire Twitter thread for 9/18 here.

9/18/19: Kay Vallow Woodcock sends Lori Vallow another email begging to be able to call, FaceTime, and visit with JJ (source).

9/19/19: The nanny Lori Vallow hires returns for a second day of caring for JJ. She notes several things from that day:

• Vallow joked that sometimes she gives JJ his meds early so he’ll go to sleep earlier to give her a break.
• Vallow told her that her brother, Alex Cox, is going to come over and they’re going to the Idaho Falls Airport.
• Cox came over, just said “hello,” and left with Lori.
• JJ went to play at a neighbor’s house and came home for dinner.
• After dinner he wanted to go back to the friend’s house, but the nanny said no.
• JJ had a meltdown and threw furniture and told the nanny he he hated her and didn’t want to be her friend.
• Nanny went upstairs to find JJ and found him under Lori’s bed.
• JJ’s room only had toys, no bed.
• JJ slept on a small mattress in the corner in Lori’s room.
• Lori, Alex, and Lori’s friend came home.
• Lori “babied” JJ to comfort him.
• Lori told the nanny the woman did podcasts with her.
• Lori gave her $40 cash and then never had her back.

Read the entire Twitter thread for 9/19 here.

9/19/19: Rexburg woman claims to have been on flight with Chad Daybell on a flight from Idaho Falls to Mesa, AZ. The woman said Daybell planned to help a relative in the Valley who needed to remodel her home. “He said I hope we can get this work done in the time that I have before I have to be back,” said the woman who wished to remain anonymous (source, 35:05).

Note: This claim has never been verified, and one confidential source said this claim was false.

9/19/19 – 9/23/19: Melanie Gibb visits Lori Vallow in Rexburg (source 1 // source 2).

Notable: Tylee was already missing, and Melanie said Lori never so much as mentioned her, except to say she was at BYU (33:53). You said in this question that it could have been possible, but “it didn’t feel like it” and that there were “question marks” and “didn’t feel like the truth.”

9/20/19 – 9/23/19: David Warwick joins Melanie Gibb in Rexburg and also stays in Lori Vallow’s home (source 1, source 2). He claims that Lori told him Alex Cox came and took JJ away because he was acting like a zombie and climbing on top of the kitchen cabinets.

Note: Warwick testified that he didn’t believe Lori’s story but left with Melanie Gibb afterwards and didn’t call in a welfare check.

9/21/19: Preparing a People host an event called “Book of Mormon Evidence and a Universal Model of Science” in Rexburg, ID (source).

Notable: It’s not clear who from this group of followers attended this event or who stayed with JJ Vallow. All we know is it wasn’t the nanny had hired a couple days before.

9/22/19: A picture is taken of JJ Vallow sitting on a couch. It was found by law enforcement in Lori Vallow’s iCloud account (source).

Update: This is the last known pic of JJ Vallow. It was taken at 10:46am MT, and he’s wearing red pajamas. JJ was wearing red pajamas when he was found in a shallow grave on Chad Daybell’s property 6/9/19 (source).

9/22/19: There is a Venmo transfer from Lori Vallow or Tylee Ryan to Colby Ryan’s account (source).

Note: The FOIA doc redacted the donor and amount. It only states that the 49 transactions listed are from Lori or Tylee.

9/23/19: JJ Vallow was originally reported as having attended Kennedy Elementary (source). It was later determined to be a mistake. His last day at the school was the 20th. No requests are made for JJ’s transcripts (source).

9/23/19: Alex Cox’s phone pinged at Chad Daybell’s property at 9:55am near the pond, where JJ Vallow’s remains were discovered nine months later. He was there until 10:12am.

9/23/19: Two photos of ammunition at The Gun Shop, an Idaho gun store, is saved to Lori Vallow’s iCloud account (source // pics of ammunition).

9/23/19: Approximate date Alex Cox went shopping for a coat for his sister, Lori Vallow. Chandler Det Nathan Moffat notes this in reference to how weird Lori and Alex’s relationship was (source).

9/23/19: Approximate date JJ Vallow is allegedly buried on Chad Daybell’s property (source).

9/23/19: There is a Venmo transfer from Lori Vallow or Tylee Ryan to Colby Ryan’s account (source).

Note: The FOIA doc redacted the donor and amount. It only states that the 49 transactions listed are from Lori or Tylee.

9/23/19: Brandon Boudreaux’s lease begins (source).

9/23/19: According to Melanie Gibb, Lori Vallow asks her to take JJ Vallow with her when she left Lori’s home. Melanie told Gilbert Police she declined (source).

Note: This claim is one of Melanie’s most outrageous. Her friend had been saying JJ was a zombie her entire trip, and then Melanie had a chance to save his life and she declines? She could have taken him to Rexburg Police! This would have been minimal inconvenience. This is cold blooded.

9/24/19: There is a Venmo transfer from Lori Vallow or Tylee Ryan to Colby Ryan’s account (source).

Note: The FOIA doc redacted the donor and amount. It only states that the 49 transactions listed are from Lori or Tylee.

9/24/19: Lori Vallow disenrolls JJ Vallow from school, indicating she would homeschool him. JJ is not seen with her (source).

9/24/19: Lori Vallow tells babysitter JJ had gone to stay with his grandma for several weeks, and she was in Hawaii and that the babysitter’s services were no longer needed. According to the affidavit of probable cause obtained by East Idaho News, Police Detective Ron Ball reported, “We contacted this babysitter and she informed us that she watched (JJ) on the 19th of September…The babysitter understood that her employment was to be ongoing” (source 1 // source 2).

9/24/19: Tylee Ryan’s 17th birthday passes with no social media posts.

9/25/19: Alex Cox’s phone pings at Chad Daybell’s house. He’s only there for 17 minutes and stays in and around the house. His phone does not ping in the backyard where Tylee and JJ were buried (source).

9/26/19: Brandon Boudreaux tells Kay Vallow Woodcock Lori moved out of state. He found out from his son (source).

9/26/19: FBI captures phone data from a Walmart in Rexburg, just minutes from Chad Daybell’s Salem home (source).

9/28/19: Colby Ryan has a text exchange with Tylee Ryan four days after her birthday and tells Dr. Phil that it didn’t sound like her. He asked her to call him that night, and she didn’t (source).

Transcript:

C: Hey Ty!! Happy birthday I’m so proud of you! I know you have been through [a lot]…Trust god, it’s all gonna be okay…

T: Thanks colbs. I love you

//Colby commented she would normally use emojis here.

C: Hey ty are you okay?

T: I’m good just tired…Call you back later. Love you

C: Okay call me tonight please

T: at the movie. I’ll call you after

//She didn’t call him.

C: Ty please call me after your movie. I’m worried about you.

T: Worried about me? What?

C: …I just wanna hear you talk…

T: Ok this week was just busy. I’ll call you soon.

//Colby commented that he was confused by this, wondering what a busy week had to do with calling him back.

C: Okay. Please call me tonight if you can.

Author’s Note: Colby said in his interview with Justin Lum that he didn’t feel like her texts started getting weird until “later in October” (source, 27:50). One thing I really don’t understand about the Cox family is how this went on so long. It will be almost two months from this date before Kay and Larry Woodcock request a welfare check. But Lori Vallow’s niece, Melani Pawlowski, was in Rexburg 10/28/19 to sign a lease and stayed until 10/31. Then she permanently moved into the apartment right next door to Lori. Yet there have been no accounts of family members calling each other to see if anyone has heard from Tylee or JJ. When I stayed with Lori in 2018 and visited in 2003, family was in and out all the time. Most family members lived within minutes of each other outside the Phoenix area (Chandler, Gilbert, and the San Tan Valley). Yet these kids went missing and undiscovered for 2+ months because of what appears to have been radio silence between family members. By the time they were discovered missing, the Rexburg area was covered in snow, and now we are dealing with a pandemic, so they may have to wait even longer before searches can begin. It’s one of the more crushing aspects of this case.

Late September: Chad Daybell and friend and fellow doomsday author Julie Rowe speak by phone about Tammy’s imminent death. From a Fox 13 post (source):

Three weeks before Tammy’s death, Rowe and Daybell called each other.

“And I asked him, do you still see Tammy dying? And he said yes I do,” said Rowe.

Tammy was in charge of the finances and covers for Daybell’s books. Rowe said Daybell wanted to get out of the business, but Tammy wanted to keep going.

“He said I’m ready to get out now and Tammy doesn’t want to get out. When she passes, I’m done, I can’t keep doing this,” said Rowe.

Oct 2019: Chandler PD notices long calls from out of state to a number assumed to belong to Chad Daybell (source).

Oct 2019: Melani Pawlowski asked friends from the cult, such as Alex Cox and Melanie Gibb, to talk to Brandon Boudreaux’s former neighbors to find out where he was after he went into hiding, according to Brandon Boudreaux’s business partner’s wife, Jes (source).

10/1/19: Lori Vallow opens a 10×10′ storage unit at Self Storage Plus in Rexburg, ID (source).

Notable: This storage unit is 350 yards from the Rexburg Transfer Station—aka the city dump (Google Map).

10/1/19: Last time Janis Cox, Lori Vallow’s mother, speaks to JJ. She alleges that she spoke to him on the phone and provided a copy of their phone bill as proof (source).

Note: This turned out to be an unfounded claim as JJ Vallow was allegedly murdered sometime between Sep 22nd and 23rd.

10/1/19: Brandon Boudreaux and Melani Pawlowski close on the home they owned together (source).

10/1/19: There is a Venmo transfer from Lori Vallow or Tylee Ryan to Colby Ryan’s account (source).

Note: The FOIA doc redacted the donor and amount. It only states that the 49 transactions listed are from Lori or Tylee.

10/2/19: Lori Vallow orders the ring later shown in her wedding photos from Amazon using Charles Vallow’s account (source).

Notable: This is 17 days before Chad Daybell’s wife, Tammy Daybell, died.

10/2/19: Alex Cox calls a Hispanic female, as well as Lori Vallow, during the timeframe of the shooting attempt on Brandon Boudreaux (source 1 // source 2).

Note: The following month Alex married Zulema Pastenes, a Hispanic female. This doesn’t mean she was the female he was on the phone with; just noting what may be a coincidence.

10/2/19: Alex Cox makes financial transfers to the Hispanic female he was on the phone with around the time of the Brandon Boudreaux shooting attempt (source).

10/2/19: Lori Vallow and a man who appears to be Chad Daybell are seen on surveillance at the storage unit (source).

From the East Idaho News site:

Timestamps on the video show a blue Rogue arriving at 1:25 p.m. but the owner of the storage facility says clocks were off by one hour, so Lori actually pulled in at 2:25 p.m. She made her way to the door of the building where her unit was, and two minutes later, at 2:27 p.m., got out of the vehicle with the man we believe is Chad.

At 2:29 p.m., he pulled a tire out of the back of the Rogue and rolled it into the storage unit. One minute later, he and Lori carried in what appears to be a removable rear car seat together. They put it in the locker, shut the door and left the facility at 2:32 p.m. The entire visit was seven minutes.

Note: Reporter Nate Eaton offers a plausible explanation for why Lori and [allegedly] Chad would have been moving a tire and removable back seat into the storage unit: Brandon Boudreaux said someone shot at him out of the back window of the Jeep. The back window of that model Jeep doesn’t open if the tire is attached. Ergo, it’s possible they removed the back seat and tire of the Jeep. Then Lori and Chad moved it into the storage unit (source, 2:31 minute mark).

Bonus: Chad Daybell—still married to Tammy Daybell at the time—acts in a manner you might find a bit salacious for a married man whose wife will conveniently die in one week to the day at the 1:41 minute mark.

10/2/19: Brandon Boudreaux is shot at outside his home in Gilbert, AZ around 9:30am (source, 1:44 minute mark). The shooter was driving Tylee Ryan’s 2018 Jeep Wrangler, which is registered in Charles Vallow’s name (source 1 // source 2, 41:25 minute mark). Boudreaux later identifies Alex Cox as the shooter (source 1 // source 2, 42:07 minute mark).

10/2/19: Lori Vallow’s iCloud account shows deleted cookies from searches around the shooting of Brandon Boudreaux (source).

10/3/19: The browser history on the computer from which Lori Vallow’s wedding ring was ordered the day before shows someone searching for wedding dresses (source).

10/3/19: Chandler PD learn about the attempted shooting of Brandon Boudreaux (source).

10/3/19: Lori Vallow and a man “who appears to be her brother, Alex Cox,”are seen on surveillance at the storage unit (source). Vallow and Cox retrieve the tire and backseat and put them into Vallow’s car (source, 3:08 minute mark).

10/4/19: Chad Daybell texts Lori Vallow an ominous message that implies he was doing something to expedite Tammy Daybell’s death (source):

Thank you for sending me that paragraph, beautiful Lili. I’m eager to see you soon. Trying to hasten her departure. I love you endlessly! 💋💓🔥

10/4/19: Tammy Daybell visits parents in Springville, UT, allegedly at Chad’s urging. Chad Daybell claims divine urging from ancestors (private Facebook post). Her father, Ron Douglas, said she was healthy and was doing Zumba with her daughter, Emma Murray, clogging, and dancing in the living room class (source).

10/5/19: Chad Daybell texts Lori Vallow more about his wife Tammy (source):

Hello, sweet angel. Big news about Tammy. Please let me know if you are awake and can talk. I love you! 💓💋

The short version is that she has been switched. Tammy is in Limbo, and a level 3 demonic entity named Viola is in her body. It happened at about 10 p.m. and was done by Tammy’s sister [redacted], who I always knew was 3D, but it turns out she is multiple creation. 

Viola has been attached for about a year to my niece [redacted], who is 12 year old daughter. I have connected with Tammy in Limbo, and she is very frustrated and upset. She wants Viola removed as soon as possible. Viola seems to be similar to Penelope. The personality differences from Tammy should be evident quickly. Please seek a confirmation on this, but I have now checked three times since I got home and get more affirmative answers each time”. 

“Not fully sure of the timing for removal, but once her actions verify the differences, I don’t want to wait”. 

10/6/19: There is a Venmo transfer from Lori Vallow or Tylee Ryan to Colby Ryan’s account (source).

Note: The FOIA doc redacted the donor and amount. It only states that the 49 transactions listed are from Lori or Tylee.

10/6/19: Alex Cox visits the storage unit by himself (source, 3:49 minute mark).

10/6/19: Someone takes a pic of Alex Cox at Mesa Falls in Idaho (source 1 // source 2 // picture).

10/7/19: Lori Vallow is a busy busy beaver (source):

• She searches online to find out how long it would take to drive to Independence, MO, and then started to look for flights.
• 10:21am: Alex Cox texts her to find out where she is and she says JJ’s school. This is suspicious because JJ had been dead at least two weeks by then. She also never formally withdrew him from L.I.F.E. Academy. (Lori deleted this message but it was retrieved.)
• 10:55am: Lori performs an online search, but Chandler PD redacted the query.
• 11:59am: Lori sends a text to an unknown person that was deleted and recovered. (Burner phone?)
• 12:03pm: Lori sends a text to an unknown person that was deleted and recovered.
• 14:23: Lori sends a text to an unknown person that was deleted and recovered.

10/8/19: Lori Vallow meets up with niece Melani Pawlowski the day before Tammy Daybell is approached by a masked gunman (allegedly Alex Cox):

• Lori Vallow flies from Idaho to Phoenix-Mesa (source 1 // source 2).
• 8:55am: Lori sends a text to an unknown person that was deleted and recovered (source).
• 8:57am: Lori texts Audrey (presumably). [content of text redacted]
• 11:15am: Lori texts Melani Pawlowski. [content of text redacted]

10/9/19: Photos and videos of Melani Pawlowski’s children recovered from Lori Vallow’s iCloud reveal Lori was at Melani’s home in AZ (source).

10/9/19: Tammy Daybell files a report with the Rexburg Police Department, claiming to be shot at by a masked man carrying a paintball gun (source 1 // source 2, 43:24 minute mark)

10/9/19: Last time Melani Pawlowski has seen her kids (source).

10/9/19: Add that Zulema also hung out with Lori and Melani (source).

10/10/19: There is a Venmo transfer from Lori Vallow or Tylee Ryan to Colby Ryan’s account (source).

Note: The FOIA doc redacted the donor and amount. It only states that the 49 transactions listed are from Lori or Tylee.

10/10/19 – 10/12/19: Lori Vallow and Melani Pawlowski fly to Missouri and return to Phoenix. LE imply Lori is in Missouri because they say it would be interesting to know if JJ’s iPad connected out there since she brought it on her trip to AZ. Also, Lori Vallow deletes a text message that references flights between MO and AZ for these dates (source). Although there’s no screenshot of this flight, LE recover a deleted text message where Lori wrote (source):

American has a nonstop flight PHX to Kansas City Thursday at 1pm. Then fly back on sat at 6:30pm. [Redacted] said we could stay with her but I told her we could get a hotel and she could stay with us. She will take us to all the amazing sights [sic]!

The purpose of this trip is suggested by a message that was sent to Lori from an unknown sender on 10/4/19 (source):

Police report interpretation:

Note: Although the name of her travel companion is redacted in these documents, a confidential source told me last year that Lori and Melani were in Independence, Missouri visiting the place LDS members believe Jesus will return. It also makes sense it would be Melani since Lori first traveled to Phoenix and was in Melani’s home the day before the flight.

10/10/19: Tylee Ryan’s Venmo account shows a payment to her older half brother, Colby Ryan, with “we love you” in the description field (source).

10/11/19 – 10/12/19: Lori Vallow upload ‘numerous’ pics of herself with friends at the Adam-ondi-Ahman site in Missouri (source 1 //source 2 // source 3 // reason for going).

10/12/19: Allegedly, Chad buys rope and a ski mask at Cabela’s in Idaho Falls (source).

Note: I almost didn’t include this because it’s as unverified as a claim can get. But I decided to just add it with a disclaimer.

10/13/19: Last email between Kay Vallow Woodcock and Lori Vallow where JJ Vallow is mentioned (source).

10/13/19: Lori Vallow travels from Phoenix to Idaho under the name Lori Ryan (source).

10/13/19: Last time JJ Vallow’s name is mentioned in emails between Lori Vallow and Kay Woodcock (source).

10/14/19: Melani Pawlowski texts Brandon Boudreaux to say she’s moving to Boise, ID, with or without their four children (source).

10/14/19: There is a Venmo transfer from Lori Vallow or Tylee Ryan to Colby Ryan’s account (source).

Note: The FOIA doc redacted the donor and amount. It only states that the 49 transactions listed are from Lori or Tylee.

10/14/19: Alex Cox sends Lori Vallow two pics of Mesa Falls from his Yahoo email account. LE questions if these are significant (source).

Note: It’s a matter of public record that Alex Cox had two email addresses: homerjmaximus@yahoo.com and henri_hawk@hotmail.com.

10/14/19: Approximate date Melani Pawlowski allegedly texts her then-estranged husband, Brandon, to let him know she planned to move to Boise (source). Text reads:

The kids could remain with you in Arizona, you would have to arrange for daycare, and I could have the kids for school holidays and summers. Or I could take the kids to Idaho and enroll them in school there and you could have the kids for school holidays and summers. Please let me know what you’d like to do.

10/14/19: Kay Woodcock sends a final email to Lori begging to see JJ. Her email went unanswered (source, 1:25 minute mark).

10/15/19: Brandon Boudreaux tells an investigator at Gilbert Police that he was surprised to find out he was still married and that he wasn’t going to return the kids to Melani Pawlowski the next day as scheduled (source).

10/16/19: There is a Venmo transfer from Lori Vallow or Tylee Ryan to Colby Ryan’s account (source).

Note: The FOIA doc redacted the donor and amount. It only states that the 49 transactions listed are from Lori or Tylee.

10/16/19: Melani Pawlowski tries to pick their four children up from school early and finds out Brandon Boudreaux didn’t take them to school. She reports this to Gilbert Police, and a detective asks about her plans to move to Idaho (source).

10/16/19: Tylee Ryan’s Venmo account shows a payment to her older half brother, Colby Ryan, with a heart emoji in the description field (source).

Note: This transaction was removed from Tylee’s feed sometime after March 1.You can see a screenshot of it here.

10/16/19: A man allegedly accesses Lori Vallow’s storage unit and spends what appears to be 6 minutes on premises (source, 1:18:00 minute mark).

10/17 – 10/24: Lori Vallow and Melani Pawlowski travel to Hawaii (source 1: confidential // source 2 // source 3 // source 4).

10/18/19: Lori Vallow texts her friend Audrey from Hawaii and says, “Not sure how long we will be here. Until our work is done” (source).

10/19/19: Tammy Daybell dies in her sleep, according to husband Chad Daybell. He claims she went to bed with a cough and just didn’t wake up. Her death is believed to be natural and no autopsy is performed (source). An investigator told East Idaho News reporter Nate Eaton that Chad “didn’t seem all that curious about how she died” (source, 42:56 minute mark).

10/19/19: Chad Daybell posts on the AVOW forum hours after his wife Tammy’s death and was reportedly on the site the entire day, liking and responding to people about her death (source).

10/19/19: Lori Vallow and her friend Nicole have a text exchange about Tammy Daybell’s death (source):

Nicole: I’m not sure if you heard but Chad’s wife died last night. 😭🥴

Lori: Oh my gosh. I did not hear that. I’m in Hawaii and it’s 6 am. 😭😭

Lori: Do you know what happened?

Nicole: Yes, she woke up in the night coughing, threw up, collapsed and passed away. 

10/19/19: Approximate date Kay and Larry Woodcock find out JJ Vallow and Tylee Ryan are missing, according to Brandon Boudreaux’s business partner’s wife, Jes (source).

Note: Kay Vallow Woodcock also said they discovered JJ was missing in October at the presser they did 1/7/20 (source).

10/19/19: One of Chad Daybell’s daughters allegedly says to Chad Daybell friend and colleague Julie Rowe that she was most afraid of her dad getting remarried (source, 1:25 minute mark).

10/20/19: Approximate date Brandon Boudreaux calls Kay Woodcock to let her know Tammy Daybell died. Kay remarked in despair that they were “killing everybody” along the way. Kay  expressed suspicion that Tammy was poisoned because she said that Lori had spoken of poisoning people over the years (source).

10/20/19: Lori Vallow books a flight from Phoenix to Idaho for travel on the 24th. Confirmation #: 9FBTBX (source 1 // source 2).

10/22/19: Brandon and Melani Boudreaux’s divorce is finalized (source).

10/22/19: Tammy Daybell is interred in Spring Creek, ID (source).

10/22/19: A man allegedly accesses Lori Vallow’s storage unit and spends 9 minutes on premises (source, 1:18:00 minute mark).

10/23/19: A memorial service is held for Tammy Daybell in Rexburg, ID (source). Chad’s younger brother, Matt Daybell, later tells East Idaho News that he and Chad had not “directly spoken to each other” since the service in Rexburg on Oct. 23 (source). “Since that time, I have texted Chad twice. Once, when I heard from a neighbor of his quick marriage to Lori Vallow, expressing to him my shock and dismay at this news,” Matt Daybell says. “Second, just recently, pleading with Chad to cooperate with authorities and reveal the whereabouts of his new stepchildren.”

10/23/19: Lori Vallow saves photos taken in Hawaii to her iCloud account (source).

10/24/19: Lori Vallow returns to Idaho from Hawaii (source). 

10/24/19: Zulema, Melanie, and someone else meet up to do a podcast (source).

10/24/19: Lori Vallow travels from Phoenix to Idaho (source).

10/25/19: A friend of Tylee receives a text from Tylee but says it didn’t sound like her (source).

10/25/19: A man allegedly accesses Lori Vallow’s storage unit and spends 10 minutes on premises (source, 1:18:00 minute mark).

10/25/19: Approximate day Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell are seen holding hands (source).

10/25/19: Melani Pawlowski’s Rexburg apartment was taken off the market (source).

10/25/19: There are TWO Venmo transfers from Lori Vallow or Tylee Ryan to Colby Ryan’s account (source).

Note: The FOIA doc redacted the donor and amount. It only states that the 49 transactions listed are from Lori or Tylee.

10/26/19: A man allegedly accesses Lori Vallow’s storage unit and spends 11 minutes on premises (source, 1:18:00 minute mark).

10/27/19: There is a Venmo transfer from Lori Vallow or Tylee Ryan to Colby Ryan’s account (source).

Note: The FOIA doc redacted the donor and amount. It only states that the 49 transactions listed are from Lori or Tylee.

10/28/19: Two men who appear to be Alex Cox and Chad Daybell are seen moving bikes and other items into the storage unit Lori Vallow rented Oct 1 in Rexburg, ID (source 1 // source 2, 3:58 minute mark). They allegedly spend 6 minutes on premises (source, 1:18:00 minute mark).

10/28/19: Melani Pawlowski signs a lease on her apartment in the same complex as Lori Vallow and Alex Cox (source).

10/29/19: Unidentified woman seen playfully running through the snow and then approaching Lori Vallow’s apartment (source).

10/29/19: There is a Venmo transfer from Lori Vallow or Tylee Ryan to Colby Ryan’s account (source).

Note: The FOIA doc redacted the donor and amount. It only states that the 49 transactions listed are from Lori or Tylee.

10/30/19: Law enforcement tracks down the Jeep Alex Cox allegedly drove when he shot at Brandon Boudreaux (source). 

Note: In the same police Gilbert Police report, there was a note on 10/15/19 that they were also searching for Tylee along with the Jeep (if my redaction is accurate). But they clearly were no longer interested in Tylee’s whereabouts once they found the Jeep. If they had been, the kids could have been found before Rexburg fell into a deep freeze, which was followed by delays from Covid lockdowns, which were put in place in the spring of 2020 (source).

10/31/19: There is a Venmo transfer from Lori Vallow or Tylee Ryan to Colby Ryan’s account (source).

Note: The FOIA doc redacted the donor and amount. It only states that the 49 transactions listed are from Lori or Tylee.

10/31/19: Melani Pawlowski and Alex Cox fly from Idaho Falls to Phoenix and then pack up Melani to move to Rexburg, ID (source).

10/31/19: Approximate date nanny texts Lori one last time about working for her. Lori never responds (source).

10/31/19: Rich Robertson, a private investigator hired by Brandon Boudreaux, sees Melani Pawlowski and Alex Cox outside her home taking her children’s clothes, toys, and beds to the curb (source 1, 42:56 minute mark / source 2).

10/31/19: Tylee Ryan’s Jeep ‘appeared in Idaho’ (source).

Late Oct 2019: Colby Ryan says communication with Tylee Ryan started to change. He started calling and FaceTiming her, but she wouldn’t answer and always had a reason for why she couldn’t talk. And they didn’t sound like her, he told Fox reporter Justin Lum.

Lum: “But did it sound like how she would text and how she would talk?”

Ryan: “It [sic] was bouncing back and they just didn’t seem normal…And all these things started piecing together (source, 27:50).

Update: Colby told Dr. Phil that his text exchange with Tylee on 9/28/19 didn’t sound like her (e.g., she would have used an emoji over saying that she loved him) and that he was worried (source).

Late Oct/Early Nov 2019: Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell lie about the death and even existence of Lori’s children. Rexburg Police Department publish witness testimony is a press release alleging that Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell both lied about the children’s existence:

We are aware that in the weeks after Tammy Daybell’s death, Lori Vallow/Daybell and Chad Daybell told witnesses that Lori’s daughter had died a year before the death of her father, which is untrue. Around that same time Chad told another witness that Lori had no minor children (source 1, source 2, 42:56 minute mark)

According to an affidavit obtained by East Idaho News in February 2020, LE also interview Chad Daybell’s parents and Tammy Daybell’s sister. There was no date in the article Daybell’s parents tell detectives Chad and Lori had told them in November that Lori was an “empty nester.” Tammy’s sister reports that Chad told them Lori had no juvenile children (source).

Note: There was no date for the interview of Chad Daybell’s parents and Tammy Daybell’s sister, so I approximated. I have reached out to the reporter to find out if the affidavit listed a date. I also created an account to start requesting court documents myself and am in the verification process…which requires waiting for a letter to be mailed to me with a verification code…because government.

Late Oct/Early Nov 2019: Estimated time Chad Daybell received $430,000 in life insurance proceeds following Tammy Daybell’s death (source).

Note: I will update this entry to a more exact date if it becomes available.

Fall 2019: Chad Daybell is allegedly excommunicated from the LDS church after he declared he was a prophet (source).

First week of Nov 2019: Rexburg PD is contacted by Gilbert and Chandler PDs after the attempted shooting of Brandon Boudreaux for help in obtaining search warrants for the 2018 Jeep Wrangler Tylee Ryan drove but was registered to Charles Vallow and in Lori Vallow’s possession. It was believed to be “related to a possible attempted murder” of Brandon Boudreaux (source 1 // source 2). Police note:

It is significant that the vehicle (Tylee) regularly drove was still in Rexburg nearly two months after the last known sighting of (Tylee).

11/1/19: Detective Ray Hermosillo starts “intermittent surveillance” on Lori Vallow at the request of the Gilbert Police Department. Hermosillo reports that he never saw JJ Vallow when he was performing surveillance during the month of November, 2019.

11/1/19: Two detectives knock on Melani Pawlowski’s door asking about Lori Vallow. Her account: “I’m foggy on this date but (Rexburg Police) Detective Hermosillo and another gentleman had come to my door while I was moving my stuff in so it had to have been early in November – I’d guess the second week in November” (source).

Note: Since they came to Melani’s door while she was moving her stuff in, that would be Nov 1, not the second week in November.

11/1/19: Fremont County Sheriff’s Office Lt Powell observes Chad Daybell and Lori Vallow holding hands in a romantic manner (source).

11/3/19: Kay Vallow Woodcock sends an email to Chandler Det Nathan Moffat letting him know Lori and the kids moved to Rexburg (source).

11/3/19: Lori Vallow takes flight from Salt Lake City to Kauai (source 1 // source 2).

Note: It’s safe to assume Chad Daybell was also on this flight since they were going to Hawaii to get married.

11/3/19: There is a Venmo transfer from Lori Vallow or Tylee Ryan to Colby Ryan’s account (source).

Note: The FOIA doc redacted the donor and amount. It only states that the 49 transactions listed are from Lori or Tylee.

11/3/19: Lori Vallow makes a call to what is presumably a contact named “Spencer’s Wife” (source).

11/3/19 – 11/6/19: Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell stay at Kauai Beach Resort (source).

11/4/19: Tylee Ryan’s gray Jeep Wrangler—which was seen in CCTV the day BrandonBoudreaux was reportedly shot at in front of his home in Gilbert, AZ—is seized and impounded in accordance with a search warrant in November 2019 in Rexburg, ID. The Jeep is registered to Charles Vallow (source 1 // source 2 // source 3).

Note: Originally LE stated they wanted to know the whereabouts of Tylee Ryan and the Jeep, but when Rexburg Police found the Jeep and impounded it, no further inquiry was made into Tylee’s whereabouts. It’s also bizarre that these criminals wouldn’t have fled then. They’re down a car and don’t even follow up.

11/5/19: Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell marry in Kaua’i, Hawaii (source, wedding pics start at the 1:08 minute mark).

Note: This is 17 days after his former wife, Tammy Daybell, died unexpectedly.

11/5/19: There is a Venmo transfer from Lori Vallow or Tylee Ryan to Colby Ryan’s account (source).

Note: The FOIA doc redacted the donor and amount. It only states that the 49 transactions listed are from Lori or Tylee.

11/7/19: Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell meet with Jeani Martin about renting a room from her home in Kaua’i, HI. According to Martin, after claiming to receive a “sign from God” about moving in to her home, she asks about former wife, Tammy Daybell’s recent death. He answers via text, claiming, “She helped me reconnect with Lori so quickly and it helped my children move forward” (source).

11/7/19 – 11/8/19: Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell inquire about rental homes saying they have no children (source).

11/7/19: Approximate date Brandon Boudreaux’s business partner’s wife, Jes, talks with Melani Pawlowski about JJ Vallow and Tylee Ryan. She, Brandon, and the Woodcocks knew they were missing at this point a couple weeks. Melani tells Jes she trusted Lori (source).

11/8/19: Chad Daybell sent an email to a Kauai realtor. Three days after he & Lori Vallow got married. Outside of authorities, this is second source to tell us that Daybell said he had no kids on the island (source).

11/10/19: Kay Woodcock logs in to Charles’ Amazon account and finds Lori’s searches for rings and wedding clothes (source).

11/11/19: Lori Vallow uses Tylee Ryan’s AirPods (source).

11/12/19: Melani Pawlowski trespasses onto Brandon’s parents’ property in America Fork, Utah. American Fork Police say Melani’s uncle, Alex Cox drove her to where her children were in a 2020 Kia Telluride (source).

11/12/19: Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell are spotted in an LDS temple in Hawaii (source).

11/13/19: Kay Vallow Woodcock asks Chandler Det Nathan Moffat for a contact at Rexburg Police to ask for a welfare check. She follows up again the next day with a reminder (source).

Note: It appears Moffat never sent the contact because the welfare check wouldn’t be requested from Rexburg Police for another 12 days.

11/14/19: Melani Pawlowski trespasses onto Brandon’s parents’ property a second time, around 10:30pm, claiming to have a court order stating she could take the children. Police cite Melani for criminal trespassing and tell her to leave the property but then decide to take her into custody for criminal trespassing enhanced by domestic violence. Melani turns herself in to AFPD and is booked into Utah County Jail. Melani’s uncle, Alex Cox, posts her bail of $1,950. The day after the arrest, Cox bailed Melani out (source 1 / source 2).

Mid November: Lori and Chad return to Rexburg from their honeymoon in Kaua’i, HI (source, 46:28 minute mark)

11/19/19: Melani and Brandon Boudreaux’s divorce is finalized. She doesn’t show up, and he is awarded full custody of their children.

11/21/19: Lori Vallow accesses JJ Vallow’s app from his old school. (Lori withdrew JJ 9/5/19.)

11/21/19: There is a Venmo transfer from Lori Vallow or Tylee Ryan to Colby Ryan’s account (source).

Note: The FOIA doc redacted the donor and amount. It only states that the 49 transactions listed are from Lori or Tylee.

11/21/19: Lori Vallow saves numerous pics of Hawaii to her iCloud (source).

11/22/19: Lori Vallow texts Colby Ryan to tell him Tylee sent him a Venmo (source):

I text Ty to send it but I haven’t heard back yet. She will probably just do it before she tells me

Hope you got the Venmo. Ty said she sent it late. I’ll call you when I get a break. Hope you are having a great day. I love you so much !!!

Note: Colby’s name fits into the redaction. I included the font I used over another sentence to demonstrate how well it fits.

11/23/19: Tammy Daybell’s family finds out Chad had remarried (source).

11/24/19: Lori Vallow and an unidentified man visit her storage unit in Rexburg, ID, for the last time. They leave a box of memorabilia for Tylee Ryan and JJ Vallow, as well as a tote of clothing. They stay for 4 minutes (source 1 // source 2, 4:07 minute mark).

11/24/19: Chad Daybell gives Alex Cox a patriarchal blessing (text). According to Melanie Gibb, Alex said he cried like a baby (source).

11/25/19: Lori Vallow uses Tylee Ryan’s AirPods (source).

11/25/19: Kay Woodcock discovers by hacking into Charles Vallow’s email—after trying one of three passwords Woodcock says her brother always used—that an Amazon purchase had been sent to Lori Vallow’s address in Rexburg, ID. Woodcock said now that she had an address for them she could order the welfare check (source, 47:25 minute mark).

Note: It was later revealed that Kay logged in to Charles’ Amazon account on 11/10, not 11/25 (source).

11/25/19: Investigation begins when Rexburg Police Department is contacted by the Gilbert, Arizona, Police Department in response to a welfare check for JJ requested by JJ’s grandparents, Kay and Larry Woodcock. (source 1 // source 2, 45:40 minute mark).

Note: Tylee Ryan wasn’t included in the welfare check because Detective Nathan Moffat—one of the detectives who was on scene the day Charles Vallow was shot and described his ride with Lori Vallow, Alex Cox, and Tylee as “straight-up bizarre”—thought he didn’t need to include Tylee Ryan in the welfare check:

I got on the phone with Rexburg PD, and I requested they do a welfare check at the residence for JJ. More specifically JJ than Tylee because Tylee’s 16, 17 years old (source).

11/26/19: Rexburg PD and Fremont County Sheriff’s Office meet re: the welfare check for JJ Vallow (source).

11/26/19: LE performs welfare check on JJ Vallow at 565 Pioneer Rd, Rexburg, ID. Lori Vallow tells police JJ is staying with a family friend in AZ. Investigators learn later that day had not been staying with the friend (source).

Other suspicious activity later released in a 14-page affidavit of probable cause document obtained by East Idaho News (source):

• “Chad acted as if he didn’t know Lori very well and stated he didn’t know her phone number.” They had married three weeks prior. (See the 11/5/19 entry.)
• “Alex [Cox] told the detectives that [Joshua Vallow] was with his grandma, Kay Woodcock, in Louisiana, which was not likely to be true due to the fact that Kay was the individual who first called in a missing child report to the Gilbert Police Department.”
• Cox told officers Lori “might be” in apartment 107.
• Apartment 107 was vacant.
• Police found Lori “later that day” in apartment 175 (source).
• Chad Daybell tried to drive away while detectives were at the apartment complex, but a detective stopped him.
• Chad told an investigator that the last time he had seen JJ was in apartment 107 in October. He also admitted that he knew his wife’s phone number. Notable: This proves that Chad was aware that Lori had at least one minor child.
• Vallow told detectives JJ was with Melanie Gibb—a friend of Lori and Chad who had participated as a co-host with Chad and Lori on a Preparing a People podcast, co-hosted the Time to Warrior Up podcast with Lori, spoke at the Preparing a People conference, and wrote the book Feel the Fire (Chad wrote the forward). Detective Ron Ball stated that this lie “delayed the investigation into the whereabouts and safety of [JJ] by requiring us to take time to investigate a lead that was verified as false.”
• Detectives called Gibb but were unable to reach her. Lori claimed that her friend and JJ were at Frozen 2. Officers told Lori to tell her friend to call them.
• After not hearing back from Gibb that night (‼️), LE in Rexburg called the Gilbert Police Department. Officers from GPD went to Gibb’s home. She was not there, but they reached her by phone. Gibb told them JJ had not been there for several months (source). Notable: Not getting back to LE in a timely manner gave Lori and Chad significant lead time to flee the jurisdiction.
• Gibb waited 10 days before telling RPD that both Lori and Chad asked her to tell them she had JJ (source).
• Gibb has reportedly retained a lawyer and is cooperating with authorities (source, 1:57 minute mark).

Author’s note: This is the scene that played out in my head as I recorded the ill-fated antics of this ragtag bunch of misfits.?

11/27/19: LE executes a search warrant for the townhouse Lori Vallow’s was renting and discovers that Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell vacated the home. Witnesses say kids weren’t with them. LE also search the townhouses belonging to Vallow’s brother, Alex Cox, and niece, Melani Pawlowski, who reportedly lived within a few doors of Vallow (source).

11/27/19: LE search Lori Vallow’s Self-Storage Plus storage unit, where they find kids’ bikes, toys, photo albums, winter clothes, a backpack with JJ’s initials, a jersey with Colby Ryan’s name on it, photo blankets made from pictures of Tylee and JJ from infancy on (source). Related: Lori Vallow or men associated with her visit the storage unit a total of 10 times between Oct 1 and Nov 24.

11/27/19: Approximate date Alex Cox moves back to Arizona (source, 1:01:39 minute mark).

11/27/19: Detectives come to the house of Lori Vallow’s son, Colby Ryan, to inquire about the whereabouts of Tylee Ryan and JJ Vallow (source, 24:57 minute mark). Colby told Fox reporter Justin Lum that he called his mom after they left and said, “Two detectives just came to my door. What is going on?’ She allegedly answered, “‘I got it, I’ll take care of it. Love you.” Colby added, when pressed by Lum, that she also asked what the detectives asked him but that was it (25:47 minute mark).

11/27/19: Approximate date Rexburg Police Department requests the assistance of the FBI in finding Tylee Ryan and JJ Vallow (source).

11/27/19: Police serve search warrants at Lori’s townhome and Alex’s apartment where they find large number of firearms (source).

11/28/19: Colby Ryan emails Lori Vallow after she shut her phone off to see what was going on and to ask for her to help them out through Venmo (source): 

Mom, you changed your number? What is going on?

11/28 – 12/1/19: Chad Daybell spends Thanksgiving weekend on vacation with his family in Southern California, traveling there via the Salt Lake City airport. Photos posted to social media show Chad at the airport and later Knott’s Berry Farm, an amusement park in Buena Park, CA. Lori wasn’t in any of the photos (source). It’s later discovered they stay at the Residence Inn in La Miranda Buena Park (source).

11/29/19 – 12/1/19: Chad rented Nissan Altima from a location in Fullerton, CA (source).

11/29/19: Alex Cox marries Zulema Pastenes in Las Vegas (source). According to the owner of A Chapel of Love in Las Vegas—where the two were married—the minister reflected on the service, commenting that the thing that stuck out to him the most was their “lack of emotional response.” He continued, “They were very cold. It was business. They wanted to get in and get out.” The owner said their service only lasted 8 mins, and their only witness was the chapel security guard (source, 1:21 minute mark).

Notable: Alex Cox took Zulema’s last name (source).

Note: Ian Pawlowski told investigators that “Al and Zulerna had stayed in Las Vegas and were ‘preparing earthquakes’ at the time I spoke with the police. Since he spoke to police 12/5 and 12/6, this puts them in Vegas through at least 12/5/19.

11/29/19: Lori’s friend, Melanie Gibb, receives email from Lori full of beautiful pictures of their wedding on the beach. Gibb claims she didn’t know they had gotten married (source).

11/30/19: Colby Ryan came into possession of the Nissan Rogue registered to Lori Vallow and Alex Cox (source).

11/30/19: Melani Pawlowski marries Ian Pawlowski in Las Vegas (source).

Note: Alex Cox (AKA Alex Pastenes) is their witness.

Early Dec: Ian Pawlowski texts his ex-wife concerns about the attempted shooting of Brandon Boudreaux: “She didn’t know beforehand what was gonna happen. They made the attempt, failed and told her about it after the fact (transcript).”

Dec 2019: Lori Vallow’s next-door neighbor in Rexburg is interviewed by Rexburg PD. He says he and his wife, Leah, had previously been interviewed by Rexburg PD Det David Stubbs (source).

Dec 2019: Melanie Gibb allegedly says kids are most likely dead and that all were probably killed by Alex. Gibb also says (again, allegedly) that Lori and Chad were frustrated that Tammy had not died yet, and Chad allegedly told Lori, “It’s not that easy to get someone’s spirit out of their body” (source).

Note: I’m assuming “all” means everyone who died in this story: Charles, Tylee, JJ, and Tammy.

12/1/19: Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell fly from LA to Kaua’i on American Airlines. RPD cannot find any information that confirms they’ve returned to the mainland since this date (source).

12/2/19: Ian Pawlowski’s mother calls him after talking to his ex-wife Natalie. She told him that Melani was in a cult, Chad is a cult leader, and her uncle had shot a man (source).

12/2/19: Alex Cox’s apartment goes back on the market (source).

12/2/19: Lori Vallow and Colby Ryan exchange emails in response to the email Colby sent on 11/28 (source):

“Hi Colby! 

I need you to know that we are safe and happy. I know this sounds confusing to you but I need you to trust me….that although there are wicked people trying to cause harm that Jesus is on our side and taking care of us. Although we may be out of touch for a while, I will continue to help you. I love you all so much! The car and the car insurance will be paid for so u can drive it with no worries. The phones will also be good. You are precious to your momma !!! I love you so much !! Kisses to and you Ryley, and Kelsee. I hope to talk soon :). I will continue to pray blessings on your family constantly.

Colby: Okay mom. I love you. Please be smart and take care of the kids and yourself. I don’t know what’s going on but I’m praying for all of you. I’m mad, and sad. But I know I can’t control anything going on. Please be safe. All of you. We love you and if you can help us at all through Venmo too that would help. I’m gonna be getting a second job but until then we could use a little help. You have helped us so much with the car and phones so thank you for that. I love you all. 

12/3/19: According to an email from Natalie Pawlowski (ex-wife of Ian Pawlowski) to an associate of Brandon Boudreaux, Melani Pawlowski (current wife of Ian Pawlowski and former wife of Brandon Boudreaux) is interviewed by LE for five hours (source).

12/4/19: FBI agents from Phoenix, AZ, look into Lori Vallow, Melanie Gibb, and Richard “Jason” Mow (source 1). Agent digs into Lori Vallow’s podcasts. FBI agent notes Jason Mow joined them in the podcast. Mow said they had a “special connection” and described her as a “gatherer.” Mow connected Vallow with Gibb (source 2). Vallow mentions how “suffering leads to salvation and that even thought she doesn’t want her kids to suffer she understands they have to so they can see the light.” Agent also describes podcasts as “not soothing by any means” (source 3).

12/4/19: FBI agent digs into Richard “Jason” Mow’s professional background. Agent notes that the Phoenix Police Department’s Homicide Sergeant recalls a time he was “sleeping in the front seat of his car while he was supposed to be doing security for them as they were executing a search warrant.” Agent asks another agent to look into him more (source).

12/4/19: Natalie Pawlowski contacts an associate of Brandon Boudreaux, trying to find him. It’s a pretty desperate cry for help and reveals how scared she and Ian both were (transcript).

12/4/19: Someone publishes part 1 of Lori and Melanie’s podcast they recorded with David Warwick on 9/22/19 (the last day JJ Vallow was seen alive): Part 1 Guest David Warwick ‘From Gangs to the Gospel’ (source 1 // source 2).

Note: I believe this someone was Lori and that she did this to implicate David Warwick in the murder of JJ Vallow.

12/5/19: Natalie and Ian Pawlowski are interviewed by Rexburg Police Department (source).

Notable: One of the items Lori Vallow’s defense attorney requested from Rexburg Police Department was recordings from Ian Pawlowski (source). I wonder what he recorded. It’s worth noting Idaho is a one-party consent state, meaning he wouldn’t have needed to get permission from someone he was recording.

12/5/19: A woman and man appearing to be Zulema Pastenes and Alex Cox are seen together by leaving his Silver Ford F-150 (source).

12/6/19: Someone publishes part 2 of Lori and Melanie’s podcast they recorded with David Warwick the last day JJ Vallow was seen alive, Part 2 Guest David Warwick ‘Game Changer’ (source 1 // source 2).

12/6/19: Lori Vallow’s friend and one-time Preparing a People podcast co-host, Melanie Gibb, informs RPD that both Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell had contacted her separately on November 26th and asked her to lie to detectives and tell them JJ was with her (source).

Notable: This was 10 days after she spoke to GPD detectives and let them know JJ was not with her. Gibb had told detectives that JJ was with her when she spoke to an investigator from Gilbert Police Department. It had been reported that Gibb refused to lie for Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell (source // 2:15 min mark), but this, too, was a lie. See note from 12/8 that starts with “Melanie Gibb meets with Gilbert PD Detective Ryan Pillar” to view the recording of Gibb admitting to lying to Det Pillar.

12/6/19: Zulema Pastenes reported that Alex Cox started having shortness of breath.

12/6/19: Ian Pawlowski meets with LE again alone and restates what he knows for a few other detectives, Lieutenant Ball, and another FBI agent named Travis (source).

12/6/19: Chandler PD in AZ serve a search warrant for all JJ’s records at L.I.F.E. Academy, where he attended before Lori Vallow moved him to Rexburg, ID, following JJ’s father’s death (source).

12/6/19: Zulema Pastenes is seen driving to the Gilbert Temple, according to Gilbert PD (source).

12/6/19: Rexburg PD Det Dave Hope interviews Garth Daybell at Madison Jr. High, Rexburg (source).

12/6/19: Zulema Pastenes tells Melanie Gibb she received her “witness” regarding Lori, meaning her confirmation that she was the religious leader she claimed to be (source).

12/7/19: Rexburg PD Det Ray Hermosillo interviews Melanie Gibb (source).

12/7/19: Rexburg PD Det Dave Hope interviews Principal Williams at JJ Vallow’s school, Kennedy Elementary (source).

12/7/19: According to Zulema Pastenes, Alex Cox drove to Algodones, Mexico, to buy prescriptions because they were cheaper (source).

12/8/19: Someone publishes part 3 of Lori and Melanie’s podcast they recorded with David Warwick the last day JJ Vallow was seen alive, “Part 3 – Confronting Persecutors, Refinement in Feeling the Fire” (source 1 // source 2).

12/8/19: Melanie Gibb records a call with Chad and Lori Vallow and asks for information about JJ’s whereabouts (recording of call).

12/8/19: Melanie Gibb meets with Gilbert PD Detective Ryan Pillar, shares the recorded call, and admits that she lied about having had JJ with her the previous week (source).

Note: This was 12 days after Rexburg PD conducted the welfare check to check on JJ Vallow and found out he was missing.

12/8/19: Approximate date Ian Pawlowski texts his ex-wife Natalie with grave concerns about Melani’s court hearing, her uncles’ advice for her to move to Ammon, ID, his insistence on staying in Rexburg, and concern for Natalie’s safety (source):

Don’t respond.

I need you to encourage Brandon to keep info he gets on the down low until I can get this sorted out.

I want to help, but it will be tough if every[one] starts figuring out what I’m learning.

She didn’t know beforehand what was gonna happen (Note: He’s talking about the attempted murder of Melani’s first husband, Brandon Boudreaux.)

They made the attempt, failed and told her about it after the fact. I understand that he doesn’t want the kids around her because of all of this, but I believe if she can see them, it will put a huge dent in her trust with her uncles. She’s scared and had been told her middle children are dead. She has a family court date on 12/11. I’m trying to get her to go…

I don’t know if I can convince her to go to the family court hearing on Wednesday. I’m trying but she “got an answer” last night from God himself. Her uncles have her so wrapped up. They’re telling her she needs to move to Ammon. That’s not gonna happen because I’m not going to leave Rexburg. They think is (sic) has something to do with jurisdiction. Dumbest thing ever. Don’t respond. Just wanted to update you earlier because I had a quick second to call. Stay safe.

Note: Screenshot is from Brandon Boudreaux’s phone; thus the misspelling of “Pawlowski” and question as to the date the text was actually sent to Natalie.

12/8/19: Kay Vallow Woodcock tells Chanlder Det Nathan Moffet that she plans to call DCS Child Services in Idaho and Arizona to get custody of JJ Vallow if he’s found (source).

12/9/19: Lori Vallow accesses JJ Vallow’s app from his old school. (Lori withdrew JJ 9/5/19.)

12/9/19: There is a Venmo transfer from Lori Vallow or Tylee Ryan to Colby Ryan’s account (source).

Note: The FOIA doc redacted the donor and amount. It only states that the 49 transactions listed are from Lori or Tylee.

12/10/19: Approximate date Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell move into a condo at the Villas on the Prince community in Princeville, HI (source).

Notable: The complex was across the street from the townhouse complex Charles and Lori used to live in.

12/11/19: Melani Pawlowski has a family court hearing scheduled. Ian Pawlowski had told his ex-wife Natalie he was trying to get her to go. He said she “got an answer” last night from God himself (source).

12/11/19: Tammy Daybell’s remains are exhumed by the Fremont County Sheriff’s Office, with the assistance of the Utah Office of the Medical Examiner, and an autopsy is conducted (source). The warrant states, “There is probable cause to believe that the hereinafter described property or persons, presently located within the hereinafter described location, is connected with the commission of public offense(s), to wit: conspiracy to commit homicide first degree… which occurred on or about July 11, 2019.”

12/12/19: Tammy Daybell’s remains were reburied (source).

12/12/19: Alex Cox dies of suspicious causes in Gilbert, AZ. Zulema Pastenes’ 25-year-old son, Joseph Lopez, found him unresponsive in the bathroom and reports being unable to turn him over to administer CPR because he had lost control of his bowels. He refers to Cox as his mom’s boyfriend, revealing he seemed to be unaware she had married Cox 12 days prior. He also didn’t know Cox’s last name when the operator asks (source). As part of the autopsy, investigators request an expanded toxicology panel from the medical examiner’s office (source, 1:02:29 minute mark).

Notable: Keith Morrison said detectives wanted to question Cox about the shooting of Charles Vallow (7/11/19), as well as the mysterious shooting attempts at Brandon Boudreax (10/2/19) and Tammy Daybell (10/9/19). But before they could question him, he too died. But more than two months passed. If he wasn’t questioned during those two months, why?

12/13/19: Chad Daybell and Lori Vallow call Melani Pawlowski to say Rexburg PD contacted two of Chad’s kids and threatened to exhume Tammy Daybell’s body. Per Ian, Chad and Lori seemed not to know the exhumation had already taken place already and thought the FBI’s involvement was a rumor and scare tactic (source).

12/13/19: Rexburg PD Det Dave Hope interviews Joseph and Emma Murray at Central Elementary, Sugar City (source).

12/16/19: Possible date Melanie Gibb was interviewed by Chandler Police (source).

12/16/19: Someone accepted two Facebook friends for Tylee Ryan’s account (source).

12/17/19: Rexburg PD Lt Ron Ball and Officer Rick Schmitt meet with Jason Gwilliam at Springsville Police Department (source).

12/17/19: Someone tries to log in to Tylee Ryan’s Facebook account from an IP address in California and Kansas (source).

12/18/19: Chad Daybell’s parents, Jack and Sheila Daybell, are interviewed by Rexburg Police Department (source 1 // source 2).

12/19/19: RPD executes a second search warrant on Alex Cox’s apartment. They went in with a forensics team and looked for any evidence of JJ having been there (source).

12/19/19: Ian Pawlowski tells Melani he had spoken with LE (source).

12/19/19: Approximate date Ian Pawlowski records his notes of everything he told the FBI (source).

12/19/19: Colby Ryan announces his new YouTube channel, CJ’s Place in S1E1. It has since been set to private. Description:

Welcome to CJs place, I’m super exited to be launching a channel that I can finally talk about more things in depth. I wanna be honest, real, and talk about things I’m interested In. You guys can come with your boy and see how everything shapes out but welcome all

12/20/19: Rexburg PD announces investigation into the disappearance of Tylee Ryan and JJ Vallow (source), as well as their partnership with the FBI in the investigation into the disappearance (source).

12/20/19: Lori Vallow accesses JJ Vallow’s app from his old school. (Lori withdrew JJ 9/5/19.)

Notable: The announcement of the investigation may have been the trigger for this login. But why?

12/21/19: Rexburg PD calls Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell “persons of interest” in the disappearance of Tylee Ryan and JJ Vallow (source).

12/21/19: Gilbert Police seize Alex Cox’s F-150 truck from Zulema Pastenes’ home (source).

12/22/19: Melani Pawlowski tells FBI agent Ricky Wright that she’s willing to make a written statement in an effort to “clear her name” because she was getting hateful texts from people. She asked also that some of her property be returned from Rexburg Police, such as a laptop, and that they help her get Christmas presents to her kids (source // photos).

12/23/19: Sean Bartholick, of Rigby, Andrus & Rigby, issues statement on behalf of Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell (source).

12/23/19: Melani and Ian Pawlowski are interviewed by the FBI again in Idaho. It’s noted that Ian was still cooperating with the FBI (source).

12/24/19: Melani Pawlowski shows up at her father’s house unannounced and has an unusual exchange with him. He believed she was looking for her children, who her ex-husband, Brandon Boudreaux, had in hiding (source).

12/27/19: A friend of Lori Vallow who spoke under the condition of anonymity said Vallow would say, “It’s gonna be the end of the world and we should all just drive off a cliff and kill us and our kids and die all at the same time” (source, 2:37 minute mark).

12/27/19: Chad Daybell and Lori Vallow are caught on surveillance by Kauai Police outside the home they were staying in when they fled (source).

12/27/19: Chad Daybell’s friend, Julie Rowe, claims both she and Chad had a vision where angels told them Daybell’s wife, Tammy would die (source). Rowe also claims she knows the kids are safe from her visions: “I do know the kids are safe. I can see them. I can see their energy and that they’re in a bright house. I can see they’re in the living room where they are. I can see they’re comfortable [in their] bed at night.”

12/30/19: Chad Daybell and Lori Vallow’s friend, Julie Clement, claims to have spoken on the phone with Chad and Lori this day and wouldn’t give Gilbert Police either of Chad or Lori’s phone numbers (source). 

12/30/19: Rexburg PD issues press release stating that they know the children are not with Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell and that they have information indicating that Lori “knows either the location of the children or what has happened to them” (source).

Early 2020: Melanie Gibb talks to FBI agents “two to three times” (source).

1/3/20: Rexburg PD and the FBI search Chad and Tammy Daybell’s former home in Salem, ID. LE collects 43 items (source).

1/3/20: In an act of defiance, Chad Daybell’s adult daughter, Emma Daybell Murray, makes faces at reporters, which was captured by a KIDK3 reporter (source, 1:50 minute mark)

1/4/20: Kay Woodcock reveals in an interview with Fox 13 that Charles Vallow made recordings of Lori. “Charles told me he had recordings of her,” Woodcock said. “He said, ‘Nobody will believe me,’ and he recorded her one night. Even though it’s deleted, nothing is ever deleted electronically or whatever” (source).

Note: From the context, it sounds like he may have made recordings of her bizarre statements and/or threats.

1/6/20: Kay and Larry Woodcock are interviewed by Rexburg Police Department (source).

1/6/20: Fremont County and RPD publish press release about issuing search warrant on Chad Daybell’s house. Release mentions 43 items were removed, including electronic devices, journals, documents and medications (source).

1/7/20: Chandler PD interview April Raymond (source).

1/7/20: Melani Pawlowski’s court date for the trespassing charge.

1/7/20: Larry and Kay Woodcock, JJ Vallow’s grandparents, announce a $20,000 reward for information leading to the recovery of JJ and Tylee Ryan (press conference // award site).

1/8/20: Lori Vallow accesses JJ Vallow’s app from his old school. (Lori withdrew JJ 9/5/19.)

1/8/20: Rexburg PD Det Randy Reese interviews April Raymond (source).

1/9/20: Rexburg PD Det Randy Reese interviews yours truly 🙋‍♀️ (source).

1/10/20: Chad Daybell’s younger brother, Matt Daybell releases a statement expressing dismay at Chad’s sudden marriage to Lori Vallow and urging him to cooperate with authorities regarding Tylee Ryan and JJ Vallow’s disappearance (source).

Notable: Matt adds that his statement represents the views of him, his wife and children, not his extended family or parents.

1/13/20: Bodycam footage, 911 call, and police report from the day Charles Vallow was shot is obtained by Fox10 (source).

1/14/20: Melani Pawlowski is interviewed by Rexburg Police Department (source).

1/14/20: Surveillance video from Yellowstone National Park is received by Rexburg Police Department (source).

1/25/20: LE in Kaua’i, HI, serves Lori Vallow with a child protection order from Madison County’s prosecutor’s office in Rexburg, ID, requiring her to produce Tylee Ryan and JJ Vallow to Idaho Department of Health and Welfare or Rexburg Police Department in Rexburg by Jan 30 (source).

1/26/20: LE in Kaua’i, HI, “serve search warrants on the persons of Chad Daybell and Lori Vallow and on a black Ford Explorer they had rented” in the parking lot of the Kaua’i Beach Resort (source). LE found the following items in their possession:

• birth certificates for both Tylee Ryan and JJ Vallow
• Tylee’s financial transaction card by BBVA
• JJ’s iPad
• another iPad logged into JJ’s Apple account
• JJ’s school registration receipts from Kennedy Elementary in Rexburg, ID

Notable:

• Tylee’s card was still active at that time and had been used since she was last seen.
• It would be very difficult to prove plausible deniability re: the theory that Chad didn’t know Lori had minor children, when she had their birth certificates and an iPad with JJ’s name on it in her possession.
• Between having JJ’s iPad she had in the car, another iPad that was still logged in to JJ’s Apple account, and her login activity with JJ’s previous school’s app, it’s possible she missed JJ. She had logged in five times since withdrawing him from L.I.F.E. Academy.

1/26/20: LE in Kaua’i, HI, serve a search warrant for the condo Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell rent. Officers observe there are no signs children Evidence they cited:

• There were two beach/lawn chairs in the garage.
• There were two exercise mats in the garage.
• There were only two beach towels in the garage.
• There were no items in the garage or condo that appeared to belong to a minor child.
• There was no evidence of a 7 year old boy—e.g., clothing, toys, books, medication, etc.
• There was a second room in the condo that had no signs of being lived in.

Note: Nate Easton from East Idaho News pursues the couple to question them about the whereabouts of the children who have been missing four months at this point (source).

1/26/20: Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell are detained and questioned in separate police cars in Kauai, Hawaii (source).

1/29/20: Kay and Larry Woodcock file for emergency guardianship of JJ Vallow in Rexburg, ID (source).

1/29/20: Chad Daybell and Lori Vallow reportedly clear out of the condo they were renting in the Villas on the Prince community (source). They allegedly move to the Kaua’i Beach Resort (source).

1/30/20: Sidney Woodbury Shenk is interviewed by Rexburg Police Department (source).

1/30/20: Lori Vallow defies the court order and does not produce the kids to the Idaho Department of Health and Welfare or Rexburg Police Department, risking potential civil and criminal consequences (source).

1/30/20: Lori Vallow retains Daniel Hempey, an attorney in Kuau’i, HI (source).

1/30/20: Chandler Police turn over Lori Vallow’s iCloud records to the FBI (source).

1/31/20: Lori Vallow accesses JJ Vallow’s app from his old school. (Lori withdrew JJ 9/5/19.)

Early Feb: Lori Vallow has her church records transferred to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in Kaua’i, HI. Tylee Ryan and JJ Vallow’s names were not included in the record. Chad Daybell hadn’t transferred his records to the new ward yet (source, 00:05 minute mark).

2/1/20: Colby Ryan’s mother-in-law, Carrie O’Neal Benson, launches a GoFundMe to raise $15,000 for Colby and his wife, citing financial burdens resulting from the family crisis (source).

Note: This GFM went from $15k to $10k to $7.5k (the last two on the same day) and then ended at $20k after the kids’ remains were found.

2/2/20: Lori Vallow and new husband Chad Daybell start attending church at the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in Kaua’i (source).

Related: As of Jan 2, 2020, a spokesperson for the church has not confirmed or denied whether Chad Daybell has been excommunicated or is still a member (source).

2/4/20: Lori Vallow accesses JJ Vallow’s app from his old school. (Lori withdrew JJ 9/5/19.)

2/4/20: Approximate date officials at L.I.F.E. Academy—JJ’s former school school in Chandler, AZ, that Lori Vallow withdrew JJ from 9/5/19—removes Lori’s access to the app after discovering she had continued to access the app to get updates. Dates accessed: 9/7, 11/21, 12/9, 12/20, 1/8, 1/31, 2/4 (source, 00:21 minute mark).

Notable: 12/20 coincides with the date Rexburg PD announced the investigation into the disappearance of Tylee Ryan and JJ Vallow.

2/4/20: East Idaho News publishes surveillance footage of the Self Storage Plus storage unit Lori Vallow rented in Rexburg, ID (source).

2/5/20: Rexburg PD Lt Ron Ball and Det Ray Hermosillo interview Chad’s brother and sister-in-law, Matt and Heather Daybell, at Rexburg Police Station (source).

2/5/20: Rich Robertson, a private investigator hired by Brandon Boudreau, comes forward to say Boudreaux identifies Alex Cox was the shooter (source). “The vehicle that was involved in the shooting belonged to Charles Vallow,” Robertson said. “It was a green Jeep Cherokee** with Texas license plates. He recognized that as his former in-law and he suspected Charles Vallow’s killer, Alex Cox, was the one driving that jeep.”

Note: Alex Cox was actually driving a gray 2008 Jeep Wrangler with Texas license plate LWD0997 (source, pg 3 / para 8). This Jeep is also sometimes described as green in court documents because of its hue.

2/10/20: Law enforcement report that they found Tylee Ryan’s cell phone with Lori Vallow in Hawaii (source).

2/11/20: Fremont County’s Office of the Prosecuting Attorney’s Office denies Fox 10’s public records request for the “911 call and report taken in the death of Tammy Daybell” and “any 911 calls from the Daybell home…on 10/9/19” (source). The letter cites two justifications for its denial:

1. Idaho Code 124(1)(a): (1) Notwithstanding any statute or rule of court to the contrary, nothing in this chapter nor chapter 10, title 59, Idaho Code, shall be construed to require disclosure of investigatory records compiled for law enforcement purposes by a law enforcement agency, but such exemption from disclosure applies only to the extent that the production of such records would: (a) Interfere with enforcement proceedings;
2. Wade v Taylor 156 Idaho 91, 98, 320 P.3d 1250, 1257 (2014): The legislative intent underlying the section is to prevent the premature disclosure of information that may compromise an investigation, the state’s case in court, or the defendant’s right to a fair trial.

Note: 10/9/19 was the date Tammy Daybell filed a report with the Rexburg Police Department, claiming to be shot at by a masked man carrying a paintball gun.

2/12/20: Keith Morrison of Dateline is tipped off that Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell had packed their bags and were heading to Mexico (source, 00:22 minute mark).

2/12/20: Brandon Boudreaux reaches out to Gilbert Police Det Pillar to tell him Melani Pawlowski wouldn’t sign the papers to cancel the life insurance policy they had on him. Because they were both owners of the policy (something the broker noted as ‘unusual’), both of them had to sign the paper to remove her as a beneficiary of the policy. She also paid for the policy out of her personal account, so he couldn’t even stop payment on the policy (source).

2/14/20: Dateline airs a two-hour special on the case, “Where Are the Children?” (source).

2/15/20: LE comes to the door of Tammy Daybell’s family members’ house around this date looking for Tylee Ryan and JJ Vallow after someone called in an anonymous tip that s/he saw them in their yard (source):

Local LE showed up to my house recently after a (anonymous? I don’t know) tip was called in saying JJ and Tylee were seen on my yard and might be living in my house. The household was cooperative with them and showed them the tip was false. I’m a little nervous of the implications this event might have, but there’s no reason to suspect anyone is at risk right now.

2/16/20: Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell check out of the Kaua’i Marriot Resort where they had been staying (source).

2/16/20: Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell are seen in Kaua’i boarding a plane to Maui (source).

2/16/20: Ian Pawlowski brings his ex-wife his laptop where she found a bizarre note about Melani and the group she was involved with (transcript).

2/17/20: The FBI receive tips from reporters that Chad Daybell and Lori Vallow move from Kauai to Maui, HI (source).

2/18/20: Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell return to Kaua’i (source).

2/18/20: A search warrant was served at Self-Storage Plus where Lori Vallow rented a storage unit. Police removed all of the items in the unit (source, 1:05 minute mark).

2/18/20: The Madison County Prosecuting Attorney’s Office submits a criminal complaint against Lori Vallow (source). The complaint alleges five crimes:

• two felony counts of desertion and nonsupport of dependent children
• resisting or obstructing officers (misdemeanor)
• criminal solicitation to commit a crime (misdemeanor)
• contempt of court (misdemeanor)

Note: I will start referring to Lori as Lori Vallow from this point onward since the arrest warrant and court documents affirm she took Chad’s last name. If I refer to Lori by last name only, I’ll include Vallow just to be clear which Daybell I’m referring to.

2/20/20: Lori Vallow is arrested at and taken into custody at 2:30 pm HST by Kaua’i Police Department. She is held on $5 million bond pending extradition to Idaho.

2/21/20: Lori Vallow’s first court hearing in Kaua’i, HI (recording of hearing). Highlights:

• Vallow Daybell’s defense attorney, Daniel Hempey, requested her bail be reduced from $5 million to $10,000. Justification for the reduction by Hempey was, “We are sitting here with a couple felonies and misdemeanors and a half a million dollar bail” (source).
• Judge Kathleen Watanabe kept Vallow Daybell’s bail at $5 million.
• Vallow Daybell asserts her right to an extradition hearing to fight extradition to Idaho. That hearing is scheduled for March 2.
• Prosecuting attorney Justin Kollar requested Vallow Daybell be remanded without bail.
• Kollar requested an identification hearing be set for March 5, 2020.
• Vallow Daybell exercised her right to demand a governor’s warrant.
• Hempey alleged that the police officers from Idaho questioned Vallow Daybell with Kuau’i police while she was in custody even though “they knew she was represented by counsel” (source). Note: Kelly Vaughan from 2KUTV reported on February 21st that the police chief and assistant chief were not in Hawaii (source, 2:09 minute mark). It’s unclear—at least at time of writing—who was there from RPD.
• Kollar requested that, if Vallow Daybell posts bail and has a passport, she surrender it to the Kuau’i Police Department.
• Vallow Daybell focused her transformation efforts on new husband Chad Daybell’s hair and overlooked training him how to pick a tie (source). I gotchu, Chad. You have a week to shop and practice. We’ll check back on your progress.

2/21/20: Lori Vallow is booked into Kauai Community Correctional Center (source).

2/23/20: Child custody papers reveal Ian Pawlowski provided statements to LE that Melani Pawlowski—Brandon Boudreaux’s ex-wife—told him shortly after they married that she conspired with her uncle, Alex Cox, to kill Brandon. Brandon alleges that Melani was motivated by a $1 million life insurance policy. Melani’s new husband, Ian Pawlowski, told LE Melani once said “something to the effect of ‘sometimes children are full of light and then just like that they go dark.'”

Note: I modified this entry after Melani Pawlowski’s attorney issued a statement refuting that Melani accepted any responsibility (source). And it appears all news stories covering this release have been taken down.

2/24/20: Chad Daybell cancels lease on condo in Kaua’i, HI (source).

2/25/20: Madison County Prosecutor’s Office subpoenas Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell’s Princeville landlord, the Kauai Beach Resort, and JJ Vallow’s school in Rexburg, ID, Kennedy Elementary School.

For all parties, they have until 3/9/20 and have to produce all documents from 8/1/19 to the present.

2/26/20: Judge denies Lori Vallow’s second request to lower bond. Vallow Daybell waives right to an extradition hearing. She will return to Idaho to face charges (source).

2/26/20: The attorney for Melani Pawlowski issues press release denying Pawlowski admitted to any wrongdoing with the kids and denies knowing where they are. He also denies she had anything to do with the alleged shooting of former husband Brandon Boudreaux (source).

2/29/20: Chad Daybell returns to Rexburg, ID (source).

3/3/20: Rexburg PD Officer Rick Schmitt interviews Matt Daybell about storage unit footage (source).

3/4/20: Lori Vallow has a status hearing in Kaua’i, HI, before being extradited to Idaho (source).

3/5/20: Lori Vallow arrives in Rexburg, ID (source).

3/5/20: Lori Vallow’s attorneys request a number of documents from the prosecuting attorney’s office (source):

• Warrants and related documents
• Communications between LE and media
• Court orders
• Un-redacted police records
• Handwritten notes
• Dispatch tapes (and a full paragraph of someone riding the caps lock)

3/6/20: Lori Vallow is scheduled for an arraignment hearing in Rexburg, ID (source / watch live).

3/6/20: Lori Vallow’s bond is reduced from $5 million to $1 million by Magistrate Judge Faren Eddins (source).

3/6/20: Madison County Prosecutor Rob Wood reveals in Lori Vallow’s first court hearing in Idaho that Daybell continued to receive social security benefits for both kids after she left Idaho without them (source).

3/9/20: Deadline Madison County Prosecutor’s Office assigns for all parties to comply with subpoenas served Feb 25 (source).

3/11/20: The FBI, Rexburg Police Department and numerous law enforcement agencies investigating cases related to Lori Vallow and her missing children meet in Salt Lake City, UT, to “coordinate, review, and share information” (source).

3/11/20: Madison County Prosecuting Attorney Rob Wood and Lori Vallow’s attorneys request to move preliminary hearing from Mar 18–19 to May 7–8 to allow for more time to exchange and review discovery (source).

3/11/20: Lori Vallow’s attorney, Mark Means, files a motion to disqualify Magistrate Judge Eddins (the judge who dropped Daybell’s bail from $5 million to $1 million) without cause, pursuant to Idaho Criminal Rule 25 (source).

3/11/20: Approximate date Colby Ryan talked with his mother, Lori Vallow, while she was in jail (source).

3/11/20: Attorney for Lori Vallow Mark Means files a motion to disqualify Magistrate Judge Faren Eddins without cause (source).

3/12/20: Madison County Prosecuting Attorney Rob Wood objects to Lori Vallow’s motion to disqualify Magistrate Judge Eddins from the case (source).

3/12/20: Lori Vallow’s attorney, Mark Means, responds to Madison County Prosecuting Attorney Rob Wood’s objection, stating that a child protection action he’s presiding over could potentially prejudice him against Vallow Daybell (source).

3/13/20: Lori Vallow has telephonic hearing where three decisions are made (source 1 / source 2):

1. Magistrate Judge Farren Eddins agrees to reschedule Vallow Daybell’s preliminary hearing for May 7 and May 8.
2. Eddins approves Mark Means’ request to disqualify himself and withdraws from the case against Lori Vallow (source).
3. Vallow Daybell’s attorney, Brian Webb, announces he plans to file a motion to withdraw from the case. Edwina Elcox, who works with Webb’s law firm, will also withdraw from the case.

3/13/20: Michelle Radford Mallard is made judge over preliminary hearing for May 7–8, 2020 (source).

3/16/20: Two of Lori Vallow’s attorneys, Brian Webb and Edwina Elcox, withdraw from her case (source).

3/16/20: Prosecution turned over approximately 1,600 pages of documents and 14.6gb of videos, photos, and other electronic media to the defense (source, line item 3).

3/24/20: Detective Nathan Moffat with Chandler PD writes in an email to Fox 10 reporter Justin Lum that he is confident CPD is getting closer to indicting Lori Vallow for her involvement in the shooting death of Charles Vallow (source).

Author’s Note: I don’t care how premature this is…HELL YEAH!!!

3/27/20: Chad applied for a permit to put a trailer on his property (source).

3/30/20: Lori Vallow’s attorney, Mark Means, visits with Lori and is forced to sit in a public area, speak on a recorded phone line, and pass confidential paperwork through employees due to Corona Virus constraints (source).

3/30/20: Lori Vallow’s apartment went back on the market for rent (source / screenshot 1 / screenshot 2).

Note: On 4/5/20 the property was listed as pending.

Notable: As of 4/5/20, the Zillow page for this property wasn’t updated to show it as available. It appears from the date of the Facebook post, it went back on the market 3/30/20. This is interesting to me because Alex’s went back on the market the week after Lori, Chad, and Alex fled Rexburg, while Lori’s apartment was in limbo for four months following their sudden move out.

3/30/20: Chandler PD draft a search warrant for Charles Vallow’s iCloud account (source).

4/2/20: Lori Vallow’s attorney, Mark Means, requests all evidence pertaining to the deaths of Charles Vallow, Joe Ryan (??????), Tammy Daybell, and Alex Cox (source).

4/2/20: Lori Vallow’s attorney, Mark Means, requests all records pertaining to the following witnesses (source):

• Adam Cox
• Charles Vallow
• Alex Cox
• Ethel “Kay” Vallow
• Larry Woodcock
• Brandon Boudreaux
• Melani Pawlowski
• Melanie Gibb
• Christina Atwood
• Jack Daybell (Chad Daybell’s father)
• Sheila Daybell (Chad Daybell’s mother)
• Jason Gwilliam (Tammy Daybell’s brother-in-law)
• Samantha Gwilliam (Tammy Daybell’s sister)
• Summer Shiflet (Lori’s sister)
• Ruth Mortensen
• Detective Hope (RPD)
• Matt Daybell (Chad’s brother)
• Heather Daybell (Chad’s sister-in-law)

4/4/20: Fox 10 reporter Justin Lum tries to set up a meeting with Lori Vallow in jail via the Telmate app. She accepts him as a contact but denies his call (source).

Note: Truth be told, I just included this “event” to point out homegirl is looking rough.

4/7/20: Madison Co. Prosecuting Attorney Rob Wood argues Lori Vallow shouldn’t be permitted a bond reduction because she hasn’t complied with the standing court order to produce her children (source).

4/10/20: Idaho Attorney General’s Office assumes full responsibility and authority in the investigation of Chad and Lori Vallow’s roles in the death of Chad’s late wife, Tammy Daybell. The pair is being investigated for conspiracy, attempted murder, and murder (source).

4/15/20: Chandler PD interview Lori Vallow’s friend Christina (source).

4/15/20: Chandler PD interview Lori Vallow’s friend Nicole (source).

4/15/20: Chandler PD interview Lori Vallow’s friend Sarena (source).

4/17/20: Tentative date Lori Vallow’s fourth hearing to request a reduction in her bond is scheduled for, provided COVID-19’s restrictions are lifted Apr 15, as scheduled (source).

Note: This was postponed a third time to May 1.

4/22/20: Chandler PD interviews Charles’ date, Nancy Jo (source).

4/23/20: Chandler PD interviews Lori Vallow’s friend Christina again (source).

4/29/20: Attorney Sean Bartholick tells Fox reporter Justin Lum that he no longer represents Chad Daybell. Daybell is now represented by his wife, Lori Vallow’s attorney, Mark Means (source).

4/30/20: A motion is filed to move the preliminary hearing from 5/7/20 – 5/8/20 to 7/9/20 – 7/10/20 (source).

5/1/20: Tentative date Lori Vallow’s fourth hearing to request a reduction in her bond is scheduled for (source).

5/7/20: Larry and Kay Vallow Woodcock appeal to members of the Cox family to have a meeting to try to work together to find Tylee and JJ (source).

5/25/20: JJ Vallow turns eight years old.

6/3/20: Someone from LE or the prosecutor’s office interviews Melanie Gibb (source).

6/9/20: The Rexburg Police Department, assisted by the Fremont County Sheriff’s Department and the FBI, executes a search warrant on the property of Chad Daybell and discover two sets of human remains. Chad Daybell is arrested, charged with the destruction or concealment of evidence, and booked into the Fremont County Jail (source).

6/9/20: Rexburg PD Det Dave Hope reportedly captures bodycam video of Chad Daybell and his daughter, Emma Murray, as they talked while Chad was handcuffed in a police car following his arrest (source).

6/9/20: Rexburg PD interview Reegen Price, who claimed she heard a gunshot come from Chad Daybell’s property on the day Tylee Ryan was buried on his property (source).

Note: By way of reminder, Chad texted his wife, Tammy, the morning of Sep 9th to tell her he had shot a large raccoon.

6/10/20: An affidavit of probable cause is filed for Chad Daybell following the discovery of human remains on his property, which were later identified to be those of missing children Tylee Ryan and JJ Vallow (source).

6/10/20: Chad Daybell appears in court for his initial hearing. Judge Faren Eddins agreed with Prosecutor Rob Wood’s recommendation for a $1 million bond. In arguing for the bond amount, Wood confirms that the remains found on Daybell’s property belong to children and that the “concealment of one of the bodies is particularly egregious” (source).

6/10/20: Rexburg PD interview Deputy Colter Cannon with the Fremont County Sheriff’s Office regarding the attempted shooting of Tammy Daybell on 10/9/19. He was a reporting officer on the scene that day (source).

6/10/20: Rexburg PD interview Kathy Brown regarding “ERT” and “paintball” activity in the area the day of the attempted shooting of Tammy Daybell on 10/9/19 (source).

6/10/20: Rexburg PD Det Dave Hope flies a drone and captures images of Daybell property (source).

Note: There are AI and machine learning algorithms farmers use to perform soil analysis using drones. The FBI may have armed RPD with one of those smart drones.

6/11/20: Rexburg PD interview Chad Daybell’s brother and sister-in-law, Matt and Heather Daybell  by Rexburg Detective Hope. Emails between Matt and Chad are also provided by Matt to LE (source).

6/13/20: The remains found on Chad Daybell’s property are positively identified as belonging to Tylee Ryan and JJ Vallow by the Ada County Medical Examiner. Rexburg Police Department issues press release (source).

6/16/20: Rexburg PD interview Chad Daybell’s parents, Jack and Sheila Daybell (source).

6/19/20: Judge Faren Eddins unseals the probable cause affidavit for Chad Daybell (source).

6/29/20: Rexburg Police Department returned to Chad Daybell’s property with a search warrant to conduct a search of the shed and red barn close to where Tylee Ryan’s remains were found (source).

Note: Tylee’s remains were found charred, and she had been dismembered post-mortem. It’s feasible that RPD investigators were searching the barn and shed(s) for evidence that Chad Daybell and/or Alex Cox had used these structures to dismember Tylee and then carry her remains over the fire pit to be burned. Also, remember: Alex Cox has one hour where his whereabouts were not accounted for the murder Tylee was murdered (3:37am to 4:37am). And Alex didn’t return to Lori’s apartment before heading over to Chad’s house, so they could have met up in the early morning hours to work under the cloak of night.

7/1/20: Chad Daybell is scheduled to appear in court for a preliminary hearing (source).

7/10/20: Fremont County District Court orders some of the records in the Lori Vallow case to be sealed temporarily or permanently to “preserve a right to a fair trial” (source).

7/22/20: The anticipated end of the world in Lori Vallow’s mind (source). Vallow Daybell believed she was a god and allegedly warned her late husband, Charles Vallow, not to get in the way:

As a god, her mission was to carry out the work of the 144,000 at Christ’s second coming. That second coming was imminent. According to Lori, Jesus was headed to Earth in July 2020. And if Charles got in the way of that mission, Lori would murder him.

7/28/20: Someone from LE interviews Matt and Reagen Price about fires on Chad Daybell’s property (source).

7/29/20: Someone from LE interviews a number of people while investigating Tammy Daybell’s death (source):

• Margaret Brown regarding “a spiritual visitation” from Tammy Daybell
• John Ochts regarding an email exchange between him and Tammy Daybell the night before she was found dead
• Melanie Gordon regarding four “odd” gentleman attending Tammy Daybell’s memorial
• Fay Harris
• Stephanie Peralta
• Angela Johansen
• Shanna Miller

8/1/20: Special Prosecutor Rob Wood and RPD detectives meet with Melanie Gibb prior to Chad Daybell’s preliminary trial (source).

8/3/20 – 8/4/20: Preliminary hearing for Chad Daybell. After two days of testimony, Magistrate Judge Faren Eddins announces Chad Daybell’s case will be bound over to District Court (source).

8/13/20: Rexburg PD Det David Stubbs interviews Heather Daybell and Maggy Daybell Hope (source).

8/19/20: Chandler PD interviews Lori Vallow’s friend Melanie Gibb (source).

9/9/20: Rexburg PD Lt Ron Ball and Special Prosecutor Rob Wood interview Craig Huff (source).

9/28/20: Rexburg PD Det Chuck Kunsaitis interviews Craig Huff (source).

Note: I initially reported this date as 9/28/19 but corrected the date 1/6/22.

10/20/20: Rexburg PD interview Melanie Gibb (source).

11/20/20: Rexburg PD Det Chuck Kunsaitis interviews Craig Huff (source).

2/3/21: Rexburg PD Det interviews Melanie Gibb and she talks about “casting out spirits” (source).

2/28/21: Garth Daybell is questioned for 30 minutes in his classroom at Madison Junior High by Fremont County Patrol Sergeant Vince Kaaiakamanu and FBI agent Ricky Wright (source).

3/8/21: Fremont County District Court enters an Order for Competency Evaluation for Lori Vallow (source).

3/16/21: Madison County Special Prosecutor Rob Wood informs the Madison County Board of Commissioners that Missouri homicide prosecutor Rachel Smith has joined his team to aid in the case against Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell (source).

Note: There’s a typo in the date. The year should read ‘2021’ not ‘2012’. It was 5:00 somewhere. 🍺

5/17/21 – 5/24/21: Fremont County convenes a grand jury to investigate the deaths of Tylee Ryan, JJ Vallow, and Tammy Daybell (source).

5/17/21: Chad Daybell’s son, Garth Daybell, and his wife, Kaira, are detained and questioned by Rexburg PD for six hours (source).

5/24/21: Prosecutors for Fremont County and Rexburg, ID, announce indictments against Chad Daybell and Lori Vallow for first-degree murder for the deaths of Tammy Daybell, Tylee Ryan and JJ Vallow, as well as other charges, including conspiracy, theft, and insurance fraud (source).

5/25/21: Prosecutors for Fremont County and Rexburg, ID, file an amended witness list (source).

5/27/21: Fremont County District Court orders a stay on Lori Vallow’s case from further proceedings until Vallow’s competency is restored (source).

6/2/21: Fremont County District Court orders protocols to govern courtroom conduct (source).

6/24/21: A grand jury in Maricopa County, AZ, indicts Lori Vallow on the charge of conspiracy to commit murder in the death of her husband, Charles Vallow (source).

7/21/21: Attorney for Chad Daybell John Prior files a motion requesting a change of venue (source).

7/27/21: Prosecutors for Fremont County and Rexburg, ID, file a petition for Missouri homicide prosecutor Rachel Smith to be admitted as pro hac vice in the case against Chad Daybell (CR22-20-0755), as well as the Grand Jury proceedings (source).

8/5/21: The State of Idaho, by and through the Fremont County Prosecutor’s Office announces its intent to see the death penalty against Chad Daybell because the murders of Tylee Ryan, JJ Vallow, and Tammy Daybell were for financial benefit, were especially heinous,  exhibited utter disregard for human life, and pose a continued threat to society (source).

Note: Although Lori Vallow was not named—because her case is on hold until her competency is restored—her name and case number (CR22-21-1624) were included in the filing.

8/6/21: Fremont County appoints James Archibald as co-counsel for Lori Vallow in case number CR22-21-1624 (source).

8/11/21: Attorney for Lori Vallow Mark Means files a motion to dismiss the findings of the Fremont County Grand Jury on the basis that the case against her was stayed pending the results of a psychiatric evaluation (source).

10/22/21: The transcript from the second grand jury in Fremont County was provided to Chad Daybell’s attorney, John Prior (source).

Additions to Timeline

As I add new items/details to the timeline, I’ll document them here. I won’t add minor modifications, like typo corrections, to keep this as clean as possible. I will also remove items from the log after a month (give or take) because this post had become the equivalent of 250+ pages. I’ll group them by the date of the add, which might also be the date of the event.

6/18/22

6/27/19: Someone texts Lori Vallow at 10:18am and to ask if Charles could be redeemed (source):

10/1/18: Lori Vallow reaches out to Jason Mow via email after meeting him at the temple, an event that Jason Mow recalled in a podcast with her with great fondness (source 1 // source 2).

5/5/22

Late Feb (2019): Charles Vallow makes his sister Kay Woodcock the beneficiary of his $1 million life insurance policy (source 1 // source 2).

4/25/22

8/7/19: Kelsee Ryan starts a GoFundMe for medical bills (source).

Note: This is notable because there were two Venmo payments to Colby this week (8/1 and 8/5). The FOIA docs obscure who made which payments; all we know is it was Tylee or Lori. We also don’t know if this was the original amount of the GFM. To wit, the GFM for Colby in Jan 2020 went from $15k to $10k to $7.5k (the last two on the same day) and then ended at $20k after the kids’ remains were found.

3/11/22

3/?/19 – 3/19/19: Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell meet up in Idaho (source 1 // source 2 // source 3).

3/19/19 – 3/21/19: Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell fly together to Arizona; Chad leaves 3/21 (source 1 // source 2 // source 3).

Note: It’s not clear when Lori flew out to Idaho. I thought Lori might have been out there since March 3rd because the FOIA docs didn’t include a return flight, but Charles confronted Lori about traveling to and from Idaho on 3/3 to 3/5.

3/22/19 – 3/25/19: Lori Vallow, Zulema Pastenes, both Melanies, and friends Sarena, Christina, and Nicole meet up for a girls’ weekend (source).

3/25/19: Lori Vallow begrudgingly sees Tylee Ryan for what appears to be the only time that month (source).

Note: Tylee was staying with Alex Cox at this time. Lori placed a much higher premium on spending time with Chad than Tylee or JJ. She wouldn’t see JJ until 4/11/19.

2/17/22

7/2/19: Charles Vallow tells Adam Cox he believes Chad and Tammy Daybell are ring leaders of the cult (source).

Note: According to a search warrant drafted by Chandler Police Det Nathan Duncan, they believed that Lori found out about the intervention from Chad (source). They surmised he found out from Tammy. Tammy deleted the emails from her account so they weren’t able to confirm she received the emails. I disagree with that conclusion and addressed who I thought was the mole in this YouTube live. (Spoiler alert: I believe it’s far more feasible that Chad monitored Tammy’s emails because Charles told Lori ahead of time that he had Tammy’s email and was going to reach out to her. It was summer break, so Tammy may not have been monitoring email as closely. Also, this might explain why the day after Charles was supposed to speak to Tammy, he told Adam she was a ring leader of the cult. I believe Chad may have replied harshly from Tammy’s email and then deleted everything.)

 

Added 7:52 and 8:06:

7/11/19: Timeline:

These times were all listed in the indictment against Lori (source).

• 7:35am: Charles arrives at Lori’s home and texts Lori’s brother, Adam Cox, to tell him Alex was there. Adam tells Charles Lori and Alex were planning something and Charles replies, “Absolutely.” Adam also tells Charles he was supposed to spend the night with Alex but Lori probably blocked that plan.
• 7:49am: Charles’ cell phone left the home. Chandler PD uses this timestamp as a proxy for the approximate time Charles was shot (source). From the indictment:

Based on this timeline, Charles would have laid [sic] dead or dying for approximately 43 minutes before Alex called 911.

• 7:52am: Alex Cox and Lori Vallow speak on the phone (source).
• 8:06am: Alex Cox and Lori Vallow speak on the phone again (source).
• 8:32am: Alex calls 911.
• Time undisclosed: Alex called Lori (source).
• 8:48am: Lori and Tylee arrive back to the home after stopping at Burger King, dropping JJ off at school, and stopping at Walgreens for new flip-flops.

 

7/12/19: Someone from the group texts someone else from the group to update them about Charles (source 1 // unredacted source):

Oh ok
Hiplos is gone
It was a Nephi and Laban ending.
I will tell you more when I see you in person or when you see Lori in person. I’m leaving for Chile on Monday for 2 weeks

7/30/19: Chad Daybell texts Lori Vallow about Tammy Daybell’s “death percentages” (source):

2/16/22

Added return date and note

3/3/19 – 3/5/19: Lori Vallow’s earliest known flight to Idaho via Allegiant Airline (source 1 // source 2).

Note: According to a text from Charles Vallow, Lori traveled back to Arizona on 3/5/19. This return flight isn’t confirmed in the FOIA docs.

 

Added second sentence and screenshot.

4/11/19: Approximate date Lori Vallow flies to Houston to visit JJ (source). This also aligns with Charles’ statement that Lori was gone 72 days (source).

 

Added source 2, 3 and note.

3/19/19: Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell travel from Idaho to Arizona together (source 1 // source 2 // source 3).

Note: It’s not clear when Lori flew out to Idaho. I thought Lori might have been out there since March 3rd because the FOIA docs didn’t include a return flight, but Charles confronted Lori about traveling to and from Idaho on 3/3 to 3/5.

 

11/4/19: Tylee Ryan’s gray Jeep Wrangler—which was seen in CCTV the day BrandonBoudreaux was reportedly shot at in front of his home in Gilbert, AZ—is seized and impounded in accordance with a search warrant in November 2019 in Rexburg, ID. The Jeep is registered to Charles Vallow (source 1 // source 2 // source 3).

Note: Originally LE stated they wanted to know the whereabouts of Tylee Ryan and the Jeep, but when Rexburg Police found the Jeep and impounded it, no further inquiry was made into Tylee’s whereabouts.

 

2/15/22 

9/21/18: Lori meets Jason Mow in the Celestial Room of the temple. He says he’ll pass her information along to Melanie Gibb (source).

10/4/18: Melanie Gibb claims in an interview with Chandler PD that this was the date she met Vallow (source).

10/27/18: Chad Daybell starts performing Google searches for members of Lori Vallow’s family and “many obituaries” (source). 

Note: Color me jaded, but I’m suspicious of LE’s clumping of obituary searches with searches for family member names. Lori Vallow had just shared her “testimony” about how she wanted to murder Joseph Ryan at Melanie Gibb’s house the week before. They could be doing Phoenix Police a solid by clumping this heterogeneous information together. 

11/17/18: Lori Vallow’s audio files in her iCloud account show a recorded speech given by Chad Daybell in Arizona (source).

1/31/19: Charles Vallow tells Lori Vallow not to go to the temple because her temple recommend had been suspended (source).

2/4/19: Lori Vallow secures two new phone numbers (source).

2/15/19: Earliest reference to Charles Vallow as ’Ned’ came from Alex Cox to Lori Vallow:

Ned was at the temple yesterday looking for you. He thinks you are staying with me.

There was no response.

2/15/19: Earliest reference LE could find to Charles Vallow as ‘Ned’ was a text from Alex Cox to Lori Vallow (source):

Ned was at the temple yesterday looking for you. He thinks you are staying with me. 

There’s no response from Lori.

2/16/19: Zulema Pastenes, Sarena Sharp, Melanie Gibb, and Audrey Barattiero also attended and shared a hotel room (source).

3/2/19: Alex Cox forwards a text to Lori Vallow that appears to be from their mother, Janis Cox, who adamantly defends Charles, expresses gratitude that he turned their phones back on, and says she and Barry can’t judge him even if he’s been cheating with “hookers”:

Love you to al. I do realize all of that. Realize this .. lori canceled his trip home, his his truck, took all of his clothes and drained the bank account. If I was Charles I would be upset and do hurtful things, so would you. Also, even if Charles cheated with hookers, you dad and I can not ever judge… Charles has never done anything but support me, and love me. I love lori with all my heart. I will help her in anyway a I can. But, because I have been talking to Charles with the spirit guiding me, even is he doesnt have the spirit, it has lead him not to go through with a divorce, and decided to turn on all the cell phones and put them back in Lori’s name and move out of the house and is going to pay for lori to move back in, no strings attached. So if that happens, just know the lord works in mysterious ways, sometimes things that look black and white are actually grey. I love you, I would love to talk to lori, but I haven’t heard from her. I know I’m lead by the spirit in my actions.

3/2/19: Charles Vallow goes to Summer Shiflet and Alex Cox’s houses looking for Lori Vallow (source). 

3/3/19: Lori Vallow’s earliest known flight to Idaho via Allegiant Airline (source 1 // source 2).

Note: It appears 

3/9/19: Alex Cox tells Lori Vallow that Charles Vallow (“Ned”) is still alive and says hopefully he’s gone “today or tomorrow” (source).

3/9/19: Charles Vallow forwards Chad Daybell’s rating email that he sent Lori Vallow to his sister, Kay Woodcock (source). 

Author’s Note: This document would have shed light on why Lori accused him of being a dark spirit. Tylee Ryan received the darkest rating of any living person on the list—eclipsed only by her father (and my brother), Joseph Ryan who had been designed as “sealed away” so I’ve always been mystified why family members didn’t advocate for Tylee. They saw how Charles was being tormented and was eventually shot and killed for being a “dark spirit.” 

3/9/19: Lori Vallow sends a text to Alex Cox about Charles Vallow, who they referred to as ‘Ned’ after the demon that had supposedly possessed him: “Apparently it is tied to Ned being gone ?? hopefully today or tomorrow? (source)”

3/10/19: Alex Cox tells Lori Vallow to “get rid of Ned already.” He also asked if their mom or “shish” (who appears to be Summer) know about Ned (source).

3/19/19: Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell travel from Idaho to Arizona together (source).

3/26/19: Lori Vallow and Alex Cox have a text exchange about Charles Vallow, aka “Ned” (source): 

Alex: Ned is still alive. Just confirmed. 

Lori: It’s not Ned.

Lori: It’s a new one. 

Spring 2019: Melani Pawlowski’s father, Steve Cope, observes a significant change in Melani’s behavior, including flat mood, filthy house, holes in the walls in the home, constantly on her phone, frequent trips to the temple, and references to light and dark spirits, warriors, and the end times (source). 

4/5/19: Lori’s in Phoenix and meets up with Zulema at the temple (source).

4/21/19: Lori Vallow creates an alternate email address, kkwalker@yahoo.com, and sends Chad an invitation to speak to a fictitious event in Houston on 4/27/19. Then she sends him an email thanking him for coming on 4/30/19 (source 1 // source 2). 

4/27/19: Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell spent the weekend together in Houston, TX (source).

5/2/19: After being ghosted by Lori Vallow repeatedly, Zulema predicts in a text to Lori that “something may happen to one of [her] family members.” That got Lori’s attention and she replied enthusiastically, “Call me !!” (source)

Note: I think this speaks to how disposable people were to these group members. They had no issue with using human lives as pawns to secure the validation and camaraderie they needed.

5/5/19: Lori Vallow saves an image of a malachite stone and stores it on her iCloud. It’s noted by LE to be similar to their wedding rings and a potential sign that they were planning to get married as early as May (source).

5/5/19: Lori Vallow saves a screenshot of a malachite stone similar to the stones in her and Chad Daybell’s wedding rings, indicating plans to marry Chad five months before his wife, Tammy Daybell, died (source). It also demonstrates her obsessions with malachite. Kay Woodcock says in a Facebook post on 6/23/21 that she found evidence that Lori searched specifically for ‘malachite wedding rings’ (source). She didn’t pass this piece of information on to Chandler Police Det Moffat when she emailed him about finding Lori’s search history though (source). 

5/5/19: Lori Vallow’s girl group has a Zoom call (source).

5/11/19: Charles Vallow searches for how to file for divorce without a lawyer (source).

5/27/19: Lori Vallow is in Phoenix visiting friends. She does a podcast with Melanie Gibb and then meets up with Zulema (source).

5/28/19: Lori Vallow travels from Phoenix to Salt Lake City on Delta (source).

5/29/19: Lori Vallow tells Zulema Pastenes Charles Vallow’s new name, Hiplos, and explains the ‘h’ is silent (source).

6/2/19: The day Lori Vallow thinks Charles Vallow is going to die in a car accident and asks Zulema to use her powers to ensure his destruction (source).

6/3/19: Lori Vallow moves in with Charles Vallow in Houston (source). <— check on this!

6/4/19: Charles searches for how to delete messages on a Mac (source).

6/22/19: Zulema Pastenes and Alex Cox make phone contact for the first time (source 1 // source 2). 

Note: I made every effort to un-redact the Chandler indictment document by figuring out the font used and replacing various group members’ names until one fit. These are estimates and best guesses, but Zulema and Alex’s names both fit the redactions well.

6/27/19: According to Melani Pawlowski’s father, Steve Cope, Melani asks Brandon Boudreaux for a divorce while at her father’s house (source).

6/29/19: At 8:39 am Charles Vallow emails Lori Vallow’s brother, Adam Cox, upon discovering that Lori and Chad were having an affair. The email read:

“Adam
Open this letter and see what she did. I’m not sure if the relationship with her and Chad Daybell but they are up to something. She created an email alias for me as I’ve never set this one up. She sent this yesterday and I guess she forgot all her emails are on the computer at my house. I asked her to explain it and she started blaming you, Brandon and me for perpetuating a scheme against her. Just more of her paranoia. She will not explain it. I am going to send it to Chad Daybells wife. Her name is Tammy and I found her email address on their website. I’ve got her cell number too. Sounds very suspicious to me. What do you think ? Whenever she gets caught doing this kind of stuff she starts blaming everybody else. Mostly me, you and Brandon. Brandon and I are the victims of her craziness. I wish you luck trying to help her. I was the only one brave enough to try to get her help in January and look what happened to me. The whole family put a scarlet letter on me. Maybe now they can see what they’re up against.
Thanks” 

6/29/19: At 9:16 am, Charles Vallow emails Tammy Daybell to inform her of Lori and Chad’s affair and Chad Daybell to confront him about the affair and the videos Lori allegedly sent him of her dancing (source). There’s no confirmation that Tammy saw the email from Charles. The email read:

“Tammy My name is Charles Vallow. I have some vital and disturbing information regarding your husband and my wife, Lori This is your work email so I’ll wait to send you the “evidence” that is very disturbing. You may call or email me from the address where you can receive the information. I apologize to be the one sending this but something has to be done. I feel it’s best if I shed some light on the “issue”. 

Regards,

Charles Vallow 

6/29/19: At 9:32 Charles Vallow emails Chad Daybell to confront him about his affair with his wife. The email read:

“Chad I’m Lori’s husband but I gathered you already knew this. She sent an email yesterday supposedly written by me to KK inviting you to AZ next week and to ghost write a book I’m supposedly working on. It’s preposterous I happened to run across it as she left her computer at our Houston home. I am NOT paying anybody for anything and I’m not writing a book. Either you or Lori need to tell me what’s going on or this will be exposed for all to see. 

Regards,

Charles Vallow 

At 9:36 am, Charles sends a followup email. It read:

And does your wife know you have several of Lori’s dance videos ? Explain how that is in any way appropriate. She sent them to you at your request in January”. 

6/29/19: Charles Vallow emails Tammy Daybell about the affair between Lori and Chad (source).

6/29/19: Charles Vallow sends a followup email to Tammy Daybell about the affair between Lori and Chad (source).

7/1/19: Charles Vallow plans to speak to Tammy Daybell about the affair between Lori and Chad (source). 

7/2/19: Charles Vallow tells Adam Cox he believes Chad and Tammy Daybell are ring leaders of the cult (source).

Note: I wonder if Charles did speak to Tammy because he was scheduled to speak to her the day before he wrote this about her. Also, according to a search warrant drafted by Chandler Police Det Nathan Duncan, they believed that Lori found out about the intervention from Chad. They surmised he found out from Tammy. Tammy deleted the emails from her account so they weren’t able to confirm she received the emails (source). 

7/6/19: April Raymond’s last communication with Lori Vallow (source).

7/9/19: Charles Vallow travels to Valencia, CA (source).

7/9/19: Lori Vallow sends Alex Cox a series of texts:

1:49pm: Lori invites Alex over to her house and sends him the address of 5531 South Four Peaks Place, Chandler. 

9:03pm: Lori: “So the plot thickens. Call me when you can.” LE notes this is likely in response to Lori finding out that Charles and Adam were planning a family meeting. According to the indictment, Lori found this out from her mother and sister, Summer. 

9:50pm: “Getting sleepy. So I’m gong to need you to stay close to me the next couple days. Mel too. She can’t go to Utah. They are planking some kind of intervention but want Mel out of the way so I’m left alone. I need to come get the stuff at your house tomorrow and secure it. Lots to do. Thank you for standing by me. It’s all coming to a head this week. I will be like nephi I am told ! And so will you ❤️” 

Note: “Mel” is her niece, Melani Boudreaux.

7/9/19: Melanie Gibb texts Lori Vallow and says she wants to come over. Lori tells her all of her family and the kids are over. Then she goes over to Lori’s house and texts her from outside the house to tell her she was there. Lori let her come in and then Melanie spent the night. In the morning Lori told Melanie to leave and said Charles was going to kill her (source). 

7/10/19: Lori Vallow and Melani Boudreaux exchange text messages where Lori implores her to not go out of town for the wedding she was planning to attend:

10:25am: 

Lori: “I think so. But I think they are moving their plans to tomorrow since they will still try to get rid of you. 

Melani: “I wish there was a way to somehow be at the wedding but I know this is more important V. 

Lori: “I know baby. I’m so sorry. This is important to your mission even though I know it’s hard to just sit there 

WW”. 

7:18pm: Lori sends Melani an SMS message informing her that Alex was there and that Charles said he would be coming over in the morning. 

7/10/19: Charles Vallow goes on a date with Nancy Jo shortly after arriving in AZ (source).

7/11/19: Add to timeline of the day…

7:52am: Alex Cox and Lori Vallow speak on the phone (source).

8:06am: Alex Cox and Lori Vallow speak on the phone again (source).

7/11/19: According to a woman Charles Vallow had gone on a date with the night before, Nancy Jo, Charles planned to meet up with Adam Cox after dropping JJ Vallow off at school to come up with their intervention plan for Lori (source).

7/12/19: Chad Daybell performs multiple searches around Charles Vallow’s death, including ‘Charles vallow death chandler’ (source).

7/13/19: An autopsy is performed on Charles Vallow (source).

7/13/19: Kay and Larry Woodcock fly into Phoenix to meet with Chandler PD (source). 

7/13/19: Lori Vallow and Melani Boudreaux exchange a series of messages in the morning and afternoon:

10:25am:

Melani: “Adam just called Brandon and told him Al murdered chalrels he put it on speaker for me to here”. 

Melani: Can u talk please 

Melani: “I think Brandon found out earlier. He seemed in shock a few hrs ago. And then Adam and Brandon tried to use this situation to their advantage. He cornered me and Adam put it on speaker to tell me. Then Brandon said, do you still believe everything you believe?” 

Melani: “Brandon is with the moving truck at my new address moving things I’m at the house with the kids”

Lori: “Call me” 

5:19pm:

Melani: “Does Tylee have a phone or a way to contact Brandon or Adam” 

Lori: “Nope, I still have it”

7/15/19: Melanie Gibb claims this is the date she found out Charles Vallow had been shot (source).

Note: Lori told Melanie Gibb the day before Charles was shot that she needed to leave her house (Melanie had spent the night) because Charles was going to shoot her (source). So it’s just not believable that Melanie wouldn’t have checked in on her friend for four days.

7/15/19: Add (source) to item about Colby joining Lori in Houston.

7/17/19: Charles Vallow’s iPhone XR Max is downloaded by the Chandler Police Department’s Computer Forensics unit and its contents examined by CPD Det Duncan (source). 

7/19/19: Chad sends Lori a message providing trust levels of those she needed to be aware of (source): 

Mel G 97

Zulema 96

Al 94

Thor 94

Nicole 86
Mel B 85
Summer 40

Jason 31
Sarena 18

Janie 15
Christina 8
Barry 8
April 7
Adam 0
Stacie, Talia, Audrey, Raphael 100

7/22/19: Lori Vallow emails the dog trainer for JJ’s service dog, Bailey, and tells him to pick Bailey up (source).

7/29/19 – 7/31/19: Add Melani to Oceanside vacation (source).

7/29/19: Tammy Daybell’s phone data starts (source). 

Note: This may indicate Tammy bought a new phone or her data was wiped.

8/1/19: Chandler PD receives a copy of the police report from Alex Cox’s assault on Lori Vallow’s third husband, Joseph Ryan (source).

8/2/19: Melanie Gibb hosts a meeting at her house and invites David Warwick to speak and share his testimony (source). Chad Daybell comes into town for it, and Zulema reports this was the first time she saw Lori Vallow and Chad be romantic with each other (source).

8/2/19: Lori Vallow’s friend, Sarena, moves to Phoenix (source).

8/3/19: Melanie Gibb speaks at conference in Northern AZ (source).

8/3/19 – 8/4/19: Jason Mow is in Rexburg, ID (source).

8/4/19: Tylee Ryan’s last post on Snapchat (source).

8/8/19: Lori Vallow trades in her Infiniti for her Nissan Rogue (source).

8/11/19: Lori Vallow sends Chad Daybell a text telling him to go back to his family (source):

“U should give all of you love and your attention to your wife and family. I’m just a distraction. Go have fun with your family. I really do want you to. I just can’t be in the way anymore. If things change we can talk. But we have nothing until things change anyway”. 

8/15/19: Lori Vallow sends Melani Pawlowski a screenshot of the malachite rings she ordered from Etsy (source).

8/16/19: Lori Vallow moves Tylee Ryan’s Social Security benefit deposit from Tylee’s Chase account to her own (source).

Note: This occurred three weeks before Tylee was murdered and two weeks before they moved to Rexburg.

8/17/19: Lori Vallow reserves a moving van with Budget in preparation for her move (source).

8/18/19: Melanie Gibb (aka “Phebe” who was Lori’s daughter in a previous life) and other undisclosed women meet at Lori Vallow’s home (source).

8/20/19 – 8/25/19: Lori Vallow Travels from Phoenix to Idaho and back under the name Lori Ryan. She takes pics of Kennedy Elementary School, JJ’s future elementary school,  and BYU (source).

9/3/19: Lori Vallow and Alex Cox exchange a series of texts where she identifies Adam and Zac Cox as zombies and calls for their destruction (source).

9/7/19: Tylee Ryan’s last post on Instagram (source).

9/11/19: No more conversations between Chad Daybell’s “Bubby” burner phone and Lori Vallow (source).

9/12/19: Lori Vallow searches for Charles Vallow’s tax return (source).

9/12/19: Lori Vallow emails Alex Cox’s landlord in Arizona to tell him/her that Alex had been in a car accident and wouldn’t be able to return (source).

9/15/19: Chandler PD interview Alex Cox’s first wife, Debbie, who tells them about Alex’s and Lori Vallow’s inappropriate behavior, such as Alex touching her breasts, and Alex and Lori simulating sex (source).

9/15/19 – 9/17/19: Zulema Pastenes visits Lori Vallow in Rexburg (source).

9/17/19: Melani Pawlowski (then Boudreaux) asks Brandon Boudreaux for his new address (source).

9/23/19: Brandon Boudreaux’s lease begins (source).

9/23/19: According to Melanie Gibb, Lori Vallow asks her to take JJ Vallow with her when she left Lori’s home. Melanie told Gilbert Police she declined (source).

Note: This claim is one of Melanie’s most outrageous. Her friend had been saying JJ was a zombie her entire trip, and then Melanie had a chance to save his life and she declines? She could have taken him to Rexburg Police! This would have been minimal inconvenience. This is cold blooded. 

10/1/19: Brandon Boudreaux and Melani Pawlowski close on the home they owned together (source).

10/2/19: Lori Vallow’s iCloud account shows deleted cookies from searches around the shooting of Brandon Boudreaux (source).

10/4/19: Chad Daybell texts Lori Vallow an ominous message that implies he was doing something to expedite Tammy Daybell’s death (source):

Thank you for sending me that paragraph, beautiful Lili. I’m eager to see you soon. Trying to hasten her departure. I love you endlessly! 💋💓🔥

10/5/19: Chad Daybell texts Lori Vallow more about his wife Tammy (source):

Hello, sweet angel. Big news about Tammy. Please let me know if you are awake and can talk. I love you! 💓💋

The short version is that she has been switched. Tammy is in Limbo, and a level 3 demonic entity named Viola is in her body. It happened at about 10 p.m. and was done by Tammy’s sister [redacted], who I always knew was 3D, but it turns out she is multiple creation. 

Viola has been attached for about a year to my niece [redacted], who is 12 year old daughter. I have connected with Tammy in Limbo, and she is very frustrated and upset. She wants Viola removed as soon as possible. Viola seems to be similar to Penelope. The personality differences from Tammy should be evident quickly. Please seek a confirmation on this, but I have now checked three times since I got home and get more affirmative answers each time”. 

“Not fully sure of the timing for removal, but once her actions verify the differences, I don’t want to wait”. 

10/9/19: Add that Zulema also hung out with Lori and Melani (source).

10/10/19 – 10/12/19: Add: source 2 / source 3 / reason for going

10/11/19 – 10/12/19: Lori Vallow upload ‘numerous’ pics of herself with friends at the Adam-ondi-Ahman site in Missouri (source).

10/13/19: Lori Vallow travels from Phoenix to Idaho under the name Lori Ryan (source).

10/13/19: Last time JJ Vallow’s name is mentioned in emails between Lori Vallow and Kay Woodcock (source).

10/14/19: Melani Pawlowski texts Brandon Boudreaux to say she’s moving to Boise, ID, with or without their four children (source).

10/15/19: Brandon Boudreaux tells an investigator at Gilbert Police that he was surprised to find out he was still married and that he wasn’t going to return the kids to Melani Pawlowski the next day as scheduled (source).

10/16/19: Melani Pawlowski tries to pick their four children up from school early and finds out Brandon Boudreaux didn’t take them to school. She reports this to Gilbert Police, and a detective asks about her plans to move to Idaho (source).

10/17 – 10/24: Lori Vallow and Melani Pawlowski travel to Hawaii (source 1: confidential / source 2 / source 3 / source 4).

10/18/19: Lori Vallow texts her friend Audrey from Hawaii and says, “Not sure how long we will be here. Until our work is done” (source).

10/19/19: Lori Vallow and her friend Nicole have a text exchange about Tammy Daybell’s death (source):

Nicole: I’m not sure if you heard but Chad’s wife died last night. 😭🥴

Lori: Oh my gosh. I did not hear that. I’m in Hawaii and it’s 6 am. 😭😭

Lori: Do you know what happened?

Nicole: Yes, she woke up in the night coughing, threw up, collapsed and passed away. 

10/22/19: Brandon and Melani Boudreaux’s divorce is finalized (source).

10/24/19: Lori Vallow returns to Idaho from Hawaii (source). 

10/24/19: Zulema, Melanie, and someone else meet up to do a podcast (source).

10/30/19: Law enforcement tracks down the Jeep Alex Cox allegedly drove when he shot at Brandon Boudreaux (source). 

Note: In the same police Gilbert Police report, there was a note on 10/15/19 that they were also searching for Tylee along with the Jeep (if my redaction is accurate). But they clearly were no longer interested in Tylee’s whereabouts once they found the Jeep. If they had been, the kids could have been found before Rexburg fell into a deep freeze, which was followed by delays from Covid lockdowns, which were put in place in the spring of 2020 (source).

11/1/19: Fremont County Sheriff’s Office Lt Powell observes Chad Daybell and Lori Vallow holding hands in a romantic manner (source).

11/4/19: Rexburg Police Det Hermosillo tows the Jeep that was used in the attempted murder of Brandon Boudreaux from the apartment complex Lori Vallow, Alex Cox, and Melani Boudreaux were living in without contact with anyone (source).

Note: It’s bizarre that these criminals wouldn’t have fled then. 

11/21/19: Lori Vallow saves numerous pics of Hawaii to her iCloud (source).

11/22/19: Lori Vallow texts Colby Ryan to tell him Tylee sent him a Venmo (source):

I text Ty to send it but I haven’t heard back yet. She will probably just do it before she tells me

Hope you got the Venmo. Ty said she sent it late. I’ll call you when I get a break. Hope you are having a great day. I love you so much !!!

Note: Colby’s name fits into the redaction. I included the font I used over another sentence to demonstrate how well it fits.

11/24/19: Chad Daybell gives Alex Cox a patriarchal blessing (text). According to Melanie Gibb, Alex said he cried like a baby (source).

11/28/19: Colby Ryan emails Lori Vallow after she shut her phone off to see what was going on and to ask for her to help them out through Venmo (source): 

11/30/19: Colby Ryan came into possession of the Nissan Rogue registered to Lori Vallow and Alex Cox (source).

12/2/19: Lori Vallow and Colby Ryan exchange emails in response to the email Colby sent on 11/28 (source):

Lori: 

“Hi Colby! 

I need you to know that we are safe and happy. I know this sounds confusing to you but I need you to trust me….that although there are wicked people trying to cause harm that Jesus is on our side and taking care of us. Although we may be out of touch for a while, I will continue to help you. I love you all so much! The car and the car insurance will be paid for so u can drive it with no worries. The phones will also be good. You are precious to your momma !!! I love you so much !! Kisses to and you Ryley, and Kelsee. I hope to talk soon :). I will continue to pray blessings on your family constantly.

Colby: Okay mom. I love you. Please be smart and take care of the kids and yourself. I don’t know what’s going on but I’m praying for all of you. I’m mad, and sad. But I know I can’t control anything going on. Please be safe. All of you. We love you and if you can help us at all through Venmo too that would help. I’m gonna be getting a second job but until then we could use a little help. You have helped us so much with the car and phones so thank you for that. I love you all. 

12/6/19: Zulema Pastenes tells Melanie Gibb she received her “witness” regarding Lori, meaning her confirmation that she was the religious leader she claimed to be (source).

12/16/19: Someone accepted two Facebook friends for Tylee Ryan’s account (source).

12/21/19: Gilbert Police seize Alex Cox’s F-150 truck from Zulema Pastenes’ home (source).

12/23/19: Melani and Ian Pawlowski are interviewed by the FBI again in Idaho. It’s noted that Ian was still cooperating with the FBI (source).

12/24/19: Melani Pawlowski shows up at her father’s house unannounced and has an unusual exchange with him. He believed she was looking for her children, who her ex-husband, Brandon Boudreaux, had in hiding (source).

12/30/19: Chad Daybell and Lori Vallow’s friend, Julie Clement, claims to have spoken on the phone with Chad and Lori this day and wouldn’t give Gilbert Police either of Chad or Lori’s phone numbers (source). 

1/7/20: Chandler PD interview April Raymond (source).

2/12/20: Brandon Boudreaux reaches out to Gilbert Police Det Pillar to tell him Melani Pawlowski wouldn’t sign the papers to cancel the life insurance policy they had on him. Because they were both owners of the policy (something the broker noted as ‘unusual’), both of them had to sign the paper to remove her as a beneficiary of the policy. She also paid for the policy out of her personal account, so he couldn’t even stop payment on the policy (source).

3/30/20: Chandler PD draft a search warrant for Charles Vallow’s iCloud account (source).

4/15/20: Chandler PD interview Lori Vallow’s friend Christina (source).

4/15/20: Chandler PD interview Lori Vallow’s friend Nicole (source).

4/15/20: Chandler PD interview Lori Vallow’s friend Sarena (source).

4/22/20: Chandler PD interviews Charles’ date, Nancy Jo (source).

4/23/20: Chandler PD interviews Lori Vallow’s friend Christina again (source).

8/19/20: Chandler PD interviews Lori Vallow’s friend Melanie Gibb (source).

10/22/21: The transcript from the second grand jury in Fremont County was provided to Chad Daybell’s attorney, John Prior (source).

11/21/21

7/15/19: UPDATE: Both the Chandler and Gilbert police reports from the day of Charles Vallow’s shooting confirm that Colby joined his mom on this trip and that they gathered many of Charles’ possessions, including his F-150 truck, and left them at the airport for Alex Cox to retrieve. And then Colby drove Charles’ truck (source).

9/26/21

9/14/19: A photo of JJ Vallow sitting on a ride at Yellowstone Bear World, just south of Rexburg, is stored in Lori Vallow’s iCloud account (source).

9/4/21

11/23/19: Tammy Daybell’s family finds out Chad had remarried (source).

2/15/20: LE comes to the door of Tammy Daybell’s family members’ house around this date looking for Tylee Ryan and JJ Vallow after someone called in an anonymous tip that s/he saw them in their yard (source):

Local LE showed up to my house recently after a (anonymous? I don’t know) tip was called in saying JJ and Tylee were seen on my yard and might be living in my house. The household was cooperative with them and showed them the tip was false. I’m a little nervous of the implications this event might have, but there’s no reason to suspect anyone is at risk right now.

9/2/21

10/30/18: Chad emails Lori a bizarre breakdown of light/dark ratings of her family members. Tylee is rated a 4.1D, only to be eclipsed by her father, Joseph Ryan, who weighed in at a 4.3D and was marked as “sealed away” (source).

CORRECTION: This was email was wrongly reported as being sent 10/30/18. It’s not the reporter’s fault. A screenshot was sent on to him with the date 10/30/18, but the email sent to Det Moffat from Chandler PD was dated 1/22/19, and the subject line was slightly different: “Family history records” instead of the incorrectly reported “Family history documents” subject line (screenshot of incorrect email // screenshot of correct email).

1/22/19: Chad Daybell emails Lori Vallow the documents with the light and dark ratings of her family members (source).

Note: This has been widely reported as having been sent 10/30/19, with a screenshot, but the subject line is incorrect as well as the date. The subject line in the incorrect screenshot is “Family history documents” where the actual email subject’s line was “Family history records” (screenshot of incorrect email).

7/12/19: Approximate date Chad Daybell texts Lori Vallow about Tammy Daybell’s “death percentages”:

10/19/19: Chad Daybell posts on the AVOW forum hours after his wife Tammy’s death and was reportedly on the site the entire day, liking and responding to people about her death (source).

8/26/21

2/14/19: Preparing a People speaker Mike Stroud announces he was excommunicated from the LDS church for apostasy (source).

7/10/19: According to Kay Woodcock, Alex Cox’s last day of work as a long-haul trucker (source).

12/19/19: Colby Ryan announces his new YouTube channel, CJ’s Place in S1E1. It has since been set to private. Description:

Welcome to CJs place, I’m super exited to be launching a channel that I can finally talk about more things in depth. I wanna be honest, real, and talk about things I’m interested In. You guys can come with your boy and see how everything shapes out but welcome all

8/25/21

3/15/19: Date Charles Vallow told Lori he would move his stuff from the house they shared in Gilbert and move to Houston (source).

Note: Charles had already moved to Houston 3/7, but then he came back to Gilbert with his sister, Kay Woodcock, at the end of March. Lori came into the home they had rented in Gilbert on 3/26 while Charles and Kay were packing up his and JJ’s things to move out. 👈 Addition in italics.

3/28/19: Lori Vallow returns to their home in Gilbert, and Charles Vallow and his sister, Kay Woodcock were packing him up. She did not return home at this time. Charles offers to fly her to Houston to see their son, JJ Vallow, but she said she had a commitment with a friend and would come to see JJ in about two weeks (source 1 // source 2).

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CORRECTION 👇 

3/29/19: Lori Vallow returns home (source). (She had abandoned her husband Charles and 7 year old son JJ Vallow for 58 days.)

Note: I derived this date by adding 58 to Jan 30. (Did you know you can run mathematical functions against dates in Excel. But I digress….)

Lori did not return home after 58 days, as has been reported for the past year. It’s unknown at the time of writing (8/25/21) when she actually moved back in with Charles.

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7/11/19: I added the timeline detailed in the indictment against Lori Vallow:

Timeline:

These times were all listed in the indictment against Lori (source).

• 7:35am: Charles arrives at Lori’s home and texts Lori’s brother, Adam Cox, to tell him Alex was there. Adam tells Charles Lori and Alex were planning something and Charles replies, “Absolutely.” Adam also tells Charles he was supposed to spend the night with Alex but Lori probably blocked that plan.
• 7:49am: Charles’ cell phone left the home. Chandler PD uses this timestamp as a proxy for the approximate time Charles was shot (source). From the indictment:

Based on this timeline, Charles would have laid [sic] dead or dying for approximately 43 minutes before Alex called 911.

• 8:32am: Alex calls 911 (source).
• Time undisclosed: Alex called Lori (source).
• 8:48am: Lori and Tylee arrive back to the home after stopping at Burger King, dropping JJ off at school, and stopping at Walgreens for new flip-flops (source).

Note: Lori must’ve been pretty desperate for new flip-flops since she prioritized this over returning to the scene, and the ones she purchased are noticeably too small (screenshot I created from bodycam footage).

7/11/19: Someone texts Lori Vallow a bizarre message at 11:31pm about Charles Vallow (source):

7/12/19: Someone from the group texts someone else from the group to update them about Charles (source):

Oh ok
Hiplos is gone
It was a Nephi and Laban ending.
I will tell you more when I see you in person or when you see Lori in person. I’m leaving for Chile on Monday for 2 weeks

8/22/21

3/17/18: Charles Vallow’s mother, Tilda Doolan, dies (source).

3/21/18: Charles Vallow’s mother, Tilda Doolan, is buried. Charles Vallow’s mother, Tilda Doolan, is buried. It’s reported that Lori Vallow didn’t travel to Louisiana for the funeral with her then-husband (source).

Note: Lori’s third husband, Joseph Ryan, was estimated to have died one to two weeks before he was found, providing a possible overlap with the time Charles was out of town for his mother’s funeral. Just noting the overlap, not accusing Lori of playing a role in Joe’s death.

10/1/18: LE’s first record of Lori Vallow, Chad Daybell, Alex Cox, and other co-conspirators conspiring to murder Tammy Daybell (source // p 7).

10/26/18: LE’s first record of Lori Vallow, Chad Daybell, Alex Cox, and other co-conspirators conspiring to murder Tylee Ryan and JJ Vallow (source // pp 2-4).

11/1/18: Approximate date Lori Vallow receives life insurance payout, according to a confidential source. The delay and trouble with receiving the payout may be suggestive that Tylee Ryan, who was a minor at the time, was the beneficiary. This is not verified in any paperwork or court testimonies to date.

CORRECTION: Tylee wasn’t listed as a beneficiary in her father’s life insurance policy. Lori was the primary beneficiary.

11/3/18: Someone tells Lori Vallow that she was told by God that she is to protect Lori (source).

Note: I figured out the font that was used in the indictment and made educated guesses as to the names that were redacted. Zulema’s name was the only one from the group that fit perfectly in the redaction. Take that for what it’s worth, but it does align with the text exchange between them on the same day.

11/3/18: A text exchange transpires between Zulema Pastenes and Lori Vallow and later provides investigators with the first evidence to cause harm to Charles Vallow (source).

Note: Since Lori, Chad, and Alex were already conspiring to murder Chad’s wife, Tammy Daybell, it’s unlikely this was the first time they had talked about causing harm, just the first time they messed up.

12/5/18: Melanie Gibb and Lori Vallow introduce their new podcast, Time to Warrior Up. This is reportedly the first podcast Chad Daybell and Lori Vallow do together (source 1 // source 2 // recovered recording of podcast).

Note: I added a link to the recovered recording of the podcast.

Jan 2019:  Someone tells Lori Vallow that she had a vision that she could create storms and fire and will have the eye of the Lord (source).

Note: I figured out the font that was used in the indictment and made educated guesses as to the names that were redacted. Zulema’s name was the only one from the group that fit perfectly in the redaction, and it was stated by several people that Zulema believed Chad gave her the ability to contorl the element and conjure storms, earthquakes, etc.

1/22/19: Lori receives an email from Chad. Subject: “Demon with a name, Nick Schneider.” Chad tells Lori that’s who took over Charles’ body. Charles texted a friend that this evil spirit had murdered him and was using him to “violate” her and her family (source, 37:39 and 39:01 min marks).

Note: According to the indictment against Lori Vallow in Chandler, AZ, some report that Chad referred to Charles’ demon as “Ned” instead of “Nick” (source). Also, this email has never been provided for evidence and wasn’t in the 2,500-page FOIA document dump by Chandler Police, which implies it was never passed on to LE by whoever made this claim.

1/31/19: Lori Vallow is compelled to report to the Gilbert Police Department in regard to a harassment call for service submitted by Charles Vallow (source). Police are also informed about a petition for an involuntary hold at Community Bridges. Police say Lori would be allowed to go to the facility willingly to talk to staff. If she did not, she would be taken involuntarily.

Note: One of the Gilbert PD officers gave Lori tips on how to evade a pickup for the psych eval on nine different occasions during the interview, going so far as to say he didn’t know how they were going to “get that to go away” and even diagnosed her on the fly: “But just talking to you, I mean, I don’t see you being a danger to yourself or anybody else. You get your kids to school.” This section of the interview starts at the 13:47 minute mark of the bodycam video (source). 👈 addition

2/5/19 – 2/20/19: JJ Vallow is absent from school at L.I.F.E. Academy in Gilbert, AZ. Charles Vallow withdrew him and took him to Houston 2/11/19 until he felt safe (source 1 //source 2).

Note: JJ was in and out of L.I.F.E. and back and forth between Phoenix and Houston over the next few months. I’m collecting these dates in one place because I think they tell a story of just chaotic this time period was::

• 2/4/29: Charles files a petition for an Order of Protection against Lori.
• 2/5/19 – 2/20/19: JJ is absent from school at L.I.F.E. Academy in Gilbert.
• 2/11/19: Charles officially withdraws JJ and tells L.I.F.E. officials he’s taking him to Houston until he felt safe.
• 2/21/19: JJ returns to L.I.F.E. Lori Kleinman from L.I.F.E. files a report with CPS because Charles tells officials Lori’s still missing.
• 3/1/19: Charles files to dismiss divorce proceedings but takes JJ out of school and moves back to Texas again.
• 3/7/19: Charles formally withdraws JJ and moves to Houston again.
• 3/29/19: Lori Vallow and Tylee join Charles and JJ in Houston.
• Late Jun: Lori calls L.I.F.E. and says that JJ and Charles were back in Phoenix, and they wanted to enroll JJ in their summer program. (Charles hadn’t moved back yet.)
• 7/11/19: Charles Vallow is shot and killed by Lori’s brother, Alex Cox. He had an appointment to look at apartments that morning to move back to Phoenix.
• Sometime between 7/22/19 and 7/26/19: Lori meets with L.I.F.E. officials and claims Charles committed suicide the week before and tells them JJ didn’t know. They search Charles’ name on Google and find out he was actually shot and then file another report with CPS.
• 8/5/19: Fall semester begins.
• Late Aug: JJ tells his teacher, “My dad is not in heaven; he is traveling.”
• 8/30/19: Lori has JJ Vallow’s service dog, Bailey, picked up by Dog Training Elite in Arizona.
• 8/31/19: Lori moves with JJ and Tylee to Rexburg, ID.

Author’s note: End date was added, as well as note.

2/6/19: Lori Vallow texts someone and says Charles is blocking her gifts. From this point forward, there is specific conversation to cause harm to Charles Vallow. He is  referred to in these texts as a dark spirit called “Hiplos” or “Ned” (source).

Note: I figured out the font that was used in the indictment and made educated guesses as to the names that were redacted. Zulema’s name was the only one from the group that fit perfectly in the redaction. I believe she is the one Lori was texting with. It would also make sense considering Lori’s reference to the receivers gifts.

6/27/19: Someone texts Lori Vallow at 10:18am and to ask if Charles could be redeemed (source):

7/18/19: Lori Vallow texts Chad Daybell to tell him Charles had removed her from his life insurance policy (source):

Note: “Ned” is the demon they believed took over Charles’ body.

8/12/19: Lori Vallow has an appointment with someone at Social Security. She’s told the benefit amount she’s entitled to, which the indictment notes was close to the $4,000 she had reported to Chad Daybell in July (source). 

Note: See entry for 7/18/19 to learn more about Lori’s text message to Chad Daybell about Charles’ life insurance policy.

8/22/19: Lori Vallow and Melanie Gibb begin a new podcast called Feel the Fire. They kick it off with an episode titled ‘Feel the Fire ~ Seeking & Finding Sweet Jesus’ (source 1 // source 2). Description:

Melanie Gibb & Lori Vallow team up sharing how some of the most extreme types of challenges helped them find miracles in the reality of our Best Friend and lover of our souls: Jesus Christ. How did they experience from one extreme to another? How did they surrender their old beliefs, stuck hearts and hurt? Matthew 18:20 ‘For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them.’ Come experience hope from hurt, and healing from help of spiritual rebirth.

9/9/19: Reegen Price hears a gunshot coming from Chad Daybell’s property (source).

Note: It’s unknown at this time if Price is a neighbor or just happened to be in the area that day.

9/16/19: Chad Daybell is a guest on Lori Vallow and Melanie Gibb’s third podcast, titled ‘Feel the Fire ~ Chad Daybell Sharing Jesus’ Love’ (source 1 // source 2). Description:

Emerging from a Spring and Summer break, Chad Daybell joins Lori and Melanie to share things he has been shown about the Savior of the World with insights from 2 Near-Death Experiences and a visionary gift that was opened up to him because of his visits “Beyond the Veil.” You can see a 10 Episode Series with Chad called ‘Beyond the Veil’ here: https://vimeo.com/ondemand/glimpses Chad is the publisher and Owner of Springcreek Books and has written 25 books of his own. https://www.springcreekbooks.com.

10/3/19: Chandler PD learn about the attempted shooting of Brandon Boudreaux (source).

11/3/19: Lori Vallow makes a call to what is presumably a contact named “Spencer’s Wife” (source).

Dec 2019: Lori Vallow’s next-door neighbor in Rexburg is interviewed by Rexburg PD. He says he and his wife, Leah, had previously been interviewed by Rexburg PD Det David Stubbs (source).

12/4/19: Someone publishes part 1 of her and Melanie’s podcast they recorded with David Warwick the last day JJ Vallow was seen alive, Part 1 Guest David Warwick ‘From Gangs to the Gospel’ (source 1 // source 2).

Note: I believe this someone was Lori and that she did this to implicate David Warwick in the murder of JJ Vallow.

12/6/19: Someone publishes part 2 of Lori and Melanie’s podcast they recorded with David Warwick the last day JJ Vallow was seen alive, Part 2 Guest David Warwick ‘Game Changer’ (source 1 // source 2).

12/6/19: Rexburg PD Det Dave Hope interviews Garth Daybell at Madison Jr. High, Rexburg (source).

12/7/19: Rexburg PD Det Ray Hermosillo interviews Melanie Gibb (source).

12/7/19: Rexburg PD Det Dave Hope interviews Principal Williams at JJ Vallow’s school, Kennedy Elementary (source).

12/8/19: Someone publishes part 3 of Lori and Melanie’s podcast they recorded with David Warwick the last day JJ Vallow was seen alive, Part 3 – ‘Confronting Persecutors, Refinement in Feeling the Fire’ (source 1 // source 2).

12/8/19: Melanie Gibb meets with Gilbert PD Detective Ryan Pillar, shares the recorded call, and admits that she lied about having had JJ with her the previous week (source).

Note: This was 12 days after Rexburg PD conducted the welfare check to check on JJ Vallow and found out he was missing.

12/13/19: Rexburg PD Det Dave Hope interviews Joseph and Emma Murray at Central Elementary, Sugar City (source).

12/17/19: Rexburg PD Lt Ron Ball and Officer Rick Schmitt meet with Jason Gwilliam at Springsville Police Department (source).

Early 2020: Melanie Gibb talks to FBI agents “two to three times” (source).

1/8/20: Rexburg PD Det Randy Reese interviews April Raymond (source).

1/9/20: Rexburg PD Det Randy Reese interviews yours truly 🙋‍♀️ (source).

1/26/20: Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell are detained and questioned in separate police cars in Kauai, Hawaii (source).

2/5/20: Rexburg PD Lt Ron Ball and Det Ray Hermosillo interview Chad’s brother and sister-in-law, Matt and Heather Daybell, at Rexburg Police Station (source).

3/3/20: Rexburg PD Officer Rick Schmitt interviews Matt Daybell about storage unit footage (source).

3/11/20: Attorney for Lori Vallow Mark Means files a motion to disqualify Magistrate Judge Faren Eddins without cause (source).

3/13/20: Magistrate Judge Faren Eddins approves Mark Means’ request to disqualify himself and withdraws from the case against Lori Vallow (source).

6/3/20: Someone from LE or the prosecutor’s office interviews Melanie Gibb (source).

6/9/20: Rexburg PD Det Dave Hope reportedly captures bodycam video of Chad Daybell and his daughter, Emma Murray, as they talked while Chad was handcuffed in a police car following his arrest (source).

6/9/20: Rexburg PD interview Reegen Price, who claimed she heard a gunshot come from Chad Daybell’s property on the day Tylee Ryan was buried on his property (source).

Note: By way of reminder, Chad texted his wife, Tammy, the morning of Sep 9th to tell her he had shot a large raccoon.

6/10/20: Rexburg PD interview Deputy Colter Cannon with the Fremont County Sheriff’s Office regarding the attempted shooting of Tammy Daybell on 10/9/19. He was a reporting officer on the scene that day (source).

6/10/20: An affidavit of probable cause is filed for Chad Daybell following the discovery of human remains on his property, which were later identified to be those of missing children Tylee Ryan and JJ Vallow (source).

6/10/20: Rexburg PD interview Kathy Brown regarding “ERT” and “paintball” activity in the area the day of the attempted shooting of Tammy Daybell on 10/9/19 (source).

6/10/20: Rexburg PD Det Dave Hope flies a drone and captures images of Daybell property (source).

Note: There are AI and machine learning algorithms farmers use to perform soil analysis using drones. The FBI may have armed RPD with one of those smart drones.

6/11/20: Rexburg PD interview Chad Daybell’s brother and sister-in-law, Matt and Heather Daybell  by Rexburg Detective Hope. Emails between Matt and Chad are also provided by Matt to LE (source).

6/16/20: Rexburg PD interview Chad Daybell’s parents, Jack and Sheila Daybell (source).

6/19/20: Judge Faren Eddins unseals the probable cause affidavit for Chad Daybell (source).

7/10/20: Fremont County District Court orders some of the records in the Lori Vallow case to be sealed temporarily or permanently to “preserve a right to a fair trial” (source).

7/28/20: Someone from LE interviews Matt and Reagen Price about fires on Chad Daybell’s property (source).

7/29/20: Someone from LE interviews a number of people while investigating Tammy Daybell’s death (source):

• Margaret Brown regarding “a spiritual visitation” from Tammy Daybell
• John Ochts regarding an email exchange between him and Tammy Daybell the night before she was found dead
• Melanie Gordon regarding four “odd” gentleman attending Tammy Daybell’s memorial
• Fay Harris
• Stephanie Peralta
• Angela Johansen
• Shanna Miller

8/1/20: Rob Wood and RPD detectives meet with Melanie Gibb prior to Chad Daybell’s preliminary trial (source).

8/13/20: Rexburg PD Det David Stubbs interviews Heather Daybell and Maggy Daybell Hope (source).

9/9/20: Rexburg PD Lt Ron Ball and Special Prosecutor Rob Wood interview Craig Huff (source).

9/28/20: Rexburg PD Det Chuck Kunsaitis interviews Craig Huff (source).

Note: I initially reported this date as 9/28/19 but corrected it 1/6/22.

10/20/20: Rexburg PD interview Melanie Gibb (source).

 

2/3/21: Rexburg PD Det interviews Melanie Gibb and she talks about “casting out spirits” (source).

2/28/21: Garth Daybell is questioned for 30 minutes in his classroom at Madison Junior High by Fremont County Patrol Sergeant Vince Kaaiakamanu and FBI agent Ricky Wright (source).

3/8/21: Fremont County District Court enters an Order for Competency Evaluation for Lori Vallow (source).

3/16/21: Madison County Special Prosecutor Rob Wood informs the Madison County Board of Commissioners that Missouri homicide prosecutor Rachel Smith has joined his team to aid in the case against Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell (source).

Note: There’s a typo in the date. The year should read ‘2021’ not ‘2012’. It was 5:00 somewhere. 🍺

5/17/21 – 5/24/21: Fremont County convenes a grand jury to investigate the deaths of Tylee Ryan, JJ Vallow, and Tammy Daybell (source).

5/17/21: Chad Daybell’s son, Garth Daybell, and his wife, Kaira, are detained and questioned by Rexburg PD for six hours (source).

5/24/21: Prosecutors for Fremont County and Rexburg, ID, announce indictments against Chad Daybell and Lori Vallow for first-degree murder for the deaths of Tammy Daybell, Tylee Ryan and JJ Vallow, as well as other charges, including conspiracy, theft, and insurance fraud (source).

5/25/21: Prosecutors for Fremont County and Rexburg, ID, file an amended witness list (source).

5/27/21: Fremont County District Court orders a stay on Lori Vallow’s case from further proceedings until Vallow’s competency is restored (source).

6/2/21: Fremont County District Court orders protocols to govern courtroom conduct (source).

6/24/21: A grand jury in Maricopa County, AZ, indicts Lori Vallow on the charge of conspiracy to commit murder in the death of her husband, Charles Vallow (source).

7/21/21: Attorney for Chad Daybell John Prior files a motion requesting a change of venue (source).

7/27/21: Prosecutors for Fremont County and Rexburg, ID, file a petition for Missouri homicide prosecutor Rachel Smith to be admitted as pro hac vice in the case against Chad Daybell (CR22-20-0755), as well as the Grand Jury proceedings (source).

8/5/21: The State of Idaho, by and through the Fremont County Prosecutor’s Office announces its intent to see the death penalty against Chad Daybell because the murders of Tylee Ryan, JJ Vallow, and Tammy Daybell were for financial benefit, were especially heinous,  exhibited utter disregard for human life, and pose a continued threat to society (source).

Note: Although Lori Vallow was not named—because her case is on hold until her competency is restored—her name and case number (CR22-21-1624) were included in the filing.

8/6/21: Fremont County appoints James Archibald as co-counsel for Lori Vallow in case number CR22-21-1624 (source).

8/11/21: Attorney for Lori Vallow Mark Means files a motion to dismiss the findings of the Fremont County Grand Jury on the basis that the case against her was stayed pending the results of a psychiatric evaluation (source).

 

8/9/21

1/30/19: Lori sent a text to Kay Woodcock that caused Charles Vallow to be “shocked beyond belief” when he read it. He said Kay sent it to him 2/1/19. By his response, it sounds like it was her allegation that he had cheated on her (source):

Lori if it somehow makes you feel better to make these kind of accusations then I certainly can’t stop you. BUT for the record you and I BOTH know it’s ridiculous. You are my one and only for 14 years. Period.

2/21/19: JJ Vallow returns to L.I.F.E. Academy after Charles fled with him to Houston until it was safe (source).

3/1/19: Charles removes JJ Vallow from L.I.F.E. Academy again and takes him back to Houston.

3/2/19: According to an email from Charles Vallow to Lori Vallow, Alex Cox accuses him of taking JJ (i.e., kidnapping him) and trying to put Lori in jail (source).

3/9/19: Charles Vallow emails Lori an appeal to come home, reestablish contact with them, and see their son, JJ (source).

3/11/19: Deadline Charles Vallow gives Lori Vallow to let him know if the terms he laid out in his 3/9/19 email were acceptable to her (source).

3/15/19: Date Charles Vallow told Lori he would move his stuff from the house they shared in Gilbert and move to Houston (source).

Note: Charles had already moved to Houston 3/7.

3/19/19: Charles Vallow writes a letter to Lori begging her to see her son and gives her heart-rending updates about JJ (source).

6/16/19: Zulema Pastenes crosses back into the U.S. at Lukeville, AZ POE (source).

Note: Charles paid for Adam’s flight and had planned an intervention (source). 👈  addition

7/12/19: Chad Daybell is most likely the person who calls to Valley of the Sun Mortuary where Charles’ body was being held (source).

Note: I added the white text over the redactions because I was able to match the font, but the detail about having been a cemetery sexton is a strong indicator that the person who called was Chad.

7/12/19: A welfare check is performed on Charles Vallow in Houston (source).

7/14/19 – 7/19/19: Alex Cox flies from Arizona to Colombia, South America (source). Cole Vallow tells Chandler Det Nathan Moffat there’s a picture of Alex in Colombia on social media from 2016, most likely to establish he has a history of visiting Colombia (source).

7/15/19: Charles Vallow’s son Cole Vallow and his former wife Cheryl Wheeler fly to Phoenix to meet with Chandler Police (source).

7/15/19 – 7/16/19: A friend of Charles Vallow takes care of JJ Vallow in Houston (source).

7/15/19: Zulema Pastenes travels to Santiago, Chile and stays for two weeks (source).

7/15/19 – 7/16/19: Lori Vallow flies from Phoenix to Houston and returns the next day (source). A friend of Charles Vallow takes care of JJ Vallow in Houston (source).

Note: A confidential source who’s batted 1000 so far told me last year that Lori’s son, Colby Ryan, joined her on this trip. This hasn’t been verified anywhere, but he’s also not the focal point of the investigation. I suspect they were picking up Bailey, JJ’s support dog at the time.

7/18/19: Cole Vallow tells Chandler Det Nathan Moffat that Kay warned him and his family that Lori’s brother, Adam Cox, had contacted her to tell her that the family had disowned him a year ago, but she found pics of him with his family on social media since then (source).

7/18/19: Kay Woodcock records a 25-minute phone call with Lori Vallow (source).

7/20/19: Lori Vallow buys Chad Daybell a flight from Provo, UT, to AZ for $259.50 (source // p49).

7/22/19: Approximate date Lori Vallow tells an official at L.I.F.E. Academy that Charles Vallow committed suicide (source).

7/23/19: Lori Vallow tells Kay Woodcock JJ won’t be coming to Louisiana for his father’s funeral (source 1 // source 2).

7/29/19 – 7/31/19: Lori Vallow is in Oceanside, CA, with her brother Alex Cox.

8/1/19: Zulema Pastenes arrives in Dallas, TX, from Santiago, Chile via American Airlines 940 (source).

Note: The screenshot of the travel record is redacted so there’s no name. But the indictment for Lori Vallow in the death of her third husband Charles Vallow included a conversation between Zulema and [presumably] Melanie Gibb (according to my calculations) on 7/12 where she said she would be leaving for Chile that Monday (July 15th), which lines up with the departure date in the screenshot (source // p11).

8/13/19: Kay Vallow Woodcock tells Chandler Det Nathan Moffat that Lori Vallow told her Tylee was emancipated (source).

Note: This has since been proved false. Lori wouldn’t have been charged with desertion if Tylee had been an adult in the eyes of the state since she would have had all the rights and responsibilities of an adult. Kay thought Moffat would be able to be tougher with her because of her adult status.

8/14/19: Lori Vallow takes a screenshot of SereniTi rings on Etsy that was similar to the rings in her wedding photos (source).

8/15/19: Lori Vallow purchases a wedding ring on Etsy for $129.99 (source).

Note: The artist later canceled the order and refunded her money because he didn’t have time to make the ring (source).

8/27/19: Lori sets up residency at 565 Pioneer Road, including internet and utilities (source).

Late August: JJ Vallow says to his teacher, “My dad is not in heaven; he is traveling” (source).

Sep 2019: Kay and Larry Woodcock find out that Lori and the kids moved to Idaho. Kay says in their 20/20 interview that they just didn’t have an apartment number (video snippet // episode).

9/8/19: Tylee Ryan’s phone pings in Yellowstone National Park at 1:09pm. Also the FBI says there is footage of JJ at the park walking/running along the walkway in front of Old Faithful geyser (source // p56).

9/10/19: Tylee Ryan’s Venmo account shows a payment to her older half brother, Colby Ryan, with “❤️” in the description field (source).

9/17/19: Brandon Boudreaux sees JJ Vallow and lets Kay Vallow Woodcock know he’s okay (source).

Note: This is a new piece of information that came out in the Chandler FOIA document dump. This was only five days before JJ was last seen. It’s not known if Brandon saw him via FaceTime or in person.

9/22/19: A picture is taken of JJ Vallow sitting on a couch. It was found by law enforcement in Lori Vallow’s iCloud account (source).

Update: This is the last known pic of JJ Vallow. It was taken at 10:46am MT, and he’s wearing red pajamas. JJ was wearing red pajamas when he was found in a shallow grave on Chad Daybell’s property 6/9/19 (source). 👈 addition

9/23/19: Two photos of ammunition at The Gun Shop, an Idaho gun store, is saved to Lori Vallow’s iCloud account (source // pics of ammunition).

9/23/19: Approximate date Alex Cox went shopping for a coat for his sister, Lori Vallow. Chandler Det Nathan Moffat notes this in reference to how weird Lori and Alex’s relationship was (source).

9/26/19: Brandon Boudreaux tells Kay Vallow Woodcock Lori moved out of state. He found out from his son (source).

9/26/19: FBI captures phone data from a Walmart in Rexburg, just minutes from Chad Daybell’s Salem home (source).

Oct 2019: Chandler PD notices long calls from out of state to a number assumed to belong to Chad Daybell (source).

Oct 2019: Melani Pawlowski asked friends from the cult, such as Alex Cox and Melanie Gibb, to talk to Brandon Boudreaux’s former neighbhors to find out where he was after he went into hiding, according to Brandon Boudreaux’s business partner’s wife, Jes (source).

10/2/19: Alex Cox calls a Hispanic female, as well as Lori Vallow, during the timeframe of the shooting attempt on Brandon Boudreaux (source 1 // source 2).

Note: The following month Alex married Zulema Pastenes, a Hispanic female. This doesn’t mean she was the female he was on the phone with; just noting what may be a coincidence.

10/2/19: Alex Cox makes financial transfers to the Hispanic female he was on the phone with around the time of the Brandon Boudreaux shooting attempt (source).

10/6/19: Someone takes a pic of Alex Cox at Mesa Falls in Idaho (source 1 // source 2 // picture).

10/7/19: Lori Vallow is a busy busy beaver (source):

• She searches online to find out how long it would take to drive to Independence, MO, and then started to look for flights.
• 10:21am: Alex Cox texts her to find out where she is and she says JJ’s school. This is suspicious because JJ had been dead at least two weeks by then. She also never formally withdrew him from L.I.F.E. Academy. (Lori deleted this message but it was retrieved.)
• 10:55am: Lori performs an online search, but Chandler PD redacted the query.
• 11:59am: Lori sends a text to an unknown person that was deleted and recovered. (Burner phone?)
• 12:03pm: Lori sends a text to an unknown person that was deleted and recovered.
• 14:23: Lori sends a text to an unknown person that was deleted and recovered.

10/8/19: Lori Vallow meets up with niece Melani Pawlowski the day before Tammy Daybell is approached by a masked gunman (allegedly Alex Cox):

• Lori Vallow flies from Idaho to Phoenix-Mesa (source 1 // source 2 // source 3).
• 8:55am: Lori sends a text to an unknown person that was deleted and recovered (source).
• 8:57am: Lori texts Audrey (presumably). [content of text redacted]
• 11:15am: Lori texts Melani Pawlowski. [content of text redacted]

10/9/19: Photos and videos of Melani Pawlowski’s children recovered from Lori Vallow’s iCloud reveal Lori was at Melani’s home in AZ (source).

10/10/19 – 10/12/19: Lori Vallow and Melani Pawlowski fly to Missouri and return to Phoenix. LE imply Lori is in Missouri because they say it would be interesting to know if JJ’s iPad connected out there since she brought it on her trip to AZ. Also, Lori Vallow deletes a text message that references flights between MO and AZ for these dates (source). Although there’s no screenshot of this flight, LE recover a deleted text message where Lori wrote (source):

American has a nonstop flight PHX to Kansas City Thursday at 1pm. Then fly back on sat at 6:30pm. [Redacted] said we could stay with her but I told her we could get a hotel and she could stay with us. She will take us to all the amazing sights [sic]!

Note: Although the name of her travel companion is redacted in these documents, a confidential source told me last year that Lori and Melani were in Independence, Missouri visiting the place LDS members believe Jesus will return. It also makes sense it would be Melani since Lori first traveled to Phoenix and was in Melani’s home the day before the flight.

10/13/19: Last email between Kay Vallow Woodcock and Lori Vallow where JJ Vallow is mentioned (source).

10/14/19: Alex Cox sends Lori Vallow two pics of Mesa Falls from his Yahoo email account. LE questions if these are significant (source).

10/19/19: Approximate date Kay and Larry Woodcock find out JJ Vallow and Tylee Ryan are missing, according to Brandon Boudreaux’s business partner’s wife, Jes (source).

10/23/19: Lori Vallow saves photos taken in Hawaii to her iCloud account (source).

11/3/19: Lori Vallow takes flight from Salt Lake City to Kauai (source).

11/3/19: Kay Vallow Woodcock sends an email to Chandler Det Nathan Moffat letting him know Lori and the kids moved to Rexburg (source).

11/3/19 – 11/6/19: Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell stay at Kauai Beach Resort (source).

11/7/19: Approximate date Brandon Boudreaux’s business partner’s wife, Jes, talks with Melani Pawlowski about JJ Vallow and Tylee Ryan. She, Brandon, and the Woodcocks knew they were missing at this point a couple weeks. Melani tells Jes she trusted Lori (source).

11/7/19 – 11/8/19: Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell inquire about rental homes saying they have no children (source).

11/10/19: Kay Woodcock logs in to Charles’ Amazon account and finds Lori’s searches for rings and wedding clothes (source).

11/11/19: Lori Vallow uses Tylee Ryan’s AirPods (source).

11/12/19: Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell are spotted in an LDS temple in Hawaii (source).

11/26/19: Rexburg PD and Fremont County Sheriff’s Office meet re: the welfare check for JJ Vallow (source).

11/27/19: Police serve search warrants at Lori’s townhome and Alex’s apartment where they find large number of firearms (source).

11/28 – 12/1/19: Add Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell stay at the La Miranda Buena Park (source).

11/28 – 12/1/19: Chad Daybell spends Thanksgiving weekend on vacation with his family in Southern California, traveling there via the Salt Lake City airport. Photos posted to social media show Chad at the airport and later Knott’s Berry Farm, an amusement park in Buena Park, CA. Lori wasn’t in any of the photos (source). It’s later discovered they stay at the Residence Inn in La Miranda Buena Park (source).

11/29/19 – 12/1/19: Chad rented Nissan Altima from a location in Fullerton, CA (source).

12/5/19: A woman and man appearing to be Zulema Pastenes and Alex Cox are seen together by leaving his Silver Ford F-150 (source).

12/6/19: Zulema Pastenes is seen driving to the Gilbert Temple, according to Gilbert PD (source).

12/8/19: Kay Vallow Woodcock tells Chanlder Det Nathan Moffet that she plans to call DCS Child Services in Idaho and Arizona to get custody of JJ Vallow if he’s found (source).

12/13/19: Chad Daybell and Lori Vallow call Melani Pawlowski to say Rexburg PD contacted two of Chad’s kids and threatened to exhume Tammy Daybell’s body. Per Ian, Chad and Lori seemed not to know the exhumation had already taken place already and thought the FBI’s involvement was a rumor and scare tactic (source).

12/16/19: Possible date Melanie Gibb was interviewed by Chandler Police (source).

12/17/19: Someone tries to log in to Tylee Ryan’s Facebook account from an IP address in California and Kansas (source).

12/22/19: Melani Pawlowski tells FBI agent Ricky Wright that she’s willing to make a written statement in an effort to “clear her name” because she was getting hateful texts from people. She asked also that some of her property be returned from Rexburg Police, such as a laptop, and that they help her get Christmas presents to her kids (source // photos).

10/25/19: Approximate day Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell are seen holding hands (source).

12/27/19: Chad Daybell and Lori Vallow are caught on surveillance by Kauai Police outside the home they were staying in when they fled (source).

1/30/20: Chandler Police turn over Lori Vallow’s iCloud records to the FBI (source).

2/17/20: The FBI receive tips from reporters that Chad Daybell and Lori Vallow move from Kauai to Maui, HI (source).

3/27/20: Chad applied for a permit to put a trailer on his property (source).

What About Data?

Great question! I took 2018 and 2019 off to write my Making Data Sexy books and planned to hit 2020 hard with new content for the blog. And then tragedy struck and followed me into 2020. As you can see from the timeline, the pace of the investigation has been dizzying because of the sheer number of deaths, sudden divorces, shotgun weddings, attempted murders, and disappearances. Hopefully Tylee and JJ will be found super soon (???) and I can get some semblance of normalcy back again. Or, at minimum, this timeline will slow down. I’ve been watching real crime TV for enough years to know that sometimes the wheels of justice move very slowly.

Whichever the case may be, I have a list of topics and guides I plan to start hitting as soon as I can come up for air.** Thank you for your patience and understanding.

**Update: I flew out of the gate with a monster guide to regular expressions for marketers, analysts, and anyone else who’s not a code monkey already rocking them.